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re: So my fiancee is being harassed at work. What do you do?

Posted on 12/13/17 at 5:37 pm to
Posted by YoungManOldMan
Member since Dec 2017
1882 posts
Posted on 12/13/17 at 5:37 pm to
I’m just going to tell her to either suck it up and kill them with kindness. To get friends, you have to show yourself friendly. And not everyone at work will like you.

She has a hard part with the last one.
Posted by birdieman
New Orleans
Member since Dec 2012
1647 posts
Posted on 12/13/17 at 5:39 pm to
she should stop being a bitch
Posted by windshieldman
Member since Nov 2012
12818 posts
Posted on 12/13/17 at 5:39 pm to
quote:

Tell a female she’s fat and later tell her she has t-Rex arms. Let me know which one blows up more in your face


Well I agree, I’m married, I know. The ultimate is the C word
Posted by birdieman
New Orleans
Member since Dec 2012
1647 posts
Posted on 12/13/17 at 5:39 pm to
she should stop being a bitch
Posted by FunroePete
The Big Cheezy
Member since Dec 2012
1531 posts
Posted on 12/13/17 at 5:40 pm to
so what did the workers say?
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
47777 posts
Posted on 12/13/17 at 5:40 pm to
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Oh no! Is your wife over the age of 10?


He has a wife too?
Posted by Rebel
Graceland
Member since Jan 2005
144685 posts
Posted on 12/13/17 at 5:41 pm to
Remind her to beware of people bearing gifts.

The only person that intentionally hurt her feelings is the woman that showed her the text.
Posted by lsufan112001
sportsmans paradise
Member since Oct 2006
11221 posts
Posted on 12/13/17 at 5:41 pm to
Well I agree, I’m married, I know. The ultimate is the C word
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That's a fact. They mortally hate the C word.

Not reading the other responses. Sounds like a shite stirrer who showed her the texts.
Posted by Palo Gaucho
Benton
Member since Jul 2013
3448 posts
Posted on 12/13/17 at 5:41 pm to
Tell her to suck it up. You sound like a little bitch for getting your pantries in a wad and wanting to run to HR
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
122548 posts
Posted on 12/13/17 at 5:44 pm to
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It honestly isn't worth repeating.


Actually, if you really looking for advice it is.

If they are referring to her as "giggles" because she laughs a lot thats one thing. If they are calling her "fluffy muff".. then that is different.
Posted by YoungManOldMan
Member since Dec 2017
1882 posts
Posted on 12/13/17 at 5:44 pm to
I’ll pass that on. I just never dealt with this crap. Sure when we had a bunch of dudes work together we called each other crap. Nobody took offense.

She just isn’t built like that. She is young in her career so hopefully this will just be a learning lesson. Some people are assholes but just be you and treat others with respect/kindness. Even if they don’t deserve it.
Posted by Rebel
Graceland
Member since Jan 2005
144685 posts
Posted on 12/13/17 at 5:45 pm to
They called T-Rex, Chris.

Posted by DeafJam73
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2010
19122 posts
Posted on 12/13/17 at 5:48 pm to
Tell her to make a report to HR. How can they retaliate against her? It's time for her to grow up and handle her shite.
Posted by 13SaintTiger
Isle of Capri
Member since Sep 2011
18419 posts
Posted on 12/13/17 at 5:49 pm to
7 pages? Lots of bites up in here
Posted by The Pirate King
Pangu
Member since May 2014
69783 posts
Posted on 12/13/17 at 5:50 pm to
quote:

Tell her to make a report to HR.


The quickest way in all of this to be universally disliked for the duration of her stay at this job.
Posted by idlewatcher
Planet Arium
Member since Jan 2012
98842 posts
Posted on 12/13/17 at 5:57 pm to
Only reasonable solution is to post her number here so our resident OT psychotherapists can lend a hand.
Posted by LCA131
Home of the Fake Sig lines
Member since Feb 2008
77721 posts
Posted on 12/13/17 at 5:59 pm to
Does she, in fact, have short stubby arms that stick out?

She could always come in to work and play it up. Once they know that she knows and doesn't really care, it will go away.
Posted by volnavy
Fair wind and following seas
Member since Jan 2009
824 posts
Posted on 12/13/17 at 6:00 pm to
Have your girlfriend get a pic of this guy, post it here, wait about 10 minutes and she will have all the ammo she needs her next day at work.
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
91874 posts
Posted on 12/13/17 at 6:04 pm to
quote:

We live in St. Louis. I just never dealt with anything like this. Making fun of someone's physical appearance is just out of bounds.

I wish it was something simple like calling her fat or anorexic.




You've got to be a troll. A day or two ago you were talking about how you were sexually assaulted/molested by an older man as a child, now you're starting threads about your fiancee getting teased at work.

ETA - If I would have waited 5 more replies I would have seen the T-Rex "insult". , obvious troll is obvious.
This post was edited on 12/13/17 at 6:06 pm
Posted by SoFla Tideroller
South Florida
Member since Apr 2010
41902 posts
Posted on 12/13/17 at 6:06 pm to
The next time you're drilling her and she's almost there, call her a "dirty little fricking (insert name of animal here)". She'll be your slave forever.
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