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re: Parents of teenage boys regarding phones and disturbing pictures

Posted on 11/29/23 at 4:27 pm to
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
56373 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 4:27 pm to
He took a pic of himself jerking off? Make sure that doesn’t go anywhere.

That would be hell on him

And at 16 he doesn’t gage a real phone? He needs one. He is driving, correct?
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
4207 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 4:27 pm to
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Having pics of yourself fapping on a phone is a recipe for disaster

Just ask owl



Louis CK jerked off over sound waves and got canned for a couple years.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
4207 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 4:27 pm to
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Definitely don't talk to him about it. I can't imagine how awkward that conversation would be. And he'd hate you for it.


Be a good father and give him your passwords dude.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
140462 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 4:28 pm to
Did he at least get some girth from the moms side of the family?
Posted by Mushroom1968
Member since Jun 2023
1602 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 4:29 pm to
FLTech

I’ve taken it away in the past if I felt he was on it too much. Honestly though he’s not on it often. It only works on WiFi and I seldom see him on it. He lost it, I found outside by mailbox, for 4-5 days not long ago and he wasn’t bothered at all. Doesn’t care about gaming either. He’s an “outside” kid
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
4207 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 4:32 pm to
quote:

FLTech

I’ve taken it away in the past if I felt he was on it too much. Honestly though he’s not on it often. It only works on WiFi and I seldom see him on it. He lost it, I found outside by mailbox, for 4-5 days not long ago and he wasn’t bothered at all. Doesn’t care about gaming either. He’s an “outside” kid




boy turning into a man. No worries.
Posted by Mushroom1968
Member since Jun 2023
1602 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 4:32 pm to
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You’re an idiot and that kid is going to resent your old arse


I don’t disagree about the idiot part. I can give in to social media. I don’t think I’m a bad dad Daughter has done great, all kids are straight As, no trouble at school, no disrespect. I just don’t know how to handle the phone situation and internet stuff, obviously
Posted by Gee Grenouille
Bogalusa
Member since Jul 2018
4819 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 6:37 pm to
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Had a girlfriend for a few months but they moved out of state.


This happened to me every summer from Jr high through high school. I had to tell the same sad story on the first day of school for 6 years.
Posted by Friedchickenandgreen
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2021
67 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 6:46 pm to
TROLL
Posted by Gorilla Ball
Member since Feb 2006
11694 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 6:50 pm to
I agree
Posted by DamnGood86
Member since Aug 2019
952 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 7:19 pm to
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...a few of him doing things while looking at those pictures.

How is this accomplished? Two phones?
Posted by bird35
Georgia
Member since Sep 2012
12207 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 7:45 pm to
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This post was edited on 11/30/23 at 9:41 am
Posted by jdd48
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2012
22125 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 7:51 pm to
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How is this accomplished? Two phones?


Point the camera at your junk and snap the pic?
Posted by JasonDBlaha
Woodlands, Texas
Member since Apr 2023
2373 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 9:20 pm to
Be on the lookout for sextortion scammers on Instagram. Not too long ago, a high school kid committed suicide after getting duped by a scammer who posed as a young girl trying to hook up. He thought it was actually a girl and sent nude pictures to the scammer who threatened to DM them to the kid’s close friends on IG unless the kid paid $5,000 through a PayPal account. It was a huge story that made national news
This post was edited on 11/29/23 at 9:24 pm
Posted by Mushroom1968
Member since Jun 2023
1602 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 9:33 pm to
Talked to him. He swore he never sent any pics of himself to anyone. Obviously he could barely even speak when I brought the subject up. I agree me starting this thread is weird, I don't post on social media with exception of this site. I just am not good with technology and all this phone stuff. I don't stay on phone much at house in front of kids and honestly my kids don't either.

I explained the pictures he took, he deleted them. He told me most of the pics of women were stuff friends had sent or he just saw on regular websites. I didn't care about those. I explained the implications of sending pictures like that to people. He was embarrassed, hell I was. I'll get to do this again soon I'm sure with my youngest. Thanks for all the advice and help. I don't typically need much advice with my kids, again, I've had many many demons, porn just hasn't been one of them. Not saying it is for him, but damn.

I know there are younger parents here and I got good advice, and funny replies. I can joke about stuff with my kids, but porn is something I really don't know how to handle with them. Even though I didn't technically see porn, I don't understand taking pics of yourself doing that kind of stuff. I just know how to talk to them about sex, having kids young, treating women right, etc. I don't know how he'll handle it in the future After reading the replies here I did feel much better and felt more old man yelling at clouds. Main thing I went over was not sending pics of himself to girls and what kind of trouble he can get into.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
113978 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 9:40 pm to
Honestly, he will find away around whatever you do. You don't sound very tech savvy.

The one advantage you do have is that he probably knows you are not tech savvy so play that to your advantage. He will get sloppy with what he is doing.

You can rattle him a little bit by saying "Boy! I know you looking at naked women on your phone. Don't let me catch you because I'll take it away"
Posted by redandright
Member since Jun 2011
9619 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 9:40 pm to
NM
This post was edited on 11/29/23 at 9:43 pm
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
113978 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 9:42 pm to
quote:

Friedchickenandgreen


quote:

TROLL


Are you talking to yourself?
Posted by Quatrepot
Member since Jun 2023
4053 posts
Posted on 11/29/23 at 10:28 pm to
Be glad he’s into women and keep your mouth shut about what you found.
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