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Posted on 7/23/18 at 4:48 pm to
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
91873 posts
Posted on 7/23/18 at 4:48 pm to
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just remember: you're basically flipping a coin that the marriage will work out well. good luck.



In all seriousness, this isn't exactly true. If you're both mature and understand what you're getting yourself into, you have a far greater chance of avoiding divorce than 50%.

That 50% figure combines tons of wtf marriages that drag down the number. I know because I was in one.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
76153 posts
Posted on 7/23/18 at 4:49 pm to
quote:

I am surprising my bawette with a marriage proposal next Saturday in Nola during the day.


Congrats: Give him a Han job from Owlie.
Posted by TigersSEC2010
Warren, Michigan
Member since Jan 2010
38535 posts
Posted on 7/23/18 at 4:49 pm to
I hope she says no
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
172004 posts
Posted on 7/23/18 at 4:49 pm to
That figure includes my uncle and his 13 marriages.
Posted by rowbear1922
Houston, TX
Member since Oct 2008
15825 posts
Posted on 7/23/18 at 4:49 pm to
I am showing up just to ruin your attempt. I’ll sweep the leg then steal ya girl.
Posted by Sao
East Texas Piney Woods
Member since Jun 2009
68469 posts
Posted on 7/23/18 at 4:49 pm to
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dukke v


Peej... will this marriage last more than 7 years?

Y or N
Posted by CajunInFL
New Orleans, LA
Member since May 2007
2118 posts
Posted on 7/23/18 at 4:50 pm to
Be prepared for swamp arse. It gets hot down here in August...
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
26324 posts
Posted on 7/23/18 at 4:52 pm to
Did you review her credit report yet?
Posted by Carson123987
Middle Court at the Rec
Member since Jul 2011
68242 posts
Posted on 7/23/18 at 4:52 pm to
quote:

In all seriousness, this isn't exactly true. If you're both mature and understand what you're getting yourself into, you have a far greater chance of avoiding divorce than 50%.

That 50% figure combines tons of wtf marriages that drag down the number. I know because I was in one.


i know lol, im joking (but not really)

of my 10 immediate coworkers, 7 are divorced/remarried
Posted by JDogg33
Member since Oct 2017
405 posts
Posted on 7/23/18 at 4:53 pm to
Are pre-nups valid in Louisiana?
Posted by castorinho
13623 posts
Member since Nov 2010
88339 posts
Posted on 7/23/18 at 4:54 pm to
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It's going to be a disaster 66.7% of the time.
quote:

There are only two possible outcomes - either it works or it doesn't.
shite we're taking it over here?
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 7/23/18 at 4:54 pm to
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I am surprising my bawette with a marriage proposal next Saturday in Nola during the day. I am sitting here nervous and excited thinking about it. O-T faithful, help calm me down with rational thought. Everything is set and in place and ready for execution on August 4th

I’ll tell you whether or not you should be nervous. First I need a few answers:

How long have you been together?
How old are each of you?
What’s your level of education? What’s hers?
Do either of you have children?

Let me help you
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
91873 posts
Posted on 7/23/18 at 4:55 pm to
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That figure includes my uncle and his 13 marriages.




exactly.

The divorce rate for first marriages is actually closer to 30%.
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
47709 posts
Posted on 7/23/18 at 4:55 pm to
How fat is her mom?
Posted by Loungefly85
Lafayette
Member since Jul 2016
7930 posts
Posted on 7/23/18 at 4:56 pm to
I’m reject it just on the principle that you say “NOLA”.
Posted by Barbellthor
Columbia
Member since Aug 2015
11577 posts
Posted on 7/23/18 at 4:57 pm to
quote:

I am surprising my bawette with a marriage proposal next Saturday in Nola during the day. I am sitting here nervous and excited thinking about it. O-T faithful, help calm me down with rational thought. Everything is set and in place and ready for execution on August 4th

Haven't been there yet, but I think that you won't be nervous if it's the right one and time. You should just be excited.
Posted by castorinho
13623 posts
Member since Nov 2010
88339 posts
Posted on 7/23/18 at 4:57 pm to
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The divorce rate for first marriages
Just give it time
Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
87740 posts
Posted on 7/23/18 at 4:58 pm to
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Don't get too caught up with making sure everything goes 100% to plan



If you can live by this like 95% of engagement/wedding related stress will evaporate.

I was fully conscious that most of that stress is self-induced but it got to me anyway.

For engagements, keeping it simple is great. If you think you can do a simple proposal (it doesn't have to be cheap, just not a grand gesture) and she'll like it, it also bodes well for the type of person she is, IMO.
Posted by X123F45
Dictated not Read
Member since Apr 2015
30030 posts
Posted on 7/23/18 at 5:00 pm to
If she has any of these things, run away.

Daddy issues
Bad credit
Poor impulse control
Crazy eyes
Any sort of psychological issues
A poor relationship with her family
Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
87740 posts
Posted on 7/23/18 at 5:00 pm to
quote:

Haven't been there yet, but I think that you won't be nervous if it's the right one and time. You should just be excited.



Don't freak him out

I was nervous, although not overly so. Maybe anxious is a better way to describe. If you've put a lot of thought into something, regardless of you have any real concern of a disaster, you'll have some nervousness most likely that accompanies investing in something so much.
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