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re: Question for the OT… GF, EX wife and pictures.

Posted on 6/24/26 at 1:46 pm to
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
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Posted on 6/24/26 at 1:46 pm to
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This thread made me go hug my wife


same, I went and hugged your wife too
Posted by Funky Tide 8
Bayou Chico
Member since Feb 2009
57062 posts
Posted on 6/24/26 at 1:48 pm to
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The exchanging of pictures is passive-aggressive behavior.

There is no reason for you to be exchanging friendly text messages with your ex-wife. The only reasons you should communicate with each other are for issues that involve the health and wellbeing of your daughter, or for making exchange of custody arrangements.

Otherwise, she doesn't need to know about anything that is going on in your life, and you don't need to know about anything that is going on in her life.

Also, your GF posting about your relationship issues on Facebook is a really bad sign.

tl;dr - stop exchanging pictures with your ex-wife and dump your current GF.


pretty much this.

It doesn't matter what we think, or what is rational and logical, pretty much all females are at their core possessive, and will get jealous when you are being friendly and communicative with another female. Even if they say they aren't, they are.

However, making public social media posts about personal matters between you and her is a massive red flag, and a sign of a lack of self-awareness, and decision making.
This post was edited on 6/24/26 at 1:58 pm
Posted by SallysHuman
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Member since Jan 2025
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Posted on 6/24/26 at 1:51 pm to
I don't blame GF taking issues with your (available) ex sending selfies to you.

Kid pictures, okay... anything more isn't a good idea.

Female perspective here: You liked ex enough once to marry her and make a baby with her, ex is available, probably thirsty as hell... huge red flag to your GF.

Now, as to GF posting this hot mess on FB, I'd say it's also a red flag and trashy... but, then again, here you are doing the same.

Tell the ex to cool it, tell the GF to get a grip... don't allow the drama to continue, there's a precious little girl that needs you assholes to act like adults with some sense.

Posted by BabyTac
Austin, TX
Member since Jun 2008
16868 posts
Posted on 6/24/26 at 1:53 pm to
Why do trashy people get divorced with kids then jump into other relationships?

Once you have kids, your priority is family and kids, not getting your dick wet and setting yourself up for another divorce and worse situation with any kids involved.
This post was edited on 6/24/26 at 1:54 pm
Posted by BeachDude022
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Member since Dec 2006
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Posted on 6/24/26 at 1:54 pm to
This has red flags everywhere. Run like hell.
Posted by PhifeDogg
Member since Mar 2006
6313 posts
Posted on 6/24/26 at 1:57 pm to
Tell the insecure gf to frick off. How old is she? You're not telling your ex to stop sending pics of your kid.
Posted by Funky Tide 8
Bayou Chico
Member since Feb 2009
57062 posts
Posted on 6/24/26 at 1:57 pm to
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Now, as to GF posting this hot mess on FB, I'd say it's also a red flag and trashy... but, then again, here you are doing the same.


Making a post under your name on FB that will be broadcasted to all of your friends and family that are on FB is a bit different than posting anonymously on a message board.
Posted by TigerIron
Member since Feb 2021
4057 posts
Posted on 6/24/26 at 1:58 pm to
quote:

The exchanging of pictures is passive-aggressive behavior.

There is no reason for you to be exchanging friendly text messages with your ex-wife. The only reasons you should communicate with each other are for issues that involve the health and wellbeing of your daughter, or for making exchange of custody arrangements.


This is insane. If his daughter is doing something and the ex-wife sends a picture, that's a problem?

Not every ex-couple can get along and stay friendly, but it's better and better for the kids when they do. There will come a time when the kid is going to want to try to divide and conquer, and if the parents are at least cordial and can discuss there is a much better chance of it not going haywire.
Posted by SallysHuman
Lady Palmetto Bug
Member since Jan 2025
23662 posts
Posted on 6/24/26 at 1:59 pm to
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Making a post under your name on FB that will be broadcasted to all of your friends and family that are on FB is a bit different than posting anonymously on a message board.


Maybe.

They're still both out there trying to gather teams for their side rather than actually put heads and hearts together to work this out.
Posted by cgrand
HAMMOND
Member since Oct 2009
49814 posts
Posted on 6/24/26 at 2:00 pm to
I’ll be honest I skimmed your post and could not make heads or tails out of it, no earthly idea what you are talking about. I went back to read it more carefully and then realized I don’t give a shite because there’s no pictures of your GF
Posted by Funky Tide 8
Bayou Chico
Member since Feb 2009
57062 posts
Posted on 6/24/26 at 2:01 pm to
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You're not telling your ex to stop sending pics of your kid.


His ex is likely sending pics of the kid to him only to self-serve though. She isn't doing just for the sake of sending him a picture of his kid. There's something else there.
This post was edited on 6/24/26 at 2:02 pm
Posted by Stinger_1066
On a golf course
Member since Jul 2021
3000 posts
Posted on 6/24/26 at 2:03 pm to
quote:

This is insane. If his daughter is doing something and the ex-wife sends a picture, that's a problem?

Not every ex-couple can get along and stay friendly, but it's better and better for the kids when they do. There will come a time when the kid is going to want to try to divide and conquer, and if the parents are at least cordial and can discuss there is a much better chance of it not going haywire.


There are different approaches.

I was never in that situation, but I've been told that the best approach is to maintain nothing more than a business-like relationship with your ex.
Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
30025 posts
Posted on 6/24/26 at 2:05 pm to
Which one has the biggest titties ?
Posted by Stinger_1066
On a golf course
Member since Jul 2021
3000 posts
Posted on 6/24/26 at 2:05 pm to
quote:

His ex is likely sending pics of the kid to him only to self-serve though. She isn't doing just for the sake of sending him a picture of his kid. There's something else there.


I agree. That is why I called it "passive-aggressive" behavior.

By exchanging pictures, they're trying to one-up each other.
This post was edited on 6/24/26 at 2:07 pm
Posted by Swamp Frog x
Member since Nov 2024
1032 posts
Posted on 6/24/26 at 2:28 pm to
It shouldn’t be a big deal if it is kept to a minimum. If you and her send pics on a rare occasion of a cool moment, the GF shouldn’t have a problem.

If this pic sending happens multiple times a week and it’s just selfies on the couch then I would say that’s a bit odd and the GF maybe has a right to be concerned.
This post was edited on 6/24/26 at 2:34 pm
Posted by Bert Macklin FBI
Quantico
Member since May 2013
12358 posts
Posted on 6/24/26 at 2:43 pm to
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Stop sending pics dumbass.


Its pics of his daughter to his daughters mother...

quote:

I get the gf is insecure but what of she started sending pics of herself and your child to another guy?


Him sending and receiving pics of his daughter to/from his daughters mother is not the same as his GF sending pics of HIS daughter (not hers) to a random ex...

quote:

Did I just fall for a troll thread?


No but you are an idiot.

Edit: I made the mistake of thinking this was an innocent man that just wanted to see pics of his daughter that he doesn't see enough but I was wrong. You were right. I am the idiot.
This post was edited on 6/24/26 at 3:31 pm
Posted by andwesway
Zachary, LA
Member since Jun 2016
3552 posts
Posted on 6/24/26 at 2:43 pm to
How badly would you like a second ex-wife? Sounds like you're well on your way if that's a personal goal of yours.
Posted by Bert Macklin FBI
Quantico
Member since May 2013
12358 posts
Posted on 6/24/26 at 2:46 pm to
quote:

it’s just selfies on the couch then I would say that’s a bit odd


I assumed its like her and the daughter doing things. If its couch selfies, then yeah thats something else.
Posted by GeauxTigers0107
We Coming
Member since Oct 2009
11065 posts
Posted on 6/24/26 at 2:49 pm to
You're obviously not very good at picking 'em. Because this...

quote:

she checks my phone.


is 100% a deal-breaker for me.

Run.

And don't look back.
Posted by UpToPar
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
22988 posts
Posted on 6/24/26 at 2:53 pm to
This is probably not a big deal and your GF needs to calm down.



This is a little different.

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