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re: My brother demanded I offer step niece $1000 for all As
Posted on 10/11/20 at 7:45 am to MSUDawg98
Posted on 10/11/20 at 7:45 am to MSUDawg98
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My in-laws don't give them a damn thing other than Christmas, Birthdays, and for doing manual labor at their house.
This isn’t that outlandish. My grandparents did this and I never felt anything but overwhelming love from either side. My dads parents sometimes would sneak me a $10 right when they got to my house or something when they visited (which after I was 5 years old was once maybe twice a year coming from FL to VA) and now as an adult my grandma likes to mail me some candy every now and then.
My moms mom can’t afford to do any of that because she makes horrendous life choices. Thankfully my mother and I like to think myself did not inherit this trait
This post was edited on 10/11/20 at 7:48 am
Posted on 10/11/20 at 7:50 am to Privateer 2007
We loaned my BIL $5750 to buy a car when they needed help. Never paid back a dime.
We asked about it a year or so later, and the response was "we knew you had the money, we had no plans to pay you back".
We asked about it a year or so later, and the response was "we knew you had the money, we had no plans to pay you back".
Posted on 10/11/20 at 7:52 am to kywildcatfanone
Never expect leant money to be re paid.
Posted on 10/11/20 at 7:54 am to kywildcatfanone
quote:how much did the car cost?
We loaned my BIL $5750 to buy a car
Posted on 10/11/20 at 7:55 am to Privateer 2007
What I would do and what I did do. Was start a fund and load some ETFs in it (ARKK, ARKQ, GLD, XLK) then Put a few bucks in from time to time.
That's my graduation present along with planned info on money management. Had I had this at 18. I would be a OT baller now.
That's my graduation present along with planned info on money management. Had I had this at 18. I would be a OT baller now.
Posted on 10/11/20 at 7:56 am to MSUDawg98
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zero standing to promise your money
Exactly!
$20 or some shite, I'd be annoyed but not angry.
$1,000 is insane.
Posted on 10/11/20 at 7:56 am to jlovel7
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This post was edited on 10/11/20 at 5:03 pm
Posted on 10/11/20 at 7:57 am to Privateer 2007
Sounds like a trashy crew
Posted on 10/11/20 at 7:59 am to Rouge
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how much did the car cost?
It was $5750, I went to the dealership and paid for it. Where I went wrong was not putting it in my name, but I trusted him. Never again.
Posted on 10/11/20 at 8:01 am to kywildcatfanone
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how much did the car cost?
It was $5750, I went to the dealership and paid for it. Where I went wrong was not putting it in my name, but I trusted him. Never again.
Yeeeeaaahhhh
Never trust anybody that isn't willing to finance something as low as $5K
Posted on 10/11/20 at 8:01 am to Privateer 2007
In our home, we don’t pay for grades. When they were in elementary school, we’d get a treat when reports cards came.
And Who knows who would end up with the money even if you gave it to her.
Should you want to do something to help her, put a little money aside for her for college/trade school/etc.
Just a thought.
And Who knows who would end up with the money even if you gave it to her.
Should you want to do something to help her, put a little money aside for her for college/trade school/etc.
Just a thought.
This post was edited on 10/11/20 at 8:07 am
Posted on 10/11/20 at 8:02 am to Privateer 2007
I’m a 1%er and my kids get $10 for an A
Posted on 10/11/20 at 8:03 am to Ricardo
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I've always felt like over-rewarding kids with money is a sign of a guilty conscience for not giving them the affection/time they deserve and really want.
My parents were well off but the only reason I ever got an allowance was so I could learn to manage money myself. Otherwise even though my dad could have afforded it he never would have just given us free money
Posted on 10/11/20 at 8:04 am to yellowfin
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I’m a 1%er and my kids get $10 for an A
Exactly. You didn't get that money by giving it away on stupid things
Posted on 10/11/20 at 8:07 am to Rouge
He wouldn't have qualified for financing. We got a sob story about trying to be a better person, do better, be more responsible, etc. We thought he was sincere.
I learned an expensive lesson. Never again.
I learned an expensive lesson. Never again.
Posted on 10/11/20 at 8:10 am to Rouge
I never had to do it but if they make a C I take $10 out of their account
Posted on 10/11/20 at 8:10 am to Privateer 2007
quote:Your pickled brother is banging her.
step niece
Trying to buy her silence.
Geez, three pages before the truth is revealed.
OT slippage.
Posted on 10/11/20 at 8:24 am to yellowfin
quote:Yep. C’s cancelled A’s in our report card reward game.
if they make a C I take $10 out of their account
Posted on 10/11/20 at 8:24 am to castorinho
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then help the kid break the cycle.
Yes, just throw money at the child. THAT's the answer to poor parenting.
Posted on 10/11/20 at 8:26 am to Privateer 2007
Are you really so soft that you can’t tell your own brother to frick off?
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