re: My fiancee called me out for mansplaining?

Posted by deltaland

Member since Mar 2011

90753 posts

Posted on 12/6/19 at 7:16 am to mattytiger123

You shouldn’t have taken her to the Pacific Northwest. She got infected with the disease

Seriously though my ex was as conservative as could be and one night drinking she got all emotional and snapped on me about how she hates me views and spouted off all this liberal shite that she always despised herself like it was her beliefs.

Women are crazy and will do random shite out of nowhere, usually because it’s something else bothering them they won’t address so they just make shite up to bitch about

Posted by deltaland

Member since Mar 2011

90753 posts

Posted on 12/6/19 at 7:18 am to conservativewifeymom

quote:
As a happily married (21 years) woman, I say you should be concerned at the sudden changes in behavior since the engagement. She would not be the first woman who, once she has that ring on her finger, shows her true colors.

This is great advice. I’ve seen it happen to my friends, they find a great girl then bam once married she is a different person. Women are great at hiding their true colors in order to snag a man

Posted by Tigerbait46

Member since Dec 2005

8017 posts

Posted on 12/6/19 at 7:29 am to mattytiger123

Woof.

This post was edited on 7/16/20 at 3:59 pm

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Posted by Butch Baum

Member since Oct 2007

2830 posts

Posted on 12/6/19 at 7:38 am to mattytiger123

Cut bait. Too many fish for that.

Posted by Mahootney

Lovin' My German Footprint

Member since Sep 2008

11875 posts

Posted on 12/6/19 at 7:43 am to mattytiger123

No bullshite. She did you a favor.
Any bitch that talks or thinks like that is fricking trouble.
Not too late to get out of it.

Posted by El Tigre Grande

Bayou Self

Member since Jan 2006

2270 posts

Posted on 12/6/19 at 7:45 am to rich4pres

quote:
divorces are expensive

pretty much this.
be prepared to give her half of everything in a few years...

Posted by Mr. Hangover

New Orleans

Member since Sep 2003

34515 posts

Posted on 12/6/19 at 7:57 am to El Tigre Grande

This shite is all fun and games til her liberal arse has his future children in a library enjoying storytime with a bunch of dudes wearing dresses with their dicks tucked in between their legs

Posted by 777Tiger

Member since Mar 2011

73856 posts

Posted on 12/6/19 at 7:59 am to Tigerbait46

quote:
I'm an "explainer" that reasons with facts

kind of what men are, we use logic, use black and white decision matrices, we're problem solvers, woman are just the opposite, they don't want to hear your solution for their problem, they just want to bitch about it and they want you to silently listen to their bitching, OP is the biggest dumbass in the world to disregard everything posted on here, for once the OT is resoundingly correct

Posted by waiting4saturday

Covington, LA

Member since Sep 2005

9740 posts

Posted on 12/6/19 at 8:03 am to mattytiger123

Posted by KamaCausey_LSU

Member since Apr 2013

14560 posts

Posted on 12/6/19 at 8:05 am to mattytiger123

Sounds like she was riled up on period hormones.

Posted by 777Tiger

Member since Mar 2011

73856 posts

Posted on 12/6/19 at 8:07 am to KamaCausey_LSU

quote:
Sounds like she was riled up on period hormones.

probably just a sunburned perineum

Posted by TH03

Mogadishu

Member since Dec 2008

171037 posts

Posted on 12/6/19 at 8:09 am to 777Tiger

quote:
they don't want to hear your solution for their problem, they just want to bitch about it and they want you to silently listen to their bitching

Yep. Women want to vent, men want to solve the problem.

If your wife wants you to give a solution, she will explicitly ask you for it. Otherwise, just listen, say "wow that's awful babe, I'm sorry" and let her bitch.

Your life will be easier when you understand that men and women are very different in this regard.

Posted by Cowboyfan89

Member since Sep 2015

12719 posts

Posted on 12/6/19 at 8:11 am to mattytiger123

quote:
Thoughts?

Get out! There's trouble brewing in them there hills!

Seriously, that's not good. Cut and run, man. Cut and run.

Posted by andwesway

Zachary, LA

Member since Jun 2016

1513 posts

Posted on 12/6/19 at 8:11 am to mattytiger123

I think I'd have to let this one go. A lifetime of that would be miserable.

Posted by bigfatpimp

st. gabriel

Member since Sep 2005

302 posts

Posted on 12/6/19 at 8:13 am to mattytiger123

I don't see what the big deal is.

Get her a Peloton for Christmas.

Posted by 777Tiger

Member since Mar 2011

73856 posts

Posted on 12/6/19 at 8:14 am to bigfatpimp

quote:
Get her a Peloton for Christmas.

and put it in her mouth

Posted by EZE Tiger Fan

Member since Jul 2004

50367 posts

Posted on 12/6/19 at 8:15 am to andwesway

I've had two really good friends get caught in situations like yours. Both went through with the marriage, only to have the marriage destroyed within a few years.

In both scenarios, their feminist friends convinced them to just leave out of the blue.

You need to run away from this NOW. If not, you'll be paying this nutjob part of your earnings the rest of your life.

She wants to marry a man she can boss around and will also let her frick whoever she wants on the side, all the while making you feel guilty for being a male. Get out now.