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re: Question for the OT… GF, EX wife and pictures.

Posted on 6/24/26 at 2:53 pm to
Posted by Rick9Plus
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2020
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Posted on 6/24/26 at 2:53 pm to
Sounds like you and your ex both have poor personal boundaries, which is why you are in this mess. Ex knows what she’s doing sending pics that almost always have her in them. Do you never see your kid? I get if the pic is something like a graduation or something special, but why this friendly back-and forth? How does your kid benefit from it? The answer is she doesn’t. These pics are for you and your ex, and you enjoy the back and forth.

Now your gf checking your phone and the FB post are extra. TBH, gf doesn’t trust you. Maybe not to sleep with ex or maybe just not to seek attention from your ex or give attention to your ex. You should prob break up for both your sakes.
Posted by GeauxtigersMs36
The coast
Member since Jan 2018
13388 posts
Posted on 6/24/26 at 2:58 pm to
You have no idea.
Posted by GeauxtigersMs36
The coast
Member since Jan 2018
13388 posts
Posted on 6/24/26 at 2:59 pm to
Well neither lives in a trailer… I have my house she has hers.
Posted by GeauxtigersMs36
The coast
Member since Jan 2018
13388 posts
Posted on 6/24/26 at 3:02 pm to
Thank you for your post. I see my kid just about every day. I can stop by even on days she’s not obligated on my way home from work. I pretty much get my daughter just about every weekend and see her at least once during the week for dinner just us.
Posted by 3deadtrolls
lafayette
Member since Jan 2014
6983 posts
Posted on 6/24/26 at 3:10 pm to
Stay with this woman and you will soon have two ex wives to send pictures to.
Posted by Rick9Plus
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2020
2516 posts
Posted on 6/24/26 at 3:16 pm to
quote:

Thank you for your post. I see my kid just about every day. I can stop by even on days she’s not obligated on my way home from work. I pretty much get my daughter just about every weekend and see her at least once during the week for dinner just us.


If you want to move forward with a new relationship that works, you should have a set or at least mostly regular custody schedule and better boundaries with your ex. Communication about the kid and communication that is *for* the kid are two different things. Unless you get with a woman who understands because she has a similarly loose and messy relationship with a guy from her past. But as for this relationship - by the time you are both posting online about your problems, it’s probably over.

ETA you could just get back with your ex. Give your kid an intact family. Sounds like you guys get along well.
This post was edited on 6/24/26 at 3:22 pm
Posted by Bert Macklin FBI
Quantico
Member since May 2013
12358 posts
Posted on 6/24/26 at 3:27 pm to
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I see my kid just about every day. I can stop by even on days she’s not obligated on my way home from work. I pretty much get my daughter just about every weekend and see her at least once during the week for dinner just us.


This sounds great for you and your daughter but this is messy af for someone else to just accept as part of your relationship. The green light to come and go as you'd liek plus frequent pics, It seems like you probably would go back to your ex.

I'm on team GF now. Set up some boundaries or just be single.

Also the pictures may be what the argument is about but the issue is the fact that you seemingly have 2 GFs even if you only sleep with one of them.

This post was edited on 6/24/26 at 3:33 pm
Posted by Rick9Plus
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2020
2516 posts
Posted on 6/24/26 at 3:33 pm to
quote:

I'm on team GF now. Set up some boundaries or just be single.


Or get back with ex. If they like each other that much, why subject their kid to a parade of step gfs and mom’s boyfriends.
Posted by StrongOffer
Member since Sep 2020
7074 posts
Posted on 6/24/26 at 3:35 pm to
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My Gf and I get in an argument because my ex wife will send pictures of our daughter and her
quote:

my exs other daughter
Trashy
Posted by dawginar
Member since Jan 2012
1214 posts
Posted on 6/24/26 at 3:40 pm to
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Trashy


quote:

O-T Lounge


You don't say
Posted by jeffsdad
Member since Mar 2007
25076 posts
Posted on 6/24/26 at 3:43 pm to
Posted by GeauxtigersMs36

Why is everyone assuming this is posted by a man?

I would guess its posted by a 36 year old unmarried female that likes LSU
This post was edited on 6/24/26 at 3:48 pm
Posted by Finch
Member since Jun 2015
3752 posts
Posted on 6/24/26 at 3:44 pm to
quote:

Question for the OT… GF, EX wife and pictures.


R/A’ed for misleading title. There are in fact no pictures
Posted by Rick9Plus
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2020
2516 posts
Posted on 6/24/26 at 4:08 pm to
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my exs other daughter


Nvm, if OP gets back with his ex he’ll have to deal with her other baby daddy popping over on his way home from work every day and sending pics of himself.
Posted by chryso
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2008
13811 posts
Posted on 6/24/26 at 4:19 pm to
It sounds like this GF should become an ex.
Posted by TygerTyger
Houston
Member since Oct 2010
11269 posts
Posted on 6/24/26 at 4:25 pm to
Is she having her period?

This sounds like irrational feelings over logic driven behavior.

Reassure her as lovingly as possible that you’re committed to her and have no intentions of going back to the ex.

Then give her some chocolate and red wine.
Posted by Stinger_1066
On a golf course
Member since Jul 2021
3000 posts
Posted on 6/24/26 at 5:11 pm to
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This is probably not a big deal and your GF needs to calm down.


No, that is definitely one-upmanship at its finest.

She is saying, "Hey look, your daughter and I are having a blast at Disney World. Sorry you divorced me. You're missing out on an unforgettable memory."
Posted by BabyTac
Austin, TX
Member since Jun 2008
16868 posts
Posted on 6/24/26 at 11:21 pm to
I bet 100% you have a tattoo.
Posted by MrFreakinMiyagi
Reseda
Member since Feb 2007
20015 posts
Posted on 6/24/26 at 11:35 pm to
quote:

RUN
Posted by IamNotaRobot
OKC
Member since Nov 2021
1996 posts
Posted on 6/24/26 at 11:53 pm to
What do pics look like of GF?
Posted by A10Rebel
Colorado
Member since Nov 2018
1032 posts
Posted on 6/25/26 at 12:26 am to
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