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re: Sleeping with other people keeps our marriage strong

Posted on 11/8/17 at 10:39 am to
Posted by Breesus
Unplug
Member since Jan 2010
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Posted on 11/8/17 at 10:39 am to
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just don't fathom how you could be cool with everyone knowing this.



I bet the company christmas party this year is awesome for him
Posted by Jorts R Us
Member since Aug 2013
18066 posts
Posted on 11/8/17 at 11:04 am to
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customer service adviser


Sounds like she is in the right field
Posted by whatshisface
Westside
Member since Jun 2012
278 posts
Posted on 11/8/17 at 11:25 am to
Beta AF
Posted by HeyHeyHogsAllTheWay
Member since Feb 2017
12458 posts
Posted on 11/8/17 at 12:01 pm to
There's nothing wrong with that girl that a good backhand wouldn't fix.

And some laser tattoo removal. Oh and a gym and a tanning booth.

Posted by Muthsera
Member since Jun 2017
7319 posts
Posted on 11/8/17 at 12:43 pm to
It can be a hard thing when couples bring in pros/randos to join them for a one time thing.

It gets harder when they start doing the couple swap thing.

Trying to maintain a relationship while you are both trying to bang other people sounds impossible.

Trying to juggle multiple relationships, not even just hookups, sounds like a humiliating disaster with the evidence being this guy.

I mean, seriously, think about all the women you know in your life - personally, professionally, whatever. How many would feel comfortable banging a married guy, even if he could prove to her it was wife-sanctioned? I'm gonna say < 5%, and given that this guy isn't exactly Brad Pitt, his odds of pulling anything on the side are infinitesimal.
Posted by PeterPeterP
Member since Jan 2013
781 posts
Posted on 11/8/17 at 12:43 pm to
Their genitalia must stink.
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
84835 posts
Posted on 11/8/17 at 12:45 pm to
Best post of the thread.
Posted by HeyHeyHogsAllTheWay
Member since Feb 2017
12458 posts
Posted on 11/8/17 at 12:45 pm to
quote:

It can be a hard thing when couples bring in pros/randos to join them for a one time thing.

It gets harder when they start doing the couple swap thing.

Trying to maintain a relationship while you are both trying to bang other people sounds impossible.

Trying to juggle multiple relationships, not even just hookups, sounds like a humiliating disaster with the evidence being this guy.

I mean, seriously, think about all the women you know in your life - personally, professionally, whatever. How many would feel comfortable banging a married guy, even if he could prove to her it was wife-sanctioned? I'm gonna say < 5%, and given that this guy isn't exactly Brad Pitt, his odds of pulling anything on the side are infinitesimal.


The ONLY way that dude is getting any side action is if his wife is making it a condition of a guy getting any pussy. IE you want to frick me , my man gets to frick your girl, and the other girl is whipped enough to agree to it.
Posted by ReauxlTide222
St. Petersburg
Member since Nov 2010
92383 posts
Posted on 11/8/17 at 12:47 pm to
Yeah, I see murder suicide in their future.
Posted by Muthsera
Member since Jun 2017
7319 posts
Posted on 11/8/17 at 12:50 pm to
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this was 100% her idea


You be surprised how many dumbass men think after a couple months or years of having regular sex with their wife/gf that they're God's gift to the puss.Missing the chase of the singles lifestyle, they beg their partner to "open things up". Then, reality sets in and they're getting lapped by their wives within a week and want to close things back up.
Posted by ReauxlTide222
St. Petersburg
Member since Nov 2010
92383 posts
Posted on 11/8/17 at 12:59 pm to
I always laugh(not to their face) at guys I know who break up with a girl and then lose their shite when she's getting dicked down 3 weeks later. You think you got game?

I promise, your girl has better game
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134318 posts
Posted on 11/8/17 at 1:05 pm to
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reality sets in and they're getting lapped by their wives within a week and want to close things back up.


Yuuup.

Dream arrangement for a couple if they can swing it (heh), but it'll end in sorrow 98 times put of 100.

Girls always have more game than guys. It's science.
Posted by StupidBinder
Jawja
Member since Oct 2017
6392 posts
Posted on 11/8/17 at 1:10 pm to
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You be surprised how many dumbass men think after a couple months or years of having regular sex with their wife/gf that they're God's gift to the puss.Missing the chase of the singles lifestyle, they beg their partner to "open things up". Then, reality sets in and they're getting lapped by their wives within a week and want to close things back up.


Jesus help us...is this really a thing?

Not sure whether to laugh or cry.
Posted by RLDSC FAN
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
Member since Nov 2008
61060 posts
Posted on 11/8/17 at 1:11 pm to
I know several swingers. Its really a lot more common than people think. And I believe it will only get bigger.
Posted by GeorgeQGlass
Austin
Member since Oct 2017
297 posts
Posted on 11/8/17 at 1:15 pm to
I certainly cannot cast judgement on anyone's relationship dynamics. It wouldn't surprise if having a side piece of some kind (or whatever you want to term) it, whether unbeknownst or knownst to the other party, helps a person remain happy in their marriage.

In this scenario, both parties have laid their cards on the table.

people cheat for all sorts of reasons. More people have cheated than are willing to admit. Guaranteed. People just wouldn't broadcast it on a message board. The ones who carry a "holier than thou" chip are the first ones to castigate the very thought of someone even cheating. Bottom line, whether I agree with it or not, infidelity happens and will continue to happen for a number of reasons.

What I do know is I can't cast judgement on anyone's elses relationship because I don't walk in their shoes nor do I care to.
Posted by StupidBinder
Jawja
Member since Oct 2017
6392 posts
Posted on 11/8/17 at 1:21 pm to
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In this scenario, both parties have laid their cards on the table.


I guarantee you that this guy isn’t happy with this arrangement and it wasn’t his idea.

She’s got 2 side pieces to his zero and he stated that sometimes he’s jealous of his wife’s lovers.

He’ll either snap out of it and leave at some point, or he’ll simply snap and hurt someone. Either way this ain’t healthy. That’s not judgment, that’s calling a spade a spade.
Posted by cajunangelle
Member since Oct 2012
171151 posts
Posted on 11/8/17 at 1:23 pm to
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GeorgeQGlass
Posted by Scruffy
Kansas City
Member since Jul 2011
78048 posts
Posted on 11/8/17 at 1:24 pm to
There is also the issue of a child of theirs not being his and he gets roped into caring for it.
Posted by Fun Bunch
New Orleans
Member since May 2008
131832 posts
Posted on 11/8/17 at 1:25 pm to
Yeah this isn’t swinging. He’s being cucked.
Posted by IT_Dawg
Georgia
Member since Oct 2012
26817 posts
Posted on 11/8/17 at 1:26 pm to
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What I do know is I can't cast judgement on anyone's elses relationship because I don't walk in their shoes nor do I care to.


Glad to hear you aren’t a liberal
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