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re: NYT- Men, Where Have You Gone? Please Come Back.

Posted on 6/22/25 at 12:54 pm to
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
35827 posts
Posted on 6/22/25 at 12:54 pm to
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Mingo, please tell me you were that total gooner posting as MingTheBarbarian in all of the Louisiana subreddits. The circa 2002 message board comments, the wannabe internet tough guy persona, it's all there.


I wasn’t born yet
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
147768 posts
Posted on 6/22/25 at 1:02 pm to
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Just retired 2 weeks ago and loving it. My last date was 18yrs ago…when you get older it’s just not worth the BS you have to put up with.
lifelike sex bots can’t get here soon enough huh
Posted by UtahCajun
Member since Jul 2021
2756 posts
Posted on 6/22/25 at 1:07 pm to
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I wasn’t born yet


It all makes sense
Posted by dupergreenie
Member since May 2014
8911 posts
Posted on 6/22/25 at 1:18 pm to
They realized that they need the ‘evil straight white man’ to win elections. They also realized that they don’t want ‘liberal type men’ to breed with.

frick em…… literally and don’t date them….they slept in this bed…they now need to make it.
Posted by Roaad
White Privilege Broker
Member since Aug 2006
81580 posts
Posted on 6/22/25 at 1:42 pm to


Sure thing

You bet

Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
37661 posts
Posted on 6/22/25 at 1:55 pm to
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Too many of them think they are 7 and 8s and might be a 5 on their best day.


And that just on aesthetics! They’re 5s or lower personality- wise.
Posted by HagaDaga
Member since Oct 2020
5494 posts
Posted on 6/22/25 at 2:05 pm to
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Who said they were super close? I respect their relationships as well.

No one did, but you. The poster you responded to didn't say you can't be acquences with females, just not hangout alone, chat/text type of friendslike guy friends..and if men have moms, and sisters they know a lot more than enough about women.

Also, you sound like someone that your girl doesn't have to worry about with other girls, so I wouldn't pat yourself on the back for having "girl friends" to hangout with. Majority of real men can't have that kind of female friends b/c they'll end up banging them.
This post was edited on 6/22/25 at 2:45 pm
Posted by Roaad
White Privilege Broker
Member since Aug 2006
81580 posts
Posted on 6/22/25 at 2:14 pm to
The definition of incel is fluid for convenience.

To most on here, it just means "says women have any accountability for anything"

There are some here that think women are flawless, and everything bad that happens to them is forced upon them by men. To them, women are incapable of being responsible for anything bad.

To those people, it is viscerally gross to hear someone say a woman maybe at all to blame in any capacity.
Posted by UtahCajun
Member since Jul 2021
2756 posts
Posted on 6/22/25 at 3:05 pm to
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There are some here that think women are flawless, and everything bad that happens to them is forced upon them by men. To them, women are incapable of being responsible for anything bad


That actually sounds like an incel trying to make brownie points to get out of that friend zone.
Posted by SECdragonmaster
Order of the Dragons
Member since Dec 2013
17293 posts
Posted on 6/22/25 at 6:17 pm to
Young men should focus on building their character and their career.

Become mentally strong.
Become physically fit.
Become spiritually deep.

Then, sit back and pick the one that is doing the same.

Shallow women are exhausting. You cannot make them happy because what they want (to make them happy) is always changing.

Ignore the herd. You are above it.
Posted by Auburn1968
NYC
Member since Mar 2019
24867 posts
Posted on 6/22/25 at 6:32 pm to
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This is why I tell my 20-something son to find a nice South American or Central American woman. frick these young entitled North American bitches.


I suggest Korean based on 20 years of personal experience.
Posted by Govt Tide
Member since Nov 2009
9521 posts
Posted on 6/22/25 at 7:01 pm to
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Today the average woman wants absolutely nothing to do with the average man. If a man is not at least 6 feet tall & makes at least 6 figures he is almost completely out of the dating pool. Because a male 9 hooked up with her one night because he was drunk & bored a female 4 thinks she is owed a 9 or 10 high value man & will settle for nothing less.


Agree completely with one small caveat. The only part of your statement I'd change "...the dating pool" to "...being marriage material"I'.

I'm 6 feet tall and have ranged from roughly 185 to 195 lbs throughout my 40s. A solid 6...with a ceiling of 7 when in peak physical shape (an average to slightly above average looking guy at least according to the women I've dated) with pretty good game and have had pretty good success dating and/or hooking up with quite a few average to above average looking women via dating apps.

As a guy you don't have to be super tall or well above average look wise to have success dating or hooking up with 7 and 8s as long as you're an average looking guy with a little game and a decent personality and sense of humor. Granted, I'm older and dating older women from their late 30s to mid 50s so I imagine it's much different with young women. Having said that, marriage is a completely different story as even older women have ridiculously high standards and expectations of the men they think they can lock down for marriage.

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Because of the combination of the IPhone dating apps, social media, the Covid/George Floyd insanity of 2020, & 3rd wave feminism we have a lost generation of women.


I'm in the Mobile area and have a pretty wide distance filter on dating apps and match with a lot of women in the NOLA area. I've noticed that the women in NOLA tend to be more woke and/or feminist. Was casually conversing with an attractive attorney from NOLA that got to the point of us considering meeting up until I told her the town I grew up in which was an important city in the Civil Rights movement. Before we even talked on the phone to see if it was worth a meet up she said she lectured me on the Civil Rights events that occurred in the 60s in my hometown (as if I wasn't aware of them growing up there) and that she couldn't date someone from there. No big deal because I wasn't invested at all at that point but I thought to myself damn this chick is pre-judging me based on an event in my hometown that happened nearly 10 years before I was born
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
35827 posts
Posted on 6/22/25 at 7:06 pm to
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I suggest Korean based on 20 years of personal experience.


Look yourself in the mirror if you have to go across the world to find a broad
Posted by Sus-Scrofa
Member since Feb 2013
10406 posts
Posted on 6/22/25 at 7:09 pm to
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what cues tempt the average 18-to-36-year-old cis heterosexual man



Normal guys are going to run away from the girl who uses terms like “cis heterosexual man” to describe a normal guy.

She’s got a sociology degree, multiple cats, and nothing to offer.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
119867 posts
Posted on 6/22/25 at 7:57 pm to
There seems to be a change in men... People 35 and younger (not everyone obviously, but enough for it to be noticeable). These dudes depend on their mom to a point they should be embarrassed. They don't engage in "man talk". They rather talk about their videos games and other BS. It just seems healthy for dudes to engage in "man talk".

When I started working, people used to cuss all the time and people "busted each others chops". Of course it was pretty much all dudes. One time when we shared a building with another company, the other company used to always complain about how they could hear our workers being "highly inappropriate" and I get it, you have to tone it down to a certain degree, but today its a whole different environment.

Anything associated with being "manly" has become "inappropriate" and so when you have dudes who are not as masculine who has their mom to do their things and access to all the porn they want, they don't know how to be appealing to women.

Plus, people need to go back to meeting people in person. At places they hang out with the type of people that is their "normal" instead of looking for people on apps.
Posted by WinnPtiger
Fort Worth
Member since Mar 2011
24936 posts
Posted on 6/22/25 at 9:57 pm to
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People 35 and younger (not everyone obviously, but enough for it to be noticeable). These dudes depend on their mom to a point they should be embarrassed.


you are literally dependent on society. meaning, men
This post was edited on 6/22/25 at 9:58 pm
Posted by ManWithNoNsme
Member since Feb 2022
924 posts
Posted on 6/23/25 at 1:39 am to
You are so awesome!!! I made $31,000 today. How much snot hole did enjoy for 4 seconds?
Posted by ManWithNoNsme
Member since Feb 2022
924 posts
Posted on 6/23/25 at 1:46 am to
You’re such a stud Mingo.if I could only be broke like you
Posted by ManWithNoNsme
Member since Feb 2022
924 posts
Posted on 6/23/25 at 1:53 am to
Don’t really care. I’m 64 dude I just want a RDR2 remake. Where Arthur lives.
Posted by ManWithNoNsme
Member since Feb 2022
924 posts
Posted on 6/23/25 at 1:58 am to
Exactly. You are so smart!
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