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re: Parents of teenage boys regarding phones and disturbing pictures

Posted on 11/29/23 at 3:36 pm to
Posted by Cosmo
glassman's guest house
Member since Oct 2003
120343 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 3:36 pm to
quote:

i'm confused as to what the problem is?


Having pics of yourself fapping on a phone is a recipe for disaster

Just ask owl
This post was edited on 11/29/23 at 3:36 pm
Posted by BMoney
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2005
16277 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 3:36 pm to
Ask him this:

quote:

Why would you take a picture masturbating to an instagram lady?



Other than that, sounds like a normal teenage boy.
Posted by TooFyeToFly
Atlanta, Georgia
Member since Nov 2012
1250 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 3:36 pm to
Definitely don't talk to him about it. I can't imagine how awkward that conversation would be. And he'd hate you for it.
Posted by Mushroom1968
Member since Jun 2023
1602 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 3:36 pm to
quote:

Pretend like it didn’t happen so he still feels the need to hide it.


I'd much rather go this route. May end up not saying anything
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
30188 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 3:37 pm to
quote:

Yeah, I'm trying to figure out how to word all of it to him.


Make up a story about it happening to a kid of someone you work with. Add some details to scare the shite out of him. Then check his phone in a couple of days to see if he deleted his pics.
This post was edited on 11/29/23 at 3:39 pm
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
124380 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 3:38 pm to
quote:

Yeah, I'm trying to figure out how to word all of it to him.



"Boy, don't do that stupid shite. It's really a bunch of Indian, African and Asian dudes trying to blackmail you. Don't trust shite on the internet kid. No one actually wants to see a dick pic."
Posted by Mushroom1968
Member since Jun 2023
1602 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 3:38 pm to
quote:

o answer your question about if it would mess him up if you suddenly took his phone away at 16 for 2 years after he has already had it since 14 and is about to start driving: yeah that’s a bad move especially since he sounds like he behaves for the most part. That would be a great way to make him actually start acting out.


He won't be home till a few hours. I did take it but I am going to give it back. Occasionally I take it and tell him I'm tired of him being on it. I don't think I'm going to take it for good, I agree with you.
Posted by TooFyeToFly
Atlanta, Georgia
Member since Nov 2012
1250 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 3:39 pm to
quote:

Make up a story about it happening to a kid of someone you work with. Add some details to scare the shite out of him.





That might tip him off.
Posted by Chad504boy
4 posts
Member since Feb 2005
166375 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 3:40 pm to
make sure you tell him you told his mommy that you have a masturbating picture of himself on the phone. you broke the bro code.
Posted by Mushroom1968
Member since Jun 2023
1602 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 3:40 pm to
quote:

Explain to him the severity of taking sexually explicit pictures of himself as a minor and yes I agree that part is pretty weird but I think blocking social media for a HS student may have a hand in why he is doing these things. I think that's a bit overbearing as a parent.


Yeah, I'm too old for this shite. I didn't even realize I'm overbearing, wife disagreed with me blocking him from social media.
Posted by Mushroom1968
Member since Jun 2023
1602 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 3:42 pm to
quote:

make sure you tell him you told his mommy that you have a masturbating picture of himself on the phone. you broke the bro code.



Wife is much cooler about than I am. If she'd have found it, she wouldn't have said anything to me
Posted by Ronaldo Burgundiaz
NWA
Member since Jan 2012
6555 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 3:47 pm to
SPOILER ALERT: OP is mad his kid has a bigger dong.
Posted by JDPndahizzy
JDP
Member since Nov 2013
6447 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 3:47 pm to
If you're worried about it talk to him. A father should feel 100% comfortable talking to his 16 year old son. More importantly a 16 year old boy should feel 100% comfortable talking to his dad about anything. He's gonna need that one day and should know its OK to come to you about anything, without fear of reprisal.

Once I knew my boys were sexually active I talked to them about the consequences and told them they'll be a box of rubbers on my top closet shelf. When I see it running low I'll stock up again. No questions asked. The girls today are aggressive. Start a conversation.
Posted by Mushroom1968
Member since Jun 2023
1602 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 3:47 pm to
For his sake I hope he does
Posted by secondandshort
Member since Jan 2014
1028 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 3:48 pm to
Dude you have to talk to him about it. Especially about the self pics. That could be a huge deal and explain to never send dick pics. . He also needs to know that when girls send him pics, don’t send them or text them to others. You have a responsibility to give your expectations for cell phone usage but just as important teach some life lessons on decency as well as legal consequences.
Posted by olgoi khorkhoi
priapism survivor
Member since May 2011
14866 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 3:48 pm to
quote:

Why would you take a picture masturbating to an instagram lady?




100% to send to someone else, which is the most dangerous part of what you discovered.

Also older ladies' faces? Dude's got a weird fettish.
Posted by BoogaBear
Member since Jul 2013
5582 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 3:49 pm to
Take a picture of you cranking it out to the pics on his phone. Leave it there, no words need be said.
Posted by caliegeaux
Member since Aug 2004
10166 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 3:49 pm to
quote:

Why would you take a picture masturbating to an instagram lady?


count this as win and never look back.
Posted by Mushroom1968
Member since Jun 2023
1602 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 3:49 pm to
quote:

Once I knew my boys were sexually active I talked to them about the consequences and told them they'll be a box of rubbers on my top closet shelf. When I see it running low I'll stock up again. No questions asked. The girls today are aggressive. Start a conversation.


I had this conversation with him several years ago. I guess I just didn’t take cell phones into the thought process and all this access to pictures from anywhere you can imagine. I appreciate the reply
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
124380 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 3:49 pm to
quote:

Make up a story about it happening to a kid of someone you work with. Add some details to scare the shite out of him.


Ooooohhhhh,


there once was a kid with a prick,
He would jerk it to old lady pics,
At least that's what he thought,
But to scammers and bots,
He was nothing but one more dumb trick

He'd take pics of him pounding his meat,
And send them to Belinda (Najeet)
They would ask him for cash,
Send him pics of some gash,
Then the young man would skeet skeet skeet skeet

Then Najeet he had pics by the dozen,
All his contacts, friend's neighbors and cousins,
So Najeet made his play
Told the young man to pay,
Or he'd send them en masse, phones a-buzzin.

So don't fall for this trap made of thirst,
If you do, well, you won't be the first,
Do your stroking offline,
And you're probably fine,
Til you get walked in on (that's the worst.)

This post was edited on 11/29/23 at 4:00 pm
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