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re: Scenario: If you were dating a girl for <1 year, got her pregnant- Would you marry?
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:21 am to poncho villa
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:21 am to poncho villa
If I thought it was heading that way anyway, yes. Still a risk 1 year in but it's your fault and making a nice girl into a single mom has the potential to impact her future prospects more than yours.
I'm sure most of us know decently educated single moms from decent families who aren't struggling financially, but who end up in a cycle of woe-is-me attention whoring and desperation, which is almost impossible to pull out of and find a decent husband and start a normal family. Watching it develop on social media in real time is pretty depressing.
I'm sure most of us know decently educated single moms from decent families who aren't struggling financially, but who end up in a cycle of woe-is-me attention whoring and desperation, which is almost impossible to pull out of and find a decent husband and start a normal family. Watching it develop on social media in real time is pretty depressing.
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Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:23 am to theunknownknight
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This post was edited on 12/18/21 at 10:08 am
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:23 am to poncho villa
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Would you marry?
Maybe eventually but not just because she got pregnant. This isn't the 1950's anymore.
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:24 am to poncho villa
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decided that you wouldn't mind marrying her in the first place
I laughed
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:26 am to poncho villa
If you've been dating that long, you know she's marriage material. Suck it up and do the right thing.
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:27 am to poncho villa
Offer to pay for the abortion. If I'm dating someone for any length of time, we'd likely be in agreement that we never want to have kids.
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:28 am to Pettifogger
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If I thought it was heading that way anyway, yes. Still a risk 1 year in but it's your fault and making a nice girl into a single mom has the potential to impact her future prospects more than yours.
This.
If you knock up a girl, it is on you, period. You are not the victim. This victim culture we have is turning men into giant p*ssies who will do anything to avoid the consequences of their actions.
If you don't want to marry a girl who you just met don't get her pregnant.
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:28 am to baldona
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On a similar note, a woman has to be completely fricking stupid to let someone cum inside her if she isn’t using reliable birth control or willing to take plan B.
Many women want babies or a meal ticket. Never trust them to do their part. Always wrap it up.
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:30 am to poncho villa
Absolutely fricking not.
Co-parenting is easy. I do it now.
I know what it’s like to have a woman say she is done and just not want to be married anymore.
Guess why? I lost half my shite and laid out way more than that in the end.
So shite no. I would have much rather had to do the court thing to make sure i got my 50/50 custody long before i ever gave a woman shite she didn’t deserve just cause she continued breathing
Co-parenting is easy. I do it now.
I know what it’s like to have a woman say she is done and just not want to be married anymore.
Guess why? I lost half my shite and laid out way more than that in the end.
So shite no. I would have much rather had to do the court thing to make sure i got my 50/50 custody long before i ever gave a woman shite she didn’t deserve just cause she continued breathing
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:31 am to poncho villa
Before I had kids I would’ve said hell no. Now that I have kids, I couldn’t imagine not seeing them everyday and just whenever I want.
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:32 am to Saint Alfonzo
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there's not enough information to make a decision.
I agree. For all we know he could be holding her hostage and raping her on the regular. I cringe thinking what he might consider “marriage.”
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:33 am to RebelExpress38
quote:How are you contributing to "baby mamas on welfare and kids growing up without dads" if you pay child support and take an active role in raising your child?
People who say no in this situation are the reason the US is crippled by baby mamas on welfare and kids growing up without dads. Actions have consequences.
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:33 am to poncho villa
Need a law that if a woman kills a man who is not married to her and can show by free genetic testing that her baby was his child too, she gets $300,000 paid out over 20 years and no jail time.
If she says he raped her, it is $500,000.
If they sign a notarized contract for sex, the deal is off.
Men would get a lot more careful if there were actual coincidences. donor organs would be more plentiful too.
If she says he raped her, it is $500,000.
If they sign a notarized contract for sex, the deal is off.
Men would get a lot more careful if there were actual coincidences. donor organs would be more plentiful too.
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:35 am to MeridianDog
WTF?
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:37 am to pvilleguru
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Offer to pay for the abortion. If I'm dating someone for any length of time, we'd likely be in agreement that we never want to have kids.
Harsh, but probably better than having a completely miserable human being as a father
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:37 am to Kentucker
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I agree. For all we know he could be holding her hostage and raping her on the regular. I cringe thinking what he might consider “marriage.”
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:37 am to theunknownknight
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How hot?
exactly
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:38 am to poncho villa
Marriage choice needs to be made independently but when lean heavily make her honest woman if I wanted to marry
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:38 am to RebelExpress38
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If you knock up a girl, it is on you, period. You are not the victim. This victim culture we have is turning men into giant p*ssies who will do anything to avoid the consequences of their actions.
If you don't want to marry a girl who you just met don't get her pregnant.
Ok, but girls also have every avenue possible to prevent this from happening (birth control, plan b, early abortion is pretty much taking a pill). As another poster said, this isnt the 1950s. Its evenly on both parties but the male usually has little to zero say in the matter but expects to bear the full burden (financially anyway).
This post was edited on 7/6/21 at 8:39 am
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:40 am to Pettifogger
How's it harsh if neither of us wanted a kid in the first place?
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