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re: My buddy just slept with his buddies ex wife

Posted on 6/26/14 at 11:17 pm to
Posted by NawlinsTigah270
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Posted on 6/26/14 at 11:17 pm to
All depends on how and why it ended. If the guy was cheating or something and he left her, then it's not a big deal. If the guy is heartbroken or really down about it, then it is really fricked up
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
108579 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 11:20 pm to
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Honestly I don't see a problem. They're exes, get over yourselves. As for the bro code. What is this shite? Some arbitrary rules that men keep between themselves like women with The Rules that would get tossed the moment his ex sent you nudes? That type of BS? lulz



Yeah, I bet your tune really changes once this happens to you. Would you be comfortable for the rest of your life hanging out with your wife and best friend who are currently fricking? I'd bet not.
Posted by Mike da Tigah
Bravo Romeo Lima Alpha
Member since Feb 2005
58895 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 11:26 pm to
Redneck trailer park trouble
Posted by Ross
Member since Oct 2007
47824 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 11:47 pm to
quote:

Honestly I don't see a problem. They're exes, get over yourselves. As for the bro code. What is this shite? Some arbitrary rules that men keep between themselves like women with The Rules that would get tossed the moment his ex sent you nudes? That type of BS? lulz



lol are you kidding? If the guy who just got a divorce is in a bad place mentally (pretty likely), this is probably the absolute worst thing a friend can do in a time where he should show support. Instead he's allowed himself to become a tool for some revenge from the ex-wife and has accomplished nothing but to hurt his friend more.

I don't have a problem with the two adults screwing, but this bro is not a real friend to the guy who just got a divorce.
Posted by SwaggerCopter
H TINE HOL IT DINE
Member since Dec 2012
27231 posts
Posted on 6/27/14 at 12:24 am to
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Why it's best to be tight with your friends

Underrated post, right here.
Posted by SwaggerCopter
H TINE HOL IT DINE
Member since Dec 2012
27231 posts
Posted on 6/27/14 at 12:26 am to
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I don't have a problem with the two adults screwing, but this bro is not a real friend to the guy who just got a divorce.


This. I have a hot ex who tried to pull the moves on a couple of my friends. Both resisted (something I could never do, even after it was over). I don't know how. But I respect the hell out of both of them for it.
Posted by AU4real35
Member since Jan 2014
16065 posts
Posted on 6/27/14 at 12:35 am to
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The divorce has been final for a week maybe two..


Not cool... There are certain things that are "untouchables" to real friends... Your bud's a douche...

eta: congrats on the secs douche.
This post was edited on 6/27/14 at 12:39 am
Posted by Jack Daniel
In the bottle
Member since Feb 2013
25490 posts
Posted on 6/27/14 at 12:40 am to
They didnt resist. They hit it and told you otherwise
Posted by JazzyJeff
Japan
Member since Sep 2006
3938 posts
Posted on 6/27/14 at 1:02 am to
He should no longer be your buddy.
Posted by genuineLSUtiger
Nashville
Member since Sep 2005
72975 posts
Posted on 6/27/14 at 1:12 am to
Karma is a true bitch and is a law of the universe. Your buddy has some coming to him so I would distance myself. People like that can never fully be trusted.
This post was edited on 6/27/14 at 1:13 am
Posted by skinny domino
sebr
Member since Feb 2007
14341 posts
Posted on 6/27/14 at 2:26 am to
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buddies ex wife
frick the ex bull shite - if she is hittable and willin' - slip the ole manda to her.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
140462 posts
Posted on 6/27/14 at 2:29 am to
You and your friends are trashy











Sorry to hear that you you can move your home over night hooked up to a semi
Posted by StraightCashHomey21
Aberdeen,NC
Member since Jul 2009
125418 posts
Posted on 6/27/14 at 2:55 am to
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. Got married after high school



Usually ends up with
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ex wife
Posted by Stringer Bell
The Towers
Member since May 2014
658 posts
Posted on 6/27/14 at 3:23 am to
First who said I'd get married? 2nd, if she left I'd shake his hand and buy him a keg. She's his problem now. Plenty of beautiful women out there. There's zero reason to be angry long term. People pick mates based on wants instead of needs. IMO the reason why 60%+ of divorces are started by women. The kids are the true victims though. Parents are to blame for that though.
Posted by efrad
Member since Nov 2007
18646 posts
Posted on 6/27/14 at 4:02 am to
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This post was edited on 4/20/21 at 8:39 pm
Posted by SoFla Tideroller
South Florida
Member since Apr 2010
30146 posts
Posted on 6/27/14 at 5:36 am to
It's more of a respect thing. Marriages don't just end and the feelings die when the ink dries. People need time to heal. A good friend would help in that healing, not bury his pecker in his friends wife.

How do you know the marriage and feelings haven't been dead for years and the paperwork was just a mere formality? She's not his wife. They're exes. As in not married.

This "bro code" does seem a little juvenile and high schoolish.

I think a lot of these guys preaching this "bro code" nonsense are just trying to scare suitors away from their exes because they're afraid the next guy is going to do a better job of curling her toes than they did.

Posted by Hoops
LA
Member since Jan 2013
6542 posts
Posted on 6/27/14 at 6:01 am to
Best case scenario the guy is an insecure bottom feeder. The woman isn't emotionally stable right now and he looked to benefit from this. Even if she wanted the divorce her mind isn't clear in this scenario.

Of course they could just both be selfish, immature pricks too.
Posted by Hoops
LA
Member since Jan 2013
6542 posts
Posted on 6/27/14 at 6:03 am to
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I think a lot of these guys preaching this "bro code" nonsense are just trying to scare suitors away from their exes because they're afraid the next guy is going to do a better job of curling her toes than they did.


It's a shame having morals is starting to get blended with some lame shite like the phrase "bro code."
Posted by Wtodd
Tampa, FL
Member since Oct 2013
67490 posts
Posted on 6/27/14 at 6:14 am to
She's a free agent and he had her over for a try out before signing.......nothing to see here, movin' along.
Posted by Hoops
LA
Member since Jan 2013
6542 posts
Posted on 6/27/14 at 6:18 am to
Yeah but if you opt-out of your contract there's still waiting period before other teams can contact you.
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