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Recent college grads - is this experience the norm?

Posted on 2/10/20 at 10:11 am
Posted by The Spleen
Member since Dec 2010
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Posted on 2/10/20 at 10:11 am
Or maybe even not so recent graduates that have relocated recently.

I have a cousin that graduated this past December. He just finished an internship a few weeks ago, and the place he was interning at offered him a permanent position at their office in a different state. The internship was paid, but not much. Think it was around $15 per hour. Not really enough to save much, and it was only a 4 month internship anyway.

So he went to the city his job will be located to find a place to live and get it all set up. After all the deposits required, a couple of pieces of furniture, moving expenses, apartment amenities, etc., it's going to cost him around $3,000. He's fortunate his parents can help him out with some of those expenses, and he certainly could do without some furniture right now, but that just seemed crazy to me. What do graduates do that don't have parents to rely on for help? His parents also had to sign the lease with him because he has no credit history. Just wondering if some of these issues are potential barriers to folks re-locating for better opportunities.

Posted by yankeeundercover
Buffalo, NY
Member since Jan 2010
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Posted on 2/10/20 at 10:13 am to
Is he bitching about having a “paid internship”?!

Welcome to the adult world, kid.
Posted by Pelican fan99
Lafayette, Louisiana
Member since Jun 2013
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Posted on 2/10/20 at 10:13 am to
His company didn’t pay his moving expenses?
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Posted on 2/10/20 at 10:13 am to
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What do graduates do that don't have parents to rely on for help?


Negotiate relocation expenses as part of the job offer.

Get a different job.

Put it on a credit card
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
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Member since May 2012
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Posted on 2/10/20 at 10:14 am to
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What do graduates do that don't have parents to rely on for help?
pay for everything with the relocation / signing bonus
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
62850 posts
Posted on 2/10/20 at 10:15 am to
Are you questioning whether it's common to have expenses related to a move?

Some folks are able to negotiate moving assistance with the hiring company. As far as needing a lease co-signor, there are alternatives. Roommates, non-traditional living arrangements (e.g. FRBO, sub-leasing, etc.)
Posted by Ed Osteen
Member since Oct 2007
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Posted on 2/10/20 at 10:16 am to
quote:

So he went to the city his job will be located to find a place to live and get it all set up. After all the deposits required, a couple of pieces of furniture, moving expenses, apartment amenities, etc., it's going to cost him around $3,000.


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but that just seemed crazy to me.


Same, it only cost him 3k to move to a new city, pay rent, get utilities set up, and buy new furniture?
This post was edited on 2/10/20 at 10:17 am
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
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Posted on 2/10/20 at 10:16 am to
is it not commonplace for new graduates to sleep on a mattress and have lawn furniture anymore?

most of my furniture from my first apartment were either from garage sale or hand-me-downs
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Posted on 2/10/20 at 10:17 am to
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most of my furniture from my first apartment were either from garage sale or hand-me-downs




I still have some hand me downs in my house now They're really nice hand me downs, but still.
Posted by RougeDawg
Member since Jul 2016
5816 posts
Posted on 2/10/20 at 10:17 am to
When I graduated I moved to a different city and brought a cot and a lamp. Got me by fine for two weeks before my first paycheck. Most of my calories were from beer.
Posted by rowbear1922
Lake Chuck, LA
Member since Oct 2008
15165 posts
Posted on 2/10/20 at 10:17 am to
I know when I graduated and was asked to move; the company paid any moving expenses. That wouldn't cover deposit or furniture though.
Posted by WaydownSouth
Stratton Oakmont
Member since Nov 2018
8134 posts
Posted on 2/10/20 at 10:18 am to
Yup. The norm for sure. About 4 weeks after I paid 2-3k to move to NM for a job, my dream job I interviewed in FL for called and said they had a position for me. I couldn’t afford to move across the country again.

Fortunately for my recent move. i have been working for 7 months and saved up enough to fund a move
Posted by The Spleen
Member since Dec 2010
38865 posts
Posted on 2/10/20 at 10:18 am to
quote:

His company didn’t pay his moving expenses?



He got a $1,000 signing bonus, and I think they're reimbursing some of them expenses, but not all. On his apartment he had to pay security deposit and first month's rent, which is most of that $3000 figure. He said the apartment he rented isn't all that nice or new, and it was on the lower end of what he looked at. One bedroom for $1350 per month. This is in Chicago.


And no, he wasn't bitching about it at all. He assumed it was all normal, and I guess it is. I re-located after college, and didn't pay much at all. But this was over 20 years ago.
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
Member since Nov 2016
37437 posts
Posted on 2/10/20 at 10:19 am to
Do without some furniture
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
38940 posts
Posted on 2/10/20 at 10:21 am to
I got a 4K relocation package with my first job. I just brought the shitty furniture I had.
Posted by LSUBoo
Knoxville, TN
Member since Mar 2006
101915 posts
Posted on 2/10/20 at 10:21 am to
quote:

most of my furniture from my first apartment were either from garage sale or hand-me-downs


Pretty much everything I had in my first post-grad apartment was second hand.
Posted by notsince98
KC, MO
Member since Oct 2012
17954 posts
Posted on 2/10/20 at 10:21 am to
quote:

What do graduates do that don't have parents to rely on for help?


In my case, I lived like I was in college for the first few years of the real world.
Posted by Centinel
Idaho
Member since Sep 2016
43318 posts
Posted on 2/10/20 at 10:21 am to
quote:

His company didn’t pay his moving expenses?


For an entry level job? I honestly have never heard of an entry level job coming with a relocation expense.

Posted by Mr Personality
Bangkok
Member since Mar 2014
27364 posts
Posted on 2/10/20 at 10:22 am to
This kid sounds very soy
Posted by NYNolaguy1
Member since May 2011
20869 posts
Posted on 2/10/20 at 10:22 am to
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When I graduated I moved to a different city and brought a cot and a lamp. Got me by fine for two weeks before my first paycheck. Most of my calories were from beer.


This. My mattress was on the floor for at least a month.

I sold my car to pay first and last month rent, security deposit and moving fees. Cost about $8k total, and that was 10 years ago.

Granted I lived in a city where you dont need a car.
This post was edited on 2/10/20 at 10:24 am
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