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re: Need advice
Posted on 7/24/23 at 1:08 pm to CaliTigerHB
Posted on 7/24/23 at 1:08 pm to CaliTigerHB
quote:ahhh so you were willing to give up any and all rights to the poor child to hope to not have to spend any money
We agreed I don’t pay any child support or alimony but she would get 100% custody
Like I said, the woman wants nothing to do with you for a reason
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Posted on 7/24/23 at 1:08 pm to CaliTigerHB
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I wanted to but she has a lot of animosity towards me and just flat out said it ruin her and our s
There is a big gap in the details that have been shared.
Posted on 7/24/23 at 1:09 pm to Jake88
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Dubai in the UAEHmm, men's rights vs women's rights.
We married and divorced here in California.
I’m trying to do my best and do every thing right for her so we can have a good relationship and be cordial but every little thing I do wrong makes her hate me more and more
Posted on 7/24/23 at 1:09 pm to CaliTigerHB
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Was dating this girl for a few months until we found out she was pregnant
Big dummy
She should have been on the pills and you should pull out. Lesson Learned
This post was edited on 7/24/23 at 1:11 pm
Posted on 7/24/23 at 1:09 pm to CaliTigerHB
If you care about the child you move closer. This isn't a question.
Being a parent means endless sacrifice for the better of the child. Moving to UAE probably is not what you want to do, but its best for the child.
Being a parent means endless sacrifice for the better of the child. Moving to UAE probably is not what you want to do, but its best for the child.
Posted on 7/24/23 at 1:09 pm to CaliTigerHB
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Unfortunately, I trusted her word and didn’t get any agreement down on paper
Get legal council now! She’s going to come after you and the child support. And she’ll make you out to be the bad guy that never supported his child.
Posted on 7/24/23 at 1:10 pm to WDE24
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So what do the court papers say? Custody and support can a potentially be modified, but it’s going to likely be a little more expensive with her and the child living abroad. The longer you wait and allow the status quo, the less likely you will be successful in getting a modification.
if she chose to move out of the jurisdiction he has some leverage, he can ask for modification and she has to return to court to answer, if she doesn't respond he wins, I say that of course with the knowledge that courts are biased in favor of those in possession of a vagene
Posted on 7/24/23 at 1:10 pm to CaliTigerHB
Posted on 7/24/23 at 1:12 pm to 777Tiger
quote:the guy is on here talking about giving up trying to see his kid every so often because it breaks his heart to have to say bye. The kid isn't even one yet.... pretty sure defending him not being a deadbeat dad isn't going to help his cause
how is he a deadbeat dad if the count up and moved to another country with his son?
Posted on 7/24/23 at 1:12 pm to 777Tiger
quote:unless he agreed to it in the divorce settlement. Lots of missing details.
if she chose to move out of the jurisdiction he has some leverage,
Most significantly, what does the court order say about custody, support, visitation and her moving with the child.
No court is going to grant a divorce with a minor child involved without those matters addressed.
This post was edited on 7/24/23 at 1:13 pm
Posted on 7/24/23 at 1:13 pm to CaliTigerHB
Sounds like you are leaving some things out and not giving us whole story.
Posted on 7/24/23 at 1:13 pm to CaliTigerHB
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I’m trying to do my best and do every thing right for her so we can have a good relationship and be cordial but every little thing I do wrong makes her hate me more and more
You need to give a bit more details than this man. Makes it sound like you’re hiding something.
Posted on 7/24/23 at 1:13 pm to jrodLSUke
quote:well I mean, did you even read his post in this thread
And she’ll make you out to be the bad guy that never supported his child.
Posted on 7/24/23 at 1:13 pm to CaliTigerHB
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Well things got rocky between us and about a month before our son was born, our relationship ended.
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I wanted to but she has a lot of animosity towards me and just flat out said it ruin her and our sons life if I did because her friends hate and me being there she would have to fit in plans for me to see him in her already busy schedule
Did you screw around on her while she was pregnant? Why the animosity from her and her friends?
Posted on 7/24/23 at 1:13 pm to WDE24
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unless he agreed to it in the divorce settlement.
everything is modifiable
ETA: in perpetuity
This post was edited on 7/24/23 at 1:14 pm
Posted on 7/24/23 at 1:14 pm to ronricks
quote:absolutely
Sounds like you are leaving some things out and not giving us whole story.
The only men that didn't see through the hogwash bullshite in thr OP is probably the folk that walked out on a kid or two or three
Posted on 7/24/23 at 1:16 pm to CaliTigerHB
This sounds like a made up situation.
Posted on 7/24/23 at 1:16 pm to 777Tiger
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if she chose to move out of the jurisdiction he has some leverage, he can ask for modification and she has to return to court to answer, if she doesn't respond he wins
Why would the baby mama living in Dubai give a shite about a court ruling in Cali
Posted on 7/24/23 at 1:17 pm to CaliTigerHB
Think it’s really your kid?
Posted on 7/24/23 at 1:17 pm to 777Tiger
quote:Theoretically, but practically speaking if he gave up his rights and agreed to her taking the child out of the country in a divorce settlement that was approved by the court, it is unlikely he will been successful getting a modification absent some showing of fraud on her part or a significant change in circumstances justifying the modification.
everything is modifiable
He needs to get competent legal counsel asap either way to find out.
However, he may just be looking for someone to tell him it’s ok to forget about the kid and move on with his life.
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