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Posted on 10/17/18 at 12:51 pm to
Posted by bawbarn
Member since Jul 2012
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Posted on 10/17/18 at 12:51 pm to
Schools need to let some arse whippings happen without the BS suspension or detention. Deal with each case individually and do not have a blanket punishment for everyone. If you see a kid defended himself against being bullied by fighting, his punishment shouldn't be as harsh as a bully beating up a kid he's bullying.
Posted by Hammertime
Will trade dowsing rod for titties
Member since Jan 2012
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Posted on 10/17/18 at 12:51 pm to
I was suspended and expelled several times for beating up bullies. Reasoning....the bully's parents would complain that I was bullying them. At every school, the administrators knew who the bullies were. Unless there is a fight, they very rarely do anything.

Tell the kid to grow a pair and start picking on the bully. If he doesn't mind getting in trouble, throw hands with him. If he does get in a fight, make sure he loses. The losers always get sympathy
Posted by i am dan
NC
Member since Aug 2011
24733 posts
Posted on 10/17/18 at 12:55 pm to
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Then I as the father would go to his house, beat the shite out of his dad infront of the kid, and tell the kid it's his fault his dad just got fricked up. And that if he messed with my kid again, I'm coming back to beat his dad's arse again.


You sound so damn stupid.
Posted by Lester Earl
Member since Nov 2003
278389 posts
Posted on 10/17/18 at 12:56 pm to
What are they bullying the kid over? A lot of times these kids getting bullied are instigators
Posted by i am dan
NC
Member since Aug 2011
24733 posts
Posted on 10/17/18 at 12:58 pm to
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Middle schoolers ain't that strong.


Middle schooler my son went to school with in in juvey right now for putting a gun to his mother's chest and threatening to kill her. Kids definitely grow up faster these days.

And have you seen some of these middle schoolers? They're pretty much as big as adults.
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32711 posts
Posted on 10/17/18 at 12:58 pm to
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Middle schooler my son went to school with in in juvey right now for putting a gun to his mother's chest and threatening to kill her. Kids definitely grow up faster these days.

Well that totally isn't the same thing....
Posted by BeerMoney
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2012
8375 posts
Posted on 10/17/18 at 12:59 pm to
I was bullied in grade school. My parents put me in judo. A few months later my mom was called because I was threatening to beat up the bully.

The bullied kid has to learn how to defend themselves. The bully’s parents need to know what’s happening so they can fix it.
Posted by TheHarahanian
Actually not Harahan as of 6/2023
Member since May 2017
19519 posts
Posted on 10/17/18 at 12:59 pm to
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Real Talk About Bullying


Stop hitting yourself. Stop hitting yourself. Stop hitting yourself. Stop hitting yourself. Stop hitting yourself. Stop hitting yourself.
Posted by lsu1919
Member since May 2017
3244 posts
Posted on 10/17/18 at 1:02 pm to
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Parent has told child to try not to administer a second arse-whipping.


Problem found.
Posted by theunknownknight
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2005
57313 posts
Posted on 10/17/18 at 1:05 pm to
Real talk: bullying today is not like when we were kids

Used to be able to get away from it and recharge with family. People move on

Now it’s 24/7 with social media and bullied kids can become high school memes

No escape
This post was edited on 10/17/18 at 1:10 pm
Posted by Brazos
Member since Oct 2013
20360 posts
Posted on 10/17/18 at 1:10 pm to
I’ve always taught my kids if they get get bullied to punch the fckr square in the mouth right off the bat. I’ll deal with the consequences from the school. On the flip side I’ve always said if I find out you are doing the bullying then there will be hell to pay.
Posted by Tiger Prawn
Member since Dec 2016
21896 posts
Posted on 10/17/18 at 1:12 pm to
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Kid has been previously suspended because he beat up one of the other kids bullying him. That doesn't appear to have stopped the bullying. Parent has told child to try not to administer a second arse-whipping.


Sounds like a 2nd arse whipping is whats needed. And the kid currently being bullied needs to talk some shite to the bully who's arse he already beat once.
Posted by lsu1919
Member since May 2017
3244 posts
Posted on 10/17/18 at 1:15 pm to
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she later told him she would puke on him every day until he stopped.


This kind of outside the box thinking is what great leaders are made of.
Posted by RedPop4
Santiago de Compostela
Member since Jan 2005
14406 posts
Posted on 10/17/18 at 1:18 pm to
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I can’t fault the father for raising serious concerns in a world where more kids seem to think suicide is okay than ever before. I’d be more concerned if the father didn’t give a shite. Let him be a good, concerned dad.


This right here.
One answer is to throw down and take care of it. As we have seen here in the OT, the stories are numerous of the bullied kid doing something about it, and getting "zero-toleranced" into a suspension or an expulsion while the bully gets off scot-free and continues.

It has happened in my family, where the bullies get off with no consequences in, supposedly "no-bully zones." It is beyond frustrating. It is scary if you have a child that may suffer from real, bio-chemical or medical depression and can not simply "sack-up" because his biochemistry will not allow it. Or, if he blows his stack, he will suffer from school discipline.

Worse yet, the child may internalize it and it gets added to the narrative already in their mind, and lead them to suicide. It is nothing to play about with any longer.
Posted by BlackAdam
Member since Jan 2016
6450 posts
Posted on 10/17/18 at 1:20 pm to
The answer is jiu jitsu. The arse whoopings handed out from a healthy knowledge of jiu jitsu will look like the kid kicking the arse is in the defensive position. It will get sympathy from the teachers who break up the fight.

Worked for me in jr. high.
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
65907 posts
Posted on 10/17/18 at 1:20 pm to
This is trist middle in chalmette, ehhh meraux?
This post was edited on 10/17/18 at 1:21 pm
Posted by windshieldman
Member since Nov 2012
12818 posts
Posted on 10/17/18 at 1:26 pm to
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Then I as the father would go to his house, beat the shite out of his dad infront of the kid, and tell the kid it's his fault his dad just got fricked up. And that if he messed with my kid again, I'm coming back to beat his dad's arse again


You ain’t gonna do shite but cry like a bitch when your son comes home with bruises.
Posted by 14&Counting
Eugene, OR
Member since Jul 2012
37628 posts
Posted on 10/17/18 at 1:28 pm to
Call out the bullys parents and demand it stop. Speak to the cops if you have to before it gets too far.
Posted by jdavid1
Member since Jan 2014
2466 posts
Posted on 10/17/18 at 1:32 pm to
Posted by Hammertime
Will trade dowsing rod for titties
Member since Jan 2012
43030 posts
Posted on 10/17/18 at 1:35 pm to
Honestly, if your kid isn't prepared to be suspended or expelled, he can't defend himself at all. He'll just have to tolerate being beat up, and go tattle when he has marks. Doesn't matter who backs up his story (teachers and students), whoever dishes out the best beating will always get in the most trouble.

Or you could call the school and say your kid has been depressed, scared to go to school, and suicidal because of the bullying. Start crying and include suicide, bully, and the school name as many times as possible into the conversation as you can
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