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re: Parents with 3 kids, are you glad you didn't stop at 2?

Posted on 5/24/16 at 3:36 pm to
Posted by uway
Member since Sep 2004
33109 posts
Posted on 5/24/16 at 3:36 pm to
We had our first 3 between September 2007 and December 2010.

I regret nothing.

Posted by OleSkuleTgr
Member since Jun 2013
260 posts
Posted on 5/24/16 at 3:55 pm to
I have 3 and wish I would have had 4!
Posted by Will Cover
Davidson, NC
Member since Mar 2007
40379 posts
Posted on 5/24/16 at 4:18 pm to
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Woman up! You can do it. ;-)


I'm going to go through with it, no doubt. Doesn't mean I am going to enjoy the process.
Posted by geauxbrown
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2006
27993 posts
Posted on 5/24/16 at 4:22 pm to
quote:

stopped at 2 because middle children have issues


Should have stopped at 2 because of this. Number 3 was a surprise but has turned out to be a ton of fun.
Posted by lsu777
Lake Charles
Member since Jan 2004
38684 posts
Posted on 5/24/16 at 4:30 pm to
we have three boys ages 5, 3 & 6 months. we do not regret it at all. We were trying for a girl but we love our little boy as you can imagine. I am convinced we are stopping, wife is not 100% sure except for when we have to pay daycare and private school tuition.

I will say its much harder to find a babysitter and overall another kid is another expense especially with the cost of daycare.

I will also say he has been the easiest just because we are so experienced but he has been the hardest to get to sleep through the night. But wouldnt trade it for the world.
Posted by biggsc
Member since Mar 2009
34777 posts
Posted on 5/24/16 at 4:32 pm to
Twins run in the family so I need to be careful
Posted by tke_swamprat
Houma, LA
Member since Aug 2004
11214 posts
Posted on 5/24/16 at 4:32 pm to
We have 3. 7, 5, 10 months. Glad I didn't stop because I finally had a boy!! We are almost done with bottles and formula so that will be nice.

A fourth is not out of the question.
Posted by mark65mc
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2007
11552 posts
Posted on 5/24/16 at 4:34 pm to
My wife and I just adopted a brother and sister. They are about to turn 2 and 1. We did not have any kids before. So the the big surprise, we found out about a month after we got them that my wife was pregnant and due in October. We are going from no kids to 3 under 3 in 8 months. I wouldn't change a thing.
Posted by Dorothy
Munchkinland
Member since Oct 2008
18154 posts
Posted on 5/24/16 at 4:48 pm to
After dealing with infertility issues, we gratefully took whatever came our way. Number 3 was not planned, but she was (is) the best surprise I ever got.

As an infant she was probably the easiest of the three, but now that she's older she is definitely more stubborn, but also more determined, than the others. A bit feisty too!
Posted by Restomod
Member since Mar 2012
13493 posts
Posted on 5/24/16 at 4:50 pm to
@ 3 you are out numbered.
Posted by Dorothy
Munchkinland
Member since Oct 2008
18154 posts
Posted on 5/24/16 at 4:52 pm to
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Seems to me like the 3rd child is always the one that ends up in and out of rehab



Not always, but I guess it depends on the family and maybe how much the youngest is allowed to "get away with"?

My husband is #3, and he's actually probably the easiest going in his family. Peace-maker, gets along with all, but also independent in his own way because his mom had to deal with his older siblings so she admits that less time was probably given to him. So in a way he got away with a lot, but he also learned how to take care of himself more than some people. (He's far from an addict, too!)
This post was edited on 5/24/16 at 4:54 pm
Posted by geaux88
Northshore, LA
Member since Oct 2003
16355 posts
Posted on 5/24/16 at 5:01 pm to
As a side note to this thread, remember when up to the late 60's / early 70's, 4 and 5 kid families were not uncommon? LOL....
Posted by OWLFAN86
Erotic Novelist
Member since Jun 2004
198008 posts
Posted on 5/24/16 at 5:01 pm to
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Dorothy
I would make 3 babies with you
Posted by Dorothy
Munchkinland
Member since Oct 2008
18154 posts
Posted on 5/24/16 at 5:04 pm to
Too late! I'm old as dirt now, remember?
Posted by geaux88
Northshore, LA
Member since Oct 2003
16355 posts
Posted on 5/24/16 at 5:05 pm to
You wouldn't if you are in the room when the afterbirth comes out!!!!
Posted by OWLFAN86
Erotic Novelist
Member since Jun 2004
198008 posts
Posted on 5/24/16 at 5:12 pm to
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Too late! I'm old as dirt now, remember?
I would treat it as practice
Posted by Dorothy
Munchkinland
Member since Oct 2008
18154 posts
Posted on 5/24/16 at 5:30 pm to
You would've made a good dad, Owlie. Even if you are an a-hole sometimes.
Posted by OWLFAN86
Erotic Novelist
Member since Jun 2004
198008 posts
Posted on 5/24/16 at 5:39 pm to
quote:

sometimes.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
151549 posts
Posted on 5/24/16 at 5:41 pm to
quote:

Dorothy I would make 3 babies with you


Posted by Chucktown_Badger
The banks of the Ashley River
Member since May 2013
37566 posts
Posted on 5/24/16 at 5:43 pm to
I have a non-scientific theory that there are a lot of families with three daughters (which may or may not be true), and the reason for that is that every man wants to have at least one son. They have their first kid, girl, let's have another. Second kid is another girl. So they're willing to take one last shot to get a boy, and when they get another girl, they stop because the family is just getting too big and that was the last gamble.

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