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re: Need marital advice from the gurus of the OT
Posted on 1/12/20 at 5:53 pm to TopFlightSecurity
Posted on 1/12/20 at 5:53 pm to TopFlightSecurity
quote:I don't know. I've never divorced. But, I did get a pre-nup/seperate property agreement before I got married.
Follow on question what steps should I take now to protect myself in the inevitable divorce?
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Posted on 1/12/20 at 5:55 pm to TigernMS12
quote:
Y should have a second kid not for you wife but for your only child. Only children are weird and fricked up. Plus if they're close in age, they can entertain each other instead of you having to.
This shyt is retarded. Why in the hell would someone who is against it do it for any reason. The odds of stress related issues could be disastrous. Like ID tv network disastrous.
Posted on 1/12/20 at 5:55 pm to OleWar
quote:
Does wife work?
Used to until we had our first kid, now stays at home because I ball out at my job.
Professions?
I'm career Army (which invalidates my OT baller status but frick it)
Gross Income?
120k
Religion?
She's still clinging to her Baptist beliefs, I don't believe in anything.
Need more information.
This post was edited on 1/12/20 at 5:56 pm
Posted on 1/12/20 at 5:56 pm to TopFlightSecurity
quote:
like a true 1950s boss.
Boss don’t go to therapy, bro
Posted on 1/12/20 at 5:57 pm to TigernMS12
Only children are weird but so are toddlers with parents in their 40’s
Posted on 1/12/20 at 5:57 pm to BayouFann
quote:Mental? Physical? Good lord, what did you raise? My 16 and 13 year olds are self-motivated easy to deal with kids. My 8 year old is sassy, but she's a pleasure to be around.
That’s about a 25 year mental, physical and financial burden.
Posted on 1/12/20 at 5:57 pm to TopFlightSecurity
quote:
Wife is dead set on having a second kid I'm dead set against it.
Kids are a blessing. So is early retirement. Make your choice.
Posted on 1/12/20 at 5:58 pm to TopFlightSecurity
Giver her a second child. She will hold it against you if you don't and there's a good chance you will end up divorced.
Posted on 1/12/20 at 5:58 pm to TopFlightSecurity
quote:Oh. Hmm.
Gross Income?
120k
Posted on 1/12/20 at 5:59 pm to redstick13
quote:
Giver her a second child. She will hold it against you if you don't and there's a good chance you will end up divorced.
Good advice. Got any recommendations on divorce lawyers?
Posted on 1/12/20 at 5:59 pm to Jake88
quote:
Oh. Hmm.
It's the OT.
Posted on 1/12/20 at 6:00 pm to TopFlightSecurity
No but I can tell you what it's like to lose your only child.
Posted on 1/12/20 at 6:01 pm to TopFlightSecurity
Happy wife happy life baw
Posted on 1/12/20 at 6:02 pm to TopFlightSecurity
An earlier post of yours makes it sound like your marriage is suffering regardless of this second baby debate. If your relationship is headed for the rocks regardless, a kid isn't going to fix it.
Posted on 1/12/20 at 6:03 pm to TopFlightSecurity
loser 
Posted on 1/12/20 at 6:03 pm to TopFlightSecurity
Just fake it for a few years until she gets too old to have kids
Posted on 1/12/20 at 6:08 pm to Jake88
quote:
An earlier post of yours makes it sound like your marriage is suffering regardless of this second baby debate. If your relationship is headed for the rocks regardless, a kid isn't going to fix it.
Accurate statement. Wife also had post partum depression and I've deployed five times which hasn't helped.
Adding another kid to that mix seems insane to me but she's committed to the idea.
Posted on 1/12/20 at 6:09 pm to TopFlightSecurity
Need pics of wife to know what advice to dispense.
Posted on 1/12/20 at 6:11 pm to TopFlightSecurity
Thanks for contributing to societal collapse.
Posted on 1/12/20 at 6:12 pm to TopFlightSecurity
quote:Uhh, that's 3 significant issues you left out in your op. Kinda like asking if you should go fishing with Quint on the Orca and leaving out the part about the shark.
Accurate statement. Wife also had post partum depression and I've deployed five times which hasn't helped.
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