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re: OT Parents: do/would you supply your teen with condoms?

Posted on 4/11/15 at 7:50 pm to
Posted by Tunasntigers92
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Posted on 4/11/15 at 7:50 pm to
You're the first on this thread to say that, nice.
Posted by Aubie Spr96
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Posted on 4/11/15 at 9:15 pm to
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You are foolish for taking this stance IMHO.



You are part of the problem. We have too many enabled titty babies running around these days. What is wrong with personal resposability these days?

The Alabama Dept of Health addressed health concerns at our high school last year. It wasn't teen pregnancies. It was syphylis. No amount of birth control is gonna fix that.

Our county has had a 3x increase in heroine overdoses in the past year. Providing birth control ain't gonna fix that either.


IMO, we have too many parents, teachers, and law enforcement types enabling these kids to be frick ups. There are no reprecussions anymore for stupidity.

"Don't worry about fricking your boyfriend darling, daddy is gonna put you on the pill and pay for it!"
Posted by goatman1419
Prairieville,LA
Member since Jan 2007
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Posted on 4/11/15 at 9:19 pm to
When your child has a baby at 16 and fricks his/her life up plus yours. Just because you are to blind to think your kid isn't having sex shows your mental aptitude.
Posted by Aubie Spr96
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Posted on 4/11/15 at 9:23 pm to
Dude.......


She's fricking her boyfriend. I'm not stupid or blind. However, she and he can use condoms. It's her responsibility to take care of that. If she wants to get the pill, she has a job and can go pay for it. frick. Y'all are some obtuse motherfrickers up in here.

This post was edited on 4/11/15 at 9:27 pm
Posted by RandySavage
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Posted on 4/11/15 at 9:25 pm to
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We give our daughter condoms


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She's 14


Posted by Tunasntigers92
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Posted on 4/11/15 at 9:26 pm to
Ok guy.
Posted by heatom2
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Posted on 4/11/15 at 9:28 pm to
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You are part of the problem. We have too many enabled titty babies running around these days. What is wrong with personal resposability these days?


It is part of your personal responsibility to give your child the best chance to succeed. They aren't on their own until a certain age for a reason.

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The Alabama Dept of Health addressed health concerns at our high school last year. It wasn't teen pregnancies. It was syphylis


The big problem used to be teen pregnancy though. Theres a reason teen pregnancy is on the decline and it's mainly contraceptives.

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It was syphylis.


Condom use can greatly decrease your chance of getting syphilis. Thanks for making my point.

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Our county has had a 3x increase in heroine overdoses in the past year


The frick does this have to do with anything?

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IMO, we have too many parents, teachers, and law enforcement types enabling these kids to be frick ups.


Trying to protect your child is not enabling. It's being a parent. Your kid gets caught smoking pot? They get a slap on the wrist and it goes off the record when they are 18. Get pregnant because you are doing what your body wants you to do and it can potentially wreck your future and put more strain on government programs designed to help young poor people with children.

Much easier to put her on the pill and hand out a few rubbers.
This post was edited on 4/11/15 at 9:30 pm
Posted by achenator
Member since Oct 2014
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Posted on 4/11/15 at 9:28 pm to
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Dude.......


She's fricking her boyfriend. I'm not stupid or blind. However, she and he can use condoms. It's her responsibility to take care of that. If she wants to get the pill, she has a job and can go pay for it. frick. Y'all are some obtuse motherfrickers up in here.

There's a name for someone with your attitude.










Grandpa.
Posted by Meep
Member since Apr 2015
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Posted on 4/11/15 at 9:34 pm to
No kids but I'll approach it the same way my dad did. Drive me around the hood and tell me this is where you end up if you start having kids and not going to school.

Economic enforced abstinence is the best abstinence.
This post was edited on 4/11/15 at 9:35 pm
Posted by Turkey_Creek_Tiger
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Posted on 4/11/15 at 9:36 pm to
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This post was edited on 7/13/15 at 5:04 pm
Posted by heatom2
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Posted on 4/11/15 at 9:36 pm to
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My dad gave me a pack of condoms when I started highschool almost 10 years ago. They're still sitting in my dresser.


Man, you need to get laid.
Posted by Tunasntigers92
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Posted on 4/11/15 at 9:38 pm to
Hahahaha
Posted by Meep
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Posted on 4/11/15 at 9:38 pm to
Keep your youth my friend. Every time a man gives himself to a woman, a bit of his soul dies. Until there's nothing left but a whisper of a meep.
Posted by biglego
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Posted on 4/11/15 at 9:43 pm to
I hate it when brave women overdose
Posted by Aubie Spr96
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Posted on 4/11/15 at 10:01 pm to
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It is part of your personal responsibility to give your child the best chance to succeed. They aren't on their own until a certain age for a reason.


Exactly. Which is why we have discussed how having a baby at this age would negatively impact her future. It also why we have recommended abstaining from sex (along with drugs and drinking). However, if they are going to have sex, then use birth control. It's sold everywhere.

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Condom use can greatly decrease your chance of getting syphilis. Thanks for making my point.


I said I wasn't providing my kids with birth control. That doesn't mean that I haven't told them to go get it themselves. It's THEIR responsibility to take care of that.

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Trying to protect your child is not enabling. It's being a parent. Your kid gets caught smoking pot? They get a slap on the wrist and it goes off the record when they are 18. Get pregnant because you are doing what your body wants you to do and it can potentially wreck your future and put more strain on government programs designed to help young poor people with children.


No. It's enabling. You're telling your kids there are not repercussions for their stupidity. If you get busted with pot and you're under 18, go to fricking jail. The kids at our high school have figured out quick that they can do anything just short of killing someone with this prevailing attitude. It is creating a huge problem and is leading to increased drug use, increased sexual activity, and increased drinking and destructive behavior.

Look, I'm telling you what I see from experience with two high school aged kids here in the burbs of Bham, Al. I had one of my son's 14 yr old buddies say just the other day, "I can do whatever I want until I'm 18 years old." Thats the environment we have created.
Posted by PurpleandGold Motown
Birmingham, Alabama
Member since Oct 2007
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Posted on 4/11/15 at 10:12 pm to
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Look, I'm telling you what I see from experience with two high school aged kids here in the burbs of Bham, Al. I had one of my son's 14 yr old buddies say just the other day, "I can do whatever I want until I'm 18 years old." Thats the environment we have created.


Sorry to break it to you, but that's not a new development. I grew up in Vestavia Hills.

It's always been this way -- especially in affluent areas. My buddies and I would all sneak out of our houses around 1am and roam the streets until 5am. We'd take beer out of open garages. We'd wake girls up and go party in the woods. Got my first blowjob at 13 and lost my virginity at 14 to a girl from Mountain Brook. We all smoked pot and tripped before we were 14. We were all juvenile delinquents if we were in a slightly lower socio-economic environment.

And this was all 20 years ago.

Kids are going to get fricked up and get fricked. It's just what they do.

Stop with the these kids today bullshite.
Posted by Tunasntigers92
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Posted on 4/11/15 at 10:21 pm to
They all gon' frick.
Posted by Ping Pong
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Posted on 4/11/15 at 10:24 pm to
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Kids are going to get fricked up and get fricked. It's just what they do.


*some kids
This post was edited on 4/11/15 at 10:26 pm
Posted by heatom2
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Member since Nov 2010
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Posted on 4/11/15 at 10:34 pm to
Alls Im saying is, Id much rather know they arent going to get pregnant than leave it up to them. Its responsible parenting.
Posted by Aubie Spr96
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Member since Dec 2009
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Posted on 4/11/15 at 10:36 pm to
It's the environment we've created. It might not be different from what you experienced 20 years ago in Vestavia, but it's different from the one I had in Hoover 25 years ago. Kids went to jail.
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