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re: Prayers needed! Planning on getting a vasectomy without telling the wife.

Posted on 3/21/22 at 9:05 am to
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
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Posted on 3/21/22 at 9:05 am to
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they required consent from my wife before they’d do the procedure.



sounds dubious baw, hipaa alone would prevent that
Posted by MMauler
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Posted on 3/21/22 at 9:06 am to
Come back and let us know what your child support payments are after she insists on going to a fertility clinic to find out why she isn't getting pregnant.
Posted by Jcorye1
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Member since Dec 2007
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Posted on 3/21/22 at 9:07 am to
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34 years old with two children. Wife has been trying to sell me the idea of having another. I'm done. She's said she's going to discontinue taking BC in the beginning of May for 'health reasons'. My initial visit was last Thursday. Schedule procedure for April 4th when my wife is planning on visiting her sister for four days. The plan is to then fake a illness when she returns, probably covid. Hopefully, this will give the stitches time to dissolve. If everything goes as planned, I'll be sterile by May and my wife won't be none the wiser. If I don't offer a follow-up, the plan was foiled and she blood has been shed.



This will get out, you should be an adult and just be honest.
Posted by waiting4saturday
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Member since Sep 2005
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Posted on 3/21/22 at 9:08 am to
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This will go well
Posted by BluegrassBelle
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Posted on 3/21/22 at 9:08 am to
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sounds dubious baw, hipaa alone would prevent that


Many OB/GYNs have long required a husband’s signature for a woman to have her tubes tied or for a hysterectomy. Some states legally require the consent of a husband/wife in sterilization if not medically necessary.
Posted by MBclass83
Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 3/21/22 at 9:09 am to
Please do this and report back.
Posted by wadewilson
Member since Sep 2009
38541 posts
Posted on 3/21/22 at 9:10 am to
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Same here, he even spent time at the first appointment to discuss the weight of the decision with my wife present and mentioned that he wouldn't perform the surgery without her consent.


That's actually fricked up.
Posted by Blutarsky
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Posted on 3/21/22 at 9:10 am to
You’re an idiot.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
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Posted on 3/21/22 at 9:12 am to
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Many OB/GYNs have long required a husband’s signature for a woman to have her tubes tied or for a hysterectomy. Some states legally require the consent of a husband/wife in sterilization if not medically necessary.



I've got an adult son with a recurring brain tumor and every time we see a new doctor they have to get his permission to discuss his medical issues with me
This post was edited on 3/21/22 at 9:16 am
Posted by Loup
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Posted on 3/21/22 at 9:13 am to
this ain't going to go well.
Posted by BluegrassBelle
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Posted on 3/21/22 at 9:16 am to
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I've got an adult son with a recurring brain tumor and every time we see a new doctor they have too get his permission to discuss his medical issues with me


Sure. Otherwise it would be a HIPAA violation.

But in cases of voluntary sterilization, some states had laws that requires the signature of the husband/wife to perform the procedure. Some doctors still require it in practice. It’s not a violation of HIPAA.
This post was edited on 3/21/22 at 9:18 am
Posted by squid_hunt
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2021
11272 posts
Posted on 3/21/22 at 9:16 am to
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My urologist made my wife sign a release when I got mine.

Weird, ain't it? Her body her choice, your body, also her choice.
Posted by QJenk
Atl, Ga
Member since Jan 2013
16601 posts
Posted on 3/21/22 at 9:17 am to
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Prayers needed! Planning on getting a vasectomy without telling the wife.


This is a terrible idea. Be a man and tell your wife the truth.
Posted by Roll Tide Ravens
Birmingham, AL
Member since Nov 2015
48594 posts
Posted on 3/21/22 at 9:18 am to
Given your plan, I would also go ahead and schedule a consultation with a divorce attorney during your recovery days. Kill two birds with one stone, no pun intended.
Posted by TrueTiger
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Member since Sep 2004
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Posted on 3/21/22 at 9:18 am to
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Weird, ain't it? Her body her choice, your body, also her choice



You won't ever see the father required to consent for an abortion.
Posted by tigergirl10
Member since Jul 2019
10399 posts
Posted on 3/21/22 at 9:19 am to
Sounds like a healthy marriage.
Posted by cbree88
South Louisiana
Member since Feb 2010
7968 posts
Posted on 3/21/22 at 9:20 am to
You’re a dishonest loser, and you deserve for your marriage to fall apart if you do this.
Posted by Centinel
Idaho
Member since Sep 2016
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Posted on 3/21/22 at 9:22 am to
Good luck raising someone else's kid after you get snipped baw!

Posted by BluegrassBelle
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Member since Nov 2010
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Posted on 3/21/22 at 9:22 am to
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You won't ever see the father required to consent for an abortion.


Because the doctor’s performing it are choosing not to require it.

Apparently state laws requiring signatures for sterilization are no longer around (ruled unconstitutional). But an individual doctor can decide they won’t perform the procedure without spousal consent.
Posted by The Spleen
Member since Dec 2010
38865 posts
Posted on 3/21/22 at 9:23 am to
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sounds dubious baw, hipaa alone would prevent that


Well, being that she was in the exam room with me for the consult appointment, I consented to her being part of the process and being privy to my medical info.
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