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Multiple divorce people - Who decided to call it off?

Posted on 5/4/20 at 5:28 pm
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
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Posted on 5/4/20 at 5:28 pm
Having a discussion on this in regards to Stacey Dash getting 4th divorce

At that point, she either is a horrible judge of character or it is her

My thought is that people with multiple divorces have similar stories in marriages breaking. My guess is that a person is always left or is always doing the leaving

For those who feel comfortable, I'd like to hear your stories.

I've never been married or engaged, so I am not any help on this topic.
This post was edited on 5/4/20 at 5:29 pm
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
45572 posts
Posted on 5/4/20 at 5:31 pm to
I’ve found if you marry for looks you have a better chance of getting divorced than if you marry for cooking ability.
Posted by CP3forMVP
Member since Nov 2010
16085 posts
Posted on 5/4/20 at 5:32 pm to
At four divorces I would say it’s less to do with judge of character or you being a shitty person, and more to do with you running for the hills whenever you get into a huge argument. Marriage is really hard work, it’s never 100% perfect.
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11638 posts
Posted on 5/4/20 at 5:33 pm to
The thought of going through 4 divorces legit makes my stomach hurt. I think if you’ve gone through that many failed marriages, you probably have some sort of major personality disorder that makes you very hard to live with.
This post was edited on 5/4/20 at 5:34 pm
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
106128 posts
Posted on 5/4/20 at 5:33 pm to
My wife's friend remarried on the rebound to a guy very similar to the one she split with. It lasted less than a year. She's very nice looking, (no pics) but she probably won't ever get married again. May not ever date for that matter.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53839 posts
Posted on 5/4/20 at 5:34 pm to
My sister in law has been divorced 7 or 8 times. I can't remember which.
Posted by High C
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Member since Nov 2012
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Posted on 5/4/20 at 5:36 pm to
quote:

My sister in law has been divorced 7 or 8 times. I can't remember which.


At that point why would you even consider marriage again?
Posted by Tri City Tigers
Member since Oct 2018
2343 posts
Posted on 5/4/20 at 5:36 pm to
quote:

I've never been married or engaged, so I am not any help on this topic.




It sounds to me like she finds her self worth in being in a relationship and continues to fail at these marriages. She definitely has a mental issue of some sort to be married 4 times and divorced in the last 20 years.
This post was edited on 5/4/20 at 5:37 pm
Posted by Yat27
Austin
Member since Nov 2010
8375 posts
Posted on 5/4/20 at 5:36 pm to
Stacey Dash is a smoking hot helping of sweet brown sugar... Of course she's the crazy one.
Posted by Slagathor
Makin' jokes about your teeny tiny
Member since Jul 2007
39015 posts
Posted on 5/4/20 at 5:36 pm to
quote:

My thought is that people with multiple divorces have similar stories in marriages breaking.


I mean... if they keep dying, people start getting suspicious.
Posted by Major Dutch Schaefer
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Posted on 5/4/20 at 5:37 pm to
Not sure where he got his stats, but Rush said today that 70% of the time it is the woman that calls it off.
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
106128 posts
Posted on 5/4/20 at 5:38 pm to
I worked with a lady whose mother had been married five times. Her only comment was, "she liked being a bride."
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53839 posts
Posted on 5/4/20 at 5:38 pm to
quote:

At that point why would you even consider marriage again?

I don't know. She needs a man to take care of her I guess and she used to be really attractive. Getting older and hard living have taken that from her now.

My wife sent her a Christmas present last year and realized she didn't know her own sister's last name. She didn't bother to change it a few times. She's never even met some of her previous BILs
Posted by ForeverLSU02
Albany
Member since Jun 2007
52587 posts
Posted on 5/4/20 at 5:39 pm to
Hell if you do it once, may as well do it multiple times
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11638 posts
Posted on 5/4/20 at 5:44 pm to
quote:

My sister in law has been divorced 7 or 8 times. I can't remember which.


I am beyond horrified at the thought does she have kids?
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53839 posts
Posted on 5/4/20 at 5:46 pm to
quote:

I am beyond horrified at the thought ? does she have kids?

One. He's about 30 now and hasn't done much with his life either.

She had a kid at 18 or so and had some pretty bad substance abuse problems. She's certifiable.
This post was edited on 5/4/20 at 5:48 pm
Posted by Mud_Till_May
Member since Aug 2014
9685 posts
Posted on 5/4/20 at 5:48 pm to
Thats a lot of alimony.
Posted by Celery
Nuevo York
Member since Nov 2010
11748 posts
Posted on 5/4/20 at 5:49 pm to
I’m pretty close to someone who is on his 5th marriage. Intelligent guy with a good heart, but he has just made some poor choices, either by impulsivity or yes, being a poor judge of character.
This post was edited on 5/4/20 at 5:50 pm
Posted by Pelican fan99
Lafayette, Louisiana
Member since Jun 2013
39656 posts
Posted on 5/4/20 at 5:57 pm to
quote:

My sister in law has been divorced 7 or 8 times. I can't remember which.


how bat shite crazy is she and how many times has she tried to bang you
Posted by littleavery1948
Member since Oct 2014
6480 posts
Posted on 5/4/20 at 5:57 pm to
quote:

Having a discussion on this in regards to Stacey Dash getting 4th divorce

At that point, she either is a horrible judge of character or it is her

My thought is that people with multiple divorces have similar stories in marriages breaking. My guess is that a person is always left or is always doing the leaving

For those who feel comfortable, I'd like to hear your stories.

I've never been married or engaged, so I am not any help on this topic.


Not married, but shame on you, you fooled me once; shame on me, you fooled me twice. My sister has been divorced and it was because she married a racist scumbag. She had several boyfriends who were similar, but she finally wised up and married someone decent. My brother married a golddigger who threw a knife at him, but he was desperate for marriage. I don't know if I'll ever marry, but if I do, and it ends badly, that will be it.
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