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re: Parents of the OT, would you move away for your kids?

Posted on 2/5/24 at 12:57 pm to
Posted by El Segundo Guy
SE OK
Member since Aug 2014
9635 posts
Posted on 2/5/24 at 12:57 pm to
The point of moving so your kids can get accepted into UT?

Your goal shouldn't be just to get into UT.

Perhaps they should focus on improving their GPA, ACT and AP classes. If you're good enough, UT will accept you if you're 15% at an outstanding high school.
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Posted by S1C EM
Athens, GA
Member since Nov 2007
11585 posts
Posted on 2/5/24 at 1:02 pm to
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So they are moving to worse school districts so their kids appear smarter by comparison?


Right? I'm sure that's going to work out well. If they're getting outclassed now, that isn't going to change when they're back in college with the same kids.
Posted by Locoguan0
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Nov 2017
4324 posts
Posted on 2/5/24 at 1:03 pm to
The top 25 at my daughter's middle school gets certain privileges. My kid was ranked #27l. She is a grade level ahead in math and science. She takes talented art and an academic elective (forensic science HS credit). At least half of the kids above her are on grade-level for math and science, and take BS electives like typing. Is that fair to my kid? No, but that is just how it is.
Posted by El Segundo Guy
SE OK
Member since Aug 2014
9635 posts
Posted on 2/5/24 at 1:04 pm to
Right. It all works out in the end. The cream always rises to the top.

Screw this perverted helicopter parent college scheming game.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
97694 posts
Posted on 2/5/24 at 1:06 pm to
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Absolutely not. If they want to be top 10% they should do better. If I have a kid who values academics and has a strong plan for after they graduate HS, I'll be paying for tuition even if they aren't top 10%. I'm not going to uproot my family's life for something that makes no difference. If you have the means to move school districts to get free tuition, you've probably had the means to set aside a % of your paycheck into a 529. I know the OT has a wide varying range of parenting styles, but it seems like either the kid has to be beaten and then kicked out on the street or they need to be given every advantage that's ever existed.


It’s not for a scholarship, it’s to get accepted
Posted by Odysseus32
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Posted on 2/5/24 at 1:09 pm to
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Posted on 2/5/24 at 1:11 pm to
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Posted by kengel2
Team Gun
Member since Mar 2004
30893 posts
Posted on 2/5/24 at 1:12 pm to
You're looking at it like they should just work harder to be top 10% at their school. I dont think anyone disagrees with working harder.

The problem is that not all schools are created equal and often the top 50% of say a "great" school is way more advanced than the top 10% of a bunch of shitty schools. So why should the top 10% of those schools get auto accepted?

Posted by Jon A thon
Member since May 2019
1674 posts
Posted on 2/5/24 at 1:15 pm to
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Even less of a reason to move. Sometimes you don't get what you want and a kid should know that's okay.



My kids are still young, and I don't think we'd move over it. We are currently in The Woodlands. I do have a co-worker who just went through this though. Tons of kids don't get accepted, but still find their way. In fact he was talking about how it saved him money. Didn't get into A&M right away. Spent 1 year at another school for less money, then transferred. It's the path for a lot of kids.

Posted by GruntbyAssociation
Member since Jul 2013
3793 posts
Posted on 2/5/24 at 1:19 pm to
Nothing wrong with Midwestern State in Wichita Falls. It was good enough for me and Dr. Phil.
Posted by fareplay
Member since Nov 2012
4912 posts
Posted on 2/5/24 at 1:19 pm to
I think people don’t understand that even these public schools have limits on capacity. It ain’t easy to say do better if there’s no space to accept your kid. Some of these schools with a lot of… a specific demographic are ruthless academically and can’t compete
Posted by El Segundo Guy
SE OK
Member since Aug 2014
9635 posts
Posted on 2/5/24 at 1:19 pm to
My brother has a side gig and tutors high performing kids at the Thomas Jefferson School for Science and Technology. One of the elite high schools in the United States.

Those kids are brilliant and they're getting an outstanding education that will prepare them for college and beyond.

None of them are transferring to a mediocre high school in Fairfax County to game the system. They know that high scores and a good resume trumps being a big fish in a tiny pond.

Posted by thadcastle
Member since Dec 2019
2625 posts
Posted on 2/5/24 at 1:20 pm to
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Your goal shouldn't be just to get into UT.

Perhaps they should focus on improving their GPA, ACT and AP classes. If you're good enough, UT will accept you if you're 15% at an outstanding high school.

no they won't. I have several coworkers whose kids didn't get in and all would be considered top notch students. One had a 4.2 GPA and 32 on his ACT and got rejected by UT.
Posted by Thib-a-doe Tiger
Member since Nov 2012
35427 posts
Posted on 2/5/24 at 1:21 pm to
You are starting a ton of threads. Are you ok?
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
32651 posts
Posted on 2/5/24 at 1:23 pm to
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Right? I'm sure that's going to work out well. If they're getting outclassed now, that isn't going to change when they're back in college with the same kids.

When you're in college, it's not like only the top 10% of the class passes. If you're top 15% in your class in high school because there are some absurdly smart people ahead of you, that doesn't mean that you aren't smart enough to get into college and succeed
Posted by kengel2
Team Gun
Member since Mar 2004
30893 posts
Posted on 2/5/24 at 1:23 pm to
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One of the elite high schools in the United States.


Those kids probably aren't trying to get into a public university either, nor are they worried about money, or anything else.

Posted by H2O Tiger
Delta Sky Club
Member since May 2021
6637 posts
Posted on 2/5/24 at 1:25 pm to
My wife went to Texas and said one of her freshman year dorm mates was valedictorian of her small high school somewhere out in the middle of nowhere West Texas and was in remedial math first semester.

Girl didn't come back the second semester but got auto admitted to Texas because of her class rank.
Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
19387 posts
Posted on 2/5/24 at 1:38 pm to
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specific type of very academic people


6o Minutes had a story about these people coming to the US
Posted by fareplay
Member since Nov 2012
4912 posts
Posted on 2/5/24 at 1:39 pm to
I’m happy to have them as my doctors but damn my kids
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
32651 posts
Posted on 2/5/24 at 1:54 pm to
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Those kids probably aren't trying to get into a public university either

UT is a very good university, even though it's public
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