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re: Parents: you find out your kid is being bullied on at school, what do you do?
Posted on 3/11/19 at 10:26 pm to Splackavellie
Posted on 3/11/19 at 10:26 pm to Splackavellie
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Gonna be a good ole fashion father son beat off.
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Posted on 3/11/19 at 10:28 pm to Parmen
I'm fortunate my kids have never been bullied (youngest in 8th grade so hopefully she's about in the clear). That said, had it happened, I seriously would've wanted to beat the frick out of some little kid. Some of those bullying stories about kids I've never even met just get my blood boiling. You can only instill so much confidence and offer so many pointers...if a kid is scared, they're scared. Not much we can do as parents.
Posted on 3/11/19 at 10:31 pm to saint tiger225
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You really think a hedgehog will help your kid not get bullied any more? It'll probably make it worse.
Gold rings bro... GOLD!!
Posted on 3/11/19 at 10:35 pm to Parmen
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you find out your kid is being bullied on at school, what do you do?
Tell him to report the bully as a sexual harasser. “I have nothing against gay people, but his intentions are now physical and he makes me uncomfortable.” Also he should demand that the bully be moved to other classes, if not another school. Provide pamphlets with info for young gays and suggest that the school send them to the bully’s parents.
Posted on 3/11/19 at 10:37 pm to Parmen
If he’s being bullied, schedule boxing lessons.
If he didn’t start a fight but stood his ground, pat him on the back for not taking any shite.
If he didn’t start a fight but stood his ground, pat him on the back for not taking any shite.
Posted on 3/11/19 at 10:38 pm to Parmen
Bullying means different things than it used to. We talking pushing and shoving, or gender specific pronouns?
Posted on 3/11/19 at 10:45 pm to saintsfan1977
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I tell him/her to kick them in the balls.
Posted on 3/11/19 at 11:06 pm to Parmen
When my son was about 10, a little turd was messing with him at school and my son came home complaining about it. I knew the kid and was surprised that my kid hadn’t stood up for himself because my son was much bigger. . When I asked him about it he said he would get in trouble for fighting, I told him if the turd touched him again and he didn’t kick the turds butt, then I would spank him. The next day the turd got body slammed at the swing set after messing with my kid. Problem solved.
Posted on 3/11/19 at 11:18 pm to sms151t
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What I teach my students you can defend yourself but once you go on offense then you’ve crossed the line
The best defense is a good offense
Posted on 3/11/19 at 11:25 pm to biglego
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I’d spank the frick out my kid.
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Violence is never the answer.
Hmmmmm
Hell of a way to instill it. Maybe this is a case of a joke going over my head.
This post was edited on 3/11/19 at 11:28 pm
Posted on 3/11/19 at 11:26 pm to Parmen
When my 3rd grader got sent home for fighting I punished him for being trashy.
Posted on 3/11/19 at 11:28 pm to Parmen
First, make sure teachers and staff are aware.
If it still is going on, go to school , set up a meeting with the principal. Do not come in with " guns blazing" . Have a civil talk with the people in charge.
Now, if you child tells you their isn't relief or noticeable disciplining coming from the staff you give him the go ahead to kick bully's arse. Advise him to hit the bully square in the nose this will cause the eyes to water up enough that bully will not be able to see clearly.
Also, advise your son that he may be suspended, sent to an off campus school(ACE) and that he may have to be moved to another school.
If it still is going on, go to school , set up a meeting with the principal. Do not come in with " guns blazing" . Have a civil talk with the people in charge.
Now, if you child tells you their isn't relief or noticeable disciplining coming from the staff you give him the go ahead to kick bully's arse. Advise him to hit the bully square in the nose this will cause the eyes to water up enough that bully will not be able to see clearly.
Also, advise your son that he may be suspended, sent to an off campus school(ACE) and that he may have to be moved to another school.
This post was edited on 3/11/19 at 11:29 pm
Posted on 3/11/19 at 11:30 pm to Parmen
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you find out your kid is being bullied on at school, what do you do?
Already happened. I went to the school and handled it while making sure they followed through and documented everything. The school was pissed but there are laws they have to follow and they weren’t. So I made them.
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Also what do you do if you find out your kid was in a fight at school, he didn’t start it, but he stood his ground and fought back?
This happened as well. Went to the school, picked him up because now days no matter who started it, all parties get suspended. Told the principal I was taking him on a three day camping and fishing trip as a reward for facing his bully. The principal apologized for the suspension but his hands were tied. I understood and so did my boy. He needed to do what he had to do to end the situation. I was proud. Still am.
Posted on 3/11/19 at 11:35 pm to Parmen
This is part of how it is defined here in St.Tammany Parish.
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Repeatedly and purposefully shunning or excluding from activities; where the pattern of behavior is exhibited toward a student, more than once, by another student or group of students and occurs, or is received by a student while on school property, at a school-sponsored or school related function or activity, in any school bus or van, at any designated school bus stop, in any other school or private vehicle used to transport students to and from schools, or any school sponsored activity or event
This post was edited on 3/11/19 at 11:36 pm
Posted on 3/11/19 at 11:45 pm to TIGER2
If the action against the student is one sided, it is considered bullying 100% for sure. If it a lot of back and forth and mostly equal negative behavior by both parties. I would consider it to be two kids being A-holes to each other, and both should receive equal punishment.
Posted on 3/11/19 at 11:53 pm to Parmen
Here's my story ...
My youngest sister has two sons who are two years apart in age. When they were little, the older was very trusting and easy going. The younger brother was completely different and always ready for physical contact. He was also a much bigger child. He was almost as tall and outweighed his older brother most of his life.
The first week of school in Kindergarten, he sees a couple of 3rd grade kids fricking with his older brother, who was in 2nd grade. They were pushing on him in a sandbox and covering his feet with sand. The 2nd grader was happy to be "playing" with a couple of 3rd graders. The Kindergartener saw a couple of kids fricking with his brother, so he did what came naturally to him, he attacked them. The 3rd graders didn't know who he was or why they were being attacked, but they had a very aggressive kid punching, kicking, and scratching them. And he bit the shite out of the one who didn't run away quick enough.
Recess monitors break it up and try to sort it out. The 3rd graders say they were just minding their own business and the little kid attacked them. My 2nd grade nephew says he and the 3rd graders were playing in tbe sandbox. They ask the Kindergartner what the 3rd graders did to him, and he says, "Nothing". So they asked, "If they didn't do anything to you, why were you hitting them?" He told them, "They were messing with my brother."
After much debate, the truth came out that the 3rd graders really were messing with the 2nd grader, but the Kindergartner was put on double secret probation and sworn to not ever hit another kid on the playground. It worked out in the end, because it was never necessary again. He quickly became known as the possibly crazy 5 year old who kicked the asses of two 8 year olds. Nobody is fricking with that kid, or his brother.
My sister preached the "violence is never an answer" mantra to her boys. I told them that in this particular situation it seemed like violence was not only an answer, but it was the correct answer.
My youngest sister has two sons who are two years apart in age. When they were little, the older was very trusting and easy going. The younger brother was completely different and always ready for physical contact. He was also a much bigger child. He was almost as tall and outweighed his older brother most of his life.
The first week of school in Kindergarten, he sees a couple of 3rd grade kids fricking with his older brother, who was in 2nd grade. They were pushing on him in a sandbox and covering his feet with sand. The 2nd grader was happy to be "playing" with a couple of 3rd graders. The Kindergartener saw a couple of kids fricking with his brother, so he did what came naturally to him, he attacked them. The 3rd graders didn't know who he was or why they were being attacked, but they had a very aggressive kid punching, kicking, and scratching them. And he bit the shite out of the one who didn't run away quick enough.
Recess monitors break it up and try to sort it out. The 3rd graders say they were just minding their own business and the little kid attacked them. My 2nd grade nephew says he and the 3rd graders were playing in tbe sandbox. They ask the Kindergartner what the 3rd graders did to him, and he says, "Nothing". So they asked, "If they didn't do anything to you, why were you hitting them?" He told them, "They were messing with my brother."
After much debate, the truth came out that the 3rd graders really were messing with the 2nd grader, but the Kindergartner was put on double secret probation and sworn to not ever hit another kid on the playground. It worked out in the end, because it was never necessary again. He quickly became known as the possibly crazy 5 year old who kicked the asses of two 8 year olds. Nobody is fricking with that kid, or his brother.
My sister preached the "violence is never an answer" mantra to her boys. I told them that in this particular situation it seemed like violence was not only an answer, but it was the correct answer.
Posted on 3/11/19 at 11:56 pm to Parmen
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This post was edited on 3/12/19 at 7:24 am
Posted on 3/12/19 at 12:00 am to Splackavellie
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father son beat off
Posted on 3/12/19 at 12:07 am to Parmen
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you find out your kid is being bullied on at school, what do you do?
Let them know they need to stand up for themselves. Life is fight or flight in all aspects and don't take shite from anyone.
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Also what do you do if you find out your kid was in a fight at school, he didn’t start it, but he stood his ground and fought back?
Let them know this is part of life. Don't get the big head because you beat someone's arse. You did what was necessary.
Posted on 3/12/19 at 12:22 am to Parmen
My kid is a great student, good athlete and was being bullied by a group st school. I was shocked by how upset and how much he internalized until it boiled over when we saw a dip in grades and his mood etc... my initial reaction was to tell home to fight but once I calmed and surveyed the reasons, I talked to him. I told him the truth in why theses three were doing what they were doing.. I was brutally honest about the shitiness of each kids situation and basically told him to tell them to go frick themselves and if they pushed.. tell them why
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