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re: Need a wedding gift for my soon to be wife

Posted on 2/13/17 at 5:26 pm to
Posted by ToesOnTheNose213
The present
Member since Oct 2007
2028 posts
Posted on 2/13/17 at 5:26 pm to
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Because that's a recent "tradition."(read shite bitches on social media made up)

BTW if you are planning on having kids, get ready to hear the term "push present."


The more times goes by, the more I realize how awesome my wife is and how lucky I am. Just before we got married, my now-wife said (without me bringing it up), "Don't get me a wedding present, you already got me a freaking ring." We are expecting our first child in July and just yesterday she said, "Have you heard of a 'push present'? It's fricking stupid, don't get me anything, you already knocked me up. Just buy me some drinks when I can drink again." God I love her.
Posted by stout
Porte du Lafitte
Member since Sep 2006
184500 posts
Posted on 2/13/17 at 5:33 pm to
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8 and 1 half inches




You let her frick a black dude?
Posted by Sidicous
NELA
Member since Aug 2015
19296 posts
Posted on 2/13/17 at 5:45 pm to
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Jewelry is customary now. I gave an Yurman bracelet. Bracelets are a safe route to go (if you're doing jewelry) since she'll probably want to wear it on the wedding day

My friend gave patio furniture, so there's that...


I don't even want to consider the woman that could wear patio furniture on any day much less her own wedding!

Get her a Panini Press, you'll both thank me later!
Posted by Chazzy McRamzee
Member since Jun 2014
2681 posts
Posted on 2/13/17 at 5:49 pm to
I got my old lady a wheelchair. She couldn't walk after the honeymoon.
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
37466 posts
Posted on 2/13/17 at 6:43 pm to
This is fricking stupid. Did you not buy her an engagement ring? Engagement ring, wedding ring, and a badass honeymoon. That should be enough.
Posted by nvcowboyfan
James Turner Street, Birmingham,UK
Member since Nov 2007
2994 posts
Posted on 2/13/17 at 6:43 pm to
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This snowflake generation now says you need a wedding day gift. A gender reveal party/gifts. A push gift? bullshite, all o



this is all part of the whole materialistic bs that many women are into now. They become obsessed with things and then wonder why they "aren't happy"
Posted by CoachChappy
Member since May 2013
34325 posts
Posted on 2/13/17 at 7:03 pm to
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Don't get me a wedding present, you already got me a freaking ring." We are expecting our first child in July and just yesterday she said, "Have you heard of a 'push present'? It's fricking stupid, don't get me anything, you already knocked me up. Just buy me some drinks when I can drink again." God I love her.

Damn near word for word what my old lady told me
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 2/13/17 at 7:07 pm to
My husband and I didn't do this when we got married.


My friend's husband gave her some jewelry from Tiffany's (I think a bracelet)that was engraved.


ETA: Tiffany blue was one of her wedding colors though...so I think he did that to go with her theme
This post was edited on 2/13/17 at 7:08 pm
Posted by East Coast Band
Member since Nov 2010
66987 posts
Posted on 2/13/17 at 7:15 pm to
All this present giving for these occasions is for Facebook posting purposes.
"ooh, everybody look what my sweet new hubby got for me!"

Back in my day, prior to any social media garbage, a man and woman simply got married.
Posted by nobigdeal69
baton rouge
Member since Nov 2009
2286 posts
Posted on 2/13/17 at 9:08 pm to
I got married a couple of months ago, and I didn't get her a wedding gift. I didn't receive one either. You bought her a diamond ring, that should suffice.
Posted by Breesus
Unplug
Member since Jan 2010
69549 posts
Posted on 2/13/17 at 9:14 pm to
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Recently discovered I must get my fiancé a wedding present the day we get married,


Who told you that you had to do that? If it was a family member tell them to frick off. If it was her. Call off the wedding.

I gave my wife an engagement and wedding ring. That's what she got.
Posted by Finch
Member since Jun 2015
3768 posts
Posted on 2/13/17 at 9:18 pm to
I bought my wife a Rolex
Posted by DaBeerz
Member since Sep 2004
18310 posts
Posted on 2/13/17 at 9:21 pm to
Again... I stress do not do this... setting youself up for failure. Every anniversary you will be expected to get a badass gift so she can instagram her "worth". And you will be expected to only get better gifts...I've seen this from friends on Facebook... do not go this route. Give her some kids and materialistic shite should not matter then
Posted by foreverLSU
Member since Mar 2006
17080 posts
Posted on 2/13/17 at 10:15 pm to
My husband and I skipped day of wedding gifts and put the money towards our amazing honeymoon (3 weeks in New Zealand). No ragrets.

My friends husband has given her a Mignon Faget necklace for their first dating anniversary. On their wedding day he gave her the matching bracelet, which she wore for their wedding. I liked that the gift had meaning and wasn't just a random piece of jewelry.
Posted by DONHOGG
NE Louisiana
Member since Feb 2007
1981 posts
Posted on 2/13/17 at 10:33 pm to
The most powerful wand messager you can find. Believe me it's the gift that keeps on giving!!!
Posted by Rize
Spring Texas
Member since Sep 2011
19803 posts
Posted on 2/13/17 at 10:40 pm to


Regardless of the down votes I get it works wonders.
This post was edited on 2/13/17 at 10:42 pm
Posted by Pepe Lepew
Looney tuned .....
Member since Oct 2008
39061 posts
Posted on 2/13/17 at 10:44 pm to
Rolling pin and coat hangers
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
117554 posts
Posted on 2/13/17 at 10:45 pm to
3 weeks?

Damn, I'm jealous.

I got no present and no honeymoon.
Posted by GuyonaBuffalo
Member since Jan 2014
639 posts
Posted on 2/14/17 at 12:39 am to
Pair of really nice pearl earrings and for our first and second anniversary I completed the set with a bracelet and necklace.
Posted by BamaChick
Terminus
Member since Dec 2008
21393 posts
Posted on 2/14/17 at 12:53 am to
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Because that's a recent "tradition."(read shite bitches on social media made up)

BTW if you are planning on having kids, get ready to hear the term "push present."


I've been married 25 years and got a wedding present from my husband. A hand monogrammed gold bangle I still wear everyday.

And my kids are 18 and 15 and I got presents from my husband when they were born. Two different rings with my birthstone and the child's birthstone.

No social media back then and not "recent" at all.

Most of my friends did the same thing.

Hell, I'm 45 and my dad gave my mom a charm bracelet when I was born and he has since given her charms for other special occasions.

You young bucks are just now hearing about these things because you're in that phase of life and social media makes it easier for other people to brag about it. Back in the day I didn't know this kind of minutiae about the lives of everyone I ever knew. Social media gets the blame for a lot of things for "being a thing" but social media didn't create wedding gifts or push presents, it just allowed everyone to share things with the world that in the past were only known by your "real" friends.
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