re: Not doing good mentally.

Sounds like you are guilty for not stepping in and whipping his arse or at the least, calling the police.

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You don’t understand how scared I was they’d do something do me or my family. He is unhinged and on drugs. He worked for the DOD. He didn’t pass until a few days ago.

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Are you worried about your safety or your family’s safety now?

I’m not saying you are a bad person for not speaking up. My point is you have now spoken up regardless of the consequences. So if that’s the end result it’s better to do it up front no matter what happens.

Take massive amounts of vitamin D

Go to the gym

Don’t drink alcohol

His piece of shite son would have done this one day. If you managed to stop him one day he’d just do it again some other day when you weren’t there.

Don’t worry my friend.

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(What movie was that? Not a real big movie person)

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Titanic.

prayers sent. God bless.

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Go frick yourself bruh. I’d love to see you say that about a poster dealing with cancer or something else traumatic. My mom had a biopsy the day before he passed. You’re goddamn right I need emotional support.

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And you think the OT is a healthy place for emotional support? What if the killer reads OT, now he knows you saw him.

You are empowered to remove the “cancer” from your life. Flush that from you work life and take your skills and experiences and go make your old boss proud, elsewhere.

Sorry for your loss.

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Jesus Christ, why do so many people think the TD is the proper place to go for emotional support?

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you must not have ever been acquainted with some of the LLOTOT that are gullible enough to send you panties and nudes to help get you through a rough time




Also OP should have invite the son to Sonic

I know of a son working for his father in the insurance business and the son, too, is a complete piece of shite. Similar in age to your situation.
The son in my case hasn't gone to level of murder yet, but he has done numerous illegal activities (business related) and doesn't pay taxes as he should, deadbeat dad, gamblholic, on and on.
The guy I know that worked with him, like you, never told the cops or IRS about the son's dealings, either.
Don't beat yourself up over what other shitheads have done.

Hopefully, this can be resolved as it should and justice can be served.

Turkey, you shouldn’t try to deal with this alone. It sounds like you have done everything you could do. It’s perfectly normal to grieve when you lose someone that’s been a big part of your life. Believe me, I speak from experience when I say there is help available to work through this grief. Speak to your primary care medical provider and they should be able to steer you in the right direction.