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re: My brother demanded I offer step niece $1000 for all As
Posted on 10/11/20 at 10:18 am to Privateer 2007
Posted on 10/11/20 at 10:18 am to Privateer 2007
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Yep.
Problem is he'll do same thing sober.
then why did you bring up him being a a drunk and only having 1 DUI?
Why dont you beat his fricking arse
Posted on 10/11/20 at 10:20 am to Privateer 2007
Help the kid out. What does your brother drinking or a dui have to do with you being a cheap puss y?
Im suprised your wife lets you on TD.
Im suprised your wife lets you on TD.
Posted on 10/11/20 at 10:20 am to Volvagia
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Or more likely, force the kid to buy for herself things that would otherwise be provided.
Exactly. Mom isn’t going to sit around being broke while daughter spends a thousand in cash on shite she wants that mom can’t afford. Don’t inject a large sum of cash into a situation where money is tight unless you are prepared to deal with the fallout. Also, don’t begrudgingly give the niece money as a gift. A gift should come from the heart because it’s something you want to do, not because you were guilted into it.
Posted on 10/11/20 at 10:21 am to Privateer 2007
I love my nieces and nephews to death and I would do almost anything for them.
But 1000 for a semester worth of A's is a big fat hell no. Maybe I'd do that when they graduate high school, or more likely I'd put that on a down payment on a car if my brother was planning on getting one for them.
But 1000 for a semester worth of A's is a big fat hell no. Maybe I'd do that when they graduate high school, or more likely I'd put that on a down payment on a car if my brother was planning on getting one for them.
Posted on 10/11/20 at 10:34 am to Privateer 2007
I wouldn't give her that much money but maybe take her out for dinner or take her shopping.
Posted on 10/11/20 at 10:37 am to Privateer 2007
Make his wife open up her back door. He wants the money, then you get some honey.
Posted on 10/11/20 at 10:59 am to Privateer 2007
Man, things like this really make me appreciate that my family members aren’t a bunch of dumbasses. My brother and I are best friends and wouldn’t dream of doing some stupid shite like that to each other.
This post was edited on 10/11/20 at 10:59 am
Posted on 10/11/20 at 11:02 am to Privateer 2007
I was never financially rewarded as a student for doing what I was supposed to, and $1000 is an insane amount for that.
Posted on 10/11/20 at 12:11 pm to Privateer 2007
I wouldn't give my own kids $1,000 for good grades.
Your brother doesn't realize that regardless if you are in the top 5% or even top .05%, he has no right to spend someone else's money?
Your brother doesn't realize that regardless if you are in the top 5% or even top .05%, he has no right to spend someone else's money?
Posted on 10/11/20 at 12:34 pm to Privateer 2007
Offer her some sort of a match on any college scholarships she receives.
Posted on 10/11/20 at 12:47 pm to Privateer 2007
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He's had multiple arrests for drunk disorderly. But, he only has one DUI
>>Only<< one DUI? ONE is too damned many.
Posted on 10/11/20 at 12:55 pm to Privateer 2007
Go to the 14 year old, explain the deal, make your own deal with her, ignore your brother.
Posted on 10/11/20 at 1:01 pm to Privateer 2007
quote:what the frick does this have to do with anything Bozo?
I earn a good living as does wife. Definitely top 5%. But, not crazy money. No inheritance etc. We are building wealth old fashioned way.
Posted on 10/11/20 at 1:02 pm to SuperSaint
That was probably the whole point of this thread
Posted on 10/11/20 at 2:15 pm to Privateer 2007
Beat your brother up.
Posted on 10/11/20 at 2:20 pm to Privateer 2007
Anybody not responsible for signing my paychecks is gonna have a hard time “demanding” damn near anything from me. Happy to discuss requests, going to politely decline any request to pay a thousand bucks for any grades made by anyone at any time, but demands are a problem right from the start.
Posted on 10/11/20 at 2:22 pm to dirtsandwich
Especially if it’s your stepsisters kid
I wouldn’t even think of giving my own kids $1000 for straight A’s. They’re expected to make good grades. You don’t get rewarded for doing shite you’re supposed to do
I wouldn’t even think of giving my own kids $1000 for straight A’s. They’re expected to make good grades. You don’t get rewarded for doing shite you’re supposed to do
Posted on 10/11/20 at 2:24 pm to Privateer 2007
Sounds like your brother needs money
When your step-niece gets out the house, give her some money then, but only if you want to
We were never paid for grades bc that’s what was expected - my parents were teachers and my dad was tough (despite being an Aggie )
When your step-niece gets out the house, give her some money then, but only if you want to
We were never paid for grades bc that’s what was expected - my parents were teachers and my dad was tough (despite being an Aggie )
Posted on 10/11/20 at 2:39 pm to Privateer 2007
quote:Should’ve asked if he wanted tots or onion rings with his knuckle checking
My brother took it upon himself to offer her $1000 from me if she gets all A's.
I politely said. "I'm not doing that. If you choose that's a nice gesture from you".
He's berating me for being "cheap", "mean" etc.
Posted on 10/11/20 at 2:49 pm to Pelican fan99
Is $1k a lot of money to some people?
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