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On Average, A Veteran Commits Suicide Every 65 Minutes

Posted on 2/18/21 at 1:10 pm
Posted by Sao
East Texas Piney Woods
Member since Jun 2009
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Posted on 2/18/21 at 1:10 pm
Watching a documentary and this stat flashed on the screen. Really grabbed me by the throat for a minute.

For anyone in the know (former Vets) or if you're an acquaintance of anyone within that stat, what's the major problem? How, where and why do 'we' keep failing these guys and girls? Does more need to be done the second they come home to acclimate their heart and mind? Does it start way before that in terms of the process of getting them ready to be a soldier period? Is there simply not enough mental healthcare infrastructure that it's overwhelming to the VA/Other so it's just a wait and see approach?

20+ per day is an epidemic. Something's wrong. Bad wrong.

Sorry for the long Oweo wall of text.
Posted by cdaniel76
Covington, LA
Member since Feb 2008
19699 posts
Posted on 2/18/21 at 1:12 pm to
Have you not heard of the #22-A-Day campaign that's been around for several years now?
Posted by Midget Death Squad
Meme Magic
Member since Oct 2008
24574 posts
Posted on 2/18/21 at 1:13 pm to
They fought in wars for a country that pretends to love them but instead hung them out to dry when their service was over while attention whore citizens use them as props for their stupid agendas. What else would we expect to happen? It's a fricking tragedy.
Posted by Sao
East Texas Piney Woods
Member since Jun 2009
65779 posts
Posted on 2/18/21 at 1:14 pm to

I have but I guess this doc just made me much more aware.
Posted by pdubya76
Sw Ms
Member since Mar 2012
5978 posts
Posted on 2/18/21 at 1:15 pm to
My dad is part of that number. He was a Vietnam vet and couldn’t deal with what he saw or did over there. He took his life in 2010 at the age of 66. He was in therapy at the VA but couldn’t overcome it.
PTSD is real.
This post was edited on 2/18/21 at 1:19 pm
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
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Posted on 2/18/21 at 1:17 pm to
One of my undergrad professors at EKU worked part-time as a therapist at the VA. She would have a large waitlist and often talked about how she wished they could hire more personnel to deal specifically with mental health issues.

They probably have more access than some, but not nearly enough. PTSD can also be notoriously difficult to treat and is often a battle against substance use as well.
Posted by tigergirl10
Member since Jul 2019
10311 posts
Posted on 2/18/21 at 1:17 pm to
That is absolutely horrific.God bless our amazing veterans everywhere.
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
66007 posts
Posted on 2/18/21 at 1:18 pm to
yet, the federal govt. no matter who is in office finds trillions of dollars for handout and gender studies in foreign countries.

and organizations like wounded warrior have to depend on donations from the public.
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
58812 posts
Posted on 2/18/21 at 1:19 pm to
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One of my undergrad professors at EKU worked part-time as a therapist at the VA. She would have a large waitlist and often talked about how she wished they could hire more personnel to deal specifically with mental health issues.

They probably have more access than some, but not nearly enough. PTSD can also be notoriously difficult to treat and is often a battle against substance use as well.


I do pro bono work on behalf of veterans (helping them navigate the VA benefit regime). Let's just say that I'm glad I don't have to rely on that agency for my healthcare needs. While the people I've dealt with there have been fine and generally seem to care, they're just overwhelmed.
Posted by LegendInMyMind
Member since Apr 2019
54340 posts
Posted on 2/18/21 at 1:19 pm to
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Is there simply not enough mental healthcare infrastructure that it's overwhelming to the VA/Other so it's just a wait and see approach?

You nailed it. We, as a country, have gutted mental healthcare budgets for years now. This is an odd fact being that it runs counter to the supposed renewed focus and attention mental health issues are receiving. It is almost as if it is lip-service with little or no substance.

This coupled with the resistance to treatment/help in the Veteran community, for whatever reason, be it their training, their natural inclination, or a combination of the two, makes reaching them difficult. It is a sad situation all the way around.
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
57342 posts
Posted on 2/18/21 at 1:19 pm to
One of our best neighborhood friends is very vocal on this. They have a hike in May. We donated some stuff and I am volunteering to help. This is something that should get more attention.
Posted by GardenDistrictTiger
Fort Worth
Member since Sep 2020
2480 posts
Posted on 2/18/21 at 1:19 pm to
Very sad statistic. I am fortunate to have good resources as needed at my local VA. I am grateful for that.
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
99073 posts
Posted on 2/18/21 at 1:23 pm to
quote:

I do pro bono work on behalf of veterans (helping them navigate the VA benefit regime). Let's just say that I'm glad I don't have to rely on that agency for my healthcare needs. While the people I've dealt with there have been fine and generally seem to care, they're just overwhelmed.



I know it was incredibly frustrating for her as she would've happily taken on the job full-time but they just weren't looking to hire.

For all of the money we push into military budgets, IMO this should be a well funded component. If we're sending off young men and women into situations where they're almost guaranteed to develop psychosis (even if we're talking mild psychosis), they should receive gold star mental and physical care for their service.
This post was edited on 2/18/21 at 1:24 pm
Posted by Mainieri Fan
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Posted on 2/18/21 at 1:24 pm to
Posted by TigerOnTheMountain
Higher Elevation
Member since Oct 2014
41773 posts
Posted on 2/18/21 at 1:24 pm to
I lost a battle buddy to suicide five years ago. One thing that I still think about from our conversations is how he would tell me he never thought about suicide until the VA started reminding him of it every time he called or visited a facility. He couldn’t do anything without a canned message telling him that if he’s thinking about suicide, there’s help.

Clearly that’s not the right approach. It’s still that way, as I endure the same messaging every time I need something.
Posted by Sao
East Texas Piney Woods
Member since Jun 2009
65779 posts
Posted on 2/18/21 at 1:26 pm to

Do you happen to recognize any pattern in terms of the vets asking for help way too late so to speak? IOW, anguish alone and try to self medicate, suppress or drink which is what most men do anyway when depressed. Too tough to admit help is needed.
Posted by pdubya76
Sw Ms
Member since Mar 2012
5978 posts
Posted on 2/18/21 at 1:27 pm to
My dad told his support group what he was planning on doing. They had a what’s said here stays here pact so they said nothing. The leader of the group told by mom this at his casket.
Posted by Mainieri Fan
Member since Sep 2018
1264 posts
Posted on 2/18/21 at 1:27 pm to
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Too tough to admit help is needed.
Most Vets are too proud to ask for help with anything in my expeiriance
Posted by The Pirate King
Pangu
Member since May 2014
57708 posts
Posted on 2/18/21 at 1:27 pm to
quote:

My dad is part of that number. He was a Vietnam vet and couldn’t deal with what he saw or did over there. He took his life in 2010 at the age of 66. He was in therapy at the VA but couldn’t overcome it. PTSD is real.


Someone with more historical knowledge would have to chime in, but I wonder what contributes more to Vietnam and Middle East in particular causing issues. From an outside perspective, maybe the difficulty differentiating between combatants and innocents? Not so black and white with uniforms and such.
This post was edited on 2/18/21 at 1:29 pm
Posted by AlextheBodacious
Member since Oct 2020
1476 posts
Posted on 2/18/21 at 1:28 pm to
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wounded warrior


WWP has improved just by getting rid of Nardizzi but in general your money goes way further by giving to local charities. Check 990s before giving, focus on officer salaries.
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