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re: Mommy With Kids in Car Goes Full Karen Mode When Officer Writes a Ticket, Ends in Disaster

Posted on 7/28/25 at 1:05 pm to
Posted by Lake08
Member since Jun 2023
2778 posts
Posted on 7/28/25 at 1:05 pm to
I’d say both added to their stellar reputations….an a-hole cop and a white Karen. Both winners
Posted by Purple Spoon
Hoth
Member since Feb 2005
20895 posts
Posted on 7/28/25 at 1:08 pm to
+1

The only thing I will say is that it NEVER resolves anything to be a bitch to the cop. Do the bare minimum of what you are told and do the rest in front of the bench.

I’ve Been pulled over 5-6 times in the last 10-15 years and only gotten two tickets. Unless you are flying or being stupid just being professional can save you some money much less a trip in cuffs.
Posted by bluedragon
Birmingham
Member since May 2020
9554 posts
Posted on 7/28/25 at 1:11 pm to
Work with or for an attorney and you watch this crap every day. It doesn’t take much effort to shut your mouth, sign and be on your way home. Her acting like an arse throwing anything, turns a $75 ticket into attorney fees and court costs and a bigger fine.

You won’t be on a jury…….you get to face the judge instead.

Talk a game without any idea concerning the rules…..
Posted by eatpie
Kentucky
Member since Aug 2018
1583 posts
Posted on 7/28/25 at 1:17 pm to
My initial reaction is that seemed a bit harsh for throwing stuff at a cop, but she fully earned it, and the cop was definitely "legally" right.

The fact the cop was right and she got what she earned is confirmed by the husband's attitude. She's a beotch all the time and he is sick of her.

She FAFO this time.
Posted by Whiznot
Albany, GA
Member since Oct 2013
7601 posts
Posted on 7/28/25 at 1:17 pm to
frick all you assholes who take the cop's side.
Posted by AwesomeSauce
Das Boot
Member since May 2015
11455 posts
Posted on 7/28/25 at 1:22 pm to
quote:

It doesn’t really come off the same when you don’t put it in truncated form
The phonetic euphemism has been used broadly since at least the lat 90's and was one of the first phrases added to Urban Dictionary when it came to be. The C-U abbreviation actually wasn't adopted until later when phonetic spelling and abbreviations became more commonplace during the late 2000's when texting became more mainstream.

One of my favorite uses of euphemism for the word comes from William Shakespeare in the Twelfth Night when Malvolio says: “By my life, this is my lady’s hand these be her / very C’s, her U’s and her T’s and thus makes she her / great P’s…” Shakespeare instructs the actor to pronounce and as 'N' which completes the euphemism and gives way for the bathroom joke that follows.
Posted by TigerV
Member since Feb 2007
2937 posts
Posted on 7/28/25 at 1:24 pm to
Lady has attitude, but that cop is an arse.
Posted by i am dan
NC
Member since Aug 2011
31704 posts
Posted on 7/28/25 at 1:36 pm to
If she would've acted like an adult, she would've gotten a ticket and been on her way.

That all there is to it.

Not the cops job to teach her how to act like a reasonable adult. His job is to arrest her when she committed the felony.

How far should a cop let a person go? What is allowed to be thrown at police officers and what is not?

When should an officer respond to having objects thrown at them? What type of objects should be allowed to throw at officers?
This post was edited on 7/28/25 at 1:42 pm
Posted by Dantheman504
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Member since Jun 2013
6533 posts
Posted on 7/28/25 at 2:14 pm to
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Not the cops job to teach her how to act like a reasonable adult.

It is the cops job to de escalate.
quote:

His job is to arrest her when she committed the felony.

His job is to prevent felonies and not enable them.

Even moreso when kids are involved...

The cop and woman are both wrong. Neither had a reasonable reaction.

His duty is to keep the peace and write a ticket. He abandoned both of those duties when he purposely wouldn't hand her the ticket and then threatened her. Everything that happened after that was a direct response to his escalation of events.

If a cop is dealing with someone upset or frantic is their first step in training to de escalate or act like an a-hole and threaten them?

This post was edited on 7/28/25 at 2:24 pm
Posted by Lexis Dad
Member since Apr 2025
6399 posts
Posted on 7/28/25 at 2:36 pm to
quote:

The woman was a rude bitch, but IWHI.

Agreed.

She's pretty hot
Posted by forkedintheroad
Member since Feb 2025
2322 posts
Posted on 7/28/25 at 2:48 pm to
Classic example of two people being on edge and setting each off by it.

She was anxious because she had a sick kid.
He was anxious because who knows why.

His first command to roll the back window down probably set her in motion. That was a classic "this means nothing but I want to see how well you will obey me" and she knew it.

Her first mistake was trying to user her sick kid as an excuse. Cop took it as her trying to get off and now he is moving towards confrontation.

Then he followed up with the stupid "decide how you want to handle this now" which is completely not required and could even be grounds for a lawyer to fight this in court.

After that they were both just rolling towards the inevitable.

Final judgement:

Drop the assault charges, pay the ticket, tell the cop to chill the frick out, and everyone grow up.

Posted by i am dan
NC
Member since Aug 2011
31704 posts
Posted on 7/28/25 at 2:52 pm to
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His job is to prevent felonies and not enable them.


To prevent felonies? What do you mean prevent felonies? Cops should go sit at parking lots at bars and not let people drink and drive?
Cops should take all throwable objects from people so they can't throw them during a traffic stop? Cops should not let people run or evade cops before it happens?

Felonies aren't preventable. What felonies do you think are preventable? Just list a couple for me.

I guess her throwing the pen was the officer's fault since he handed it to her.....

We'll also need thousands more cops to place everywhere to prevent all these felonies before they happen...

This post was edited on 7/28/25 at 3:03 pm
Posted by i am dan
NC
Member since Aug 2011
31704 posts
Posted on 7/28/25 at 3:03 pm to
quote:

His first command to roll the back window down probably set her in motion. That was a classic "this means nothing but I want to see how well you will obey me" and she knew it.


Nope, that's standard protocol. And you thought it was a power flex?? Jeeeezus...

This is only a portion of the part dealing with tinted windows.

quote:

Police officers follow specific protocols and tactical considerations when dealing with traffic stops involving vehicles with tinted windows to ensure the safety of both the officers and the occupants of the vehicle.
Here's a summary of the standard protocol:
Safety First: Because heavily tinted windows obscure the view inside a vehicle, officers are trained to prioritize safety during these stops. They cannot see the driver or passengers before they roll down the windows, which raises concerns about potential threats.
Requesting Windows Down: Officers may instruct the driver to lower all car windows through the PA system before approaching the vehicle. Drivers can also choose to roll down their windows to facilitate the stop and demonstrate cooperation.
This post was edited on 7/28/25 at 3:09 pm
Posted by Dantheman504
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Member since Jun 2013
6533 posts
Posted on 7/28/25 at 3:04 pm to
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Was he supposed to prevent her from throwing the pen?

His actions antagonized her to throw the pen. Yes his job is to prevent escalation... is that really a question? My exact point is that if he didn't act like an a-hole then she probably doesn't throw the pen and if she still does then we wouldn't be having this conversation and his reaction is justified. The cops choice to purposely escalate has a direct causation to her reaction and escalation.

Yes if a cop escalates a situation that is otherwise preventable then they get atleast a shared blame.

This cop gets more than shared blame because there are kids involved and he chose his ego over their well being.

Again, I don't care about the mom. The cop had a choice to de escalate a situation with kids involved or cause a bigger scene and he purposely chose to cause a bigger scene.
This post was edited on 7/28/25 at 3:08 pm
Posted by i am dan
NC
Member since Aug 2011
31704 posts
Posted on 7/28/25 at 3:06 pm to
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His actions antagonized her to throw the pen.


How so? He made her throw the pen at him huh? Luckily she didn't have a gun in the car huh? She would've shot him I bet, and it would've been the officer's fault!!
This post was edited on 7/28/25 at 3:15 pm
Posted by Lake08
Member since Jun 2023
2778 posts
Posted on 7/28/25 at 3:08 pm to
Waiting in bar parking lots to wait for people to drive off???? Cops LITERALLY do this all the time. Pull you over for an “incorrect lane change”
Posted by Dantheman504
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Member since Jun 2013
6533 posts
Posted on 7/28/25 at 3:12 pm to
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How so?

He chose to not hand her the ticket.... All he had to do was give her the ticket through the window slip and this whole event could have been avoided.

When she did roll down the window he then threatened to take her kids.

He knowingly threatened to take a pissed off woman's kids unprovoked because she had a slight attitude.

Do you think that's going to piss her off more or calm her down? Knowing that kids are in the car and purposely antagonizing someone is ridiculous for a speeding ticket.

quote:

If a cop is dealing with someone upset or frantic is their first step in training to de escalate or act like an a-hole and threaten them?


ANSWER THE QUESTION.
This post was edited on 7/28/25 at 3:16 pm
Posted by i am dan
NC
Member since Aug 2011
31704 posts
Posted on 7/28/25 at 3:15 pm to
quote:

Waiting in bar parking lots to wait for people to drive off???? Cops LITERALLY do this all the time. Pull you over for an “incorrect lane change”


Well, the cops didn't prevent the felony did they? The drunk person got in their car and drove.
This post was edited on 7/28/25 at 3:16 pm
Posted by Dawgfanman
Member since Jun 2015
26316 posts
Posted on 7/28/25 at 3:17 pm to
quote:

Well, the cops didn't prevent the felony did they? The drunk person got in their car and drove.


Wasn’t the point that you said they couldn’t have prevented it..when in fact they could have in this example. They knew which car to pull because they already knew the person was drunk before they got behind the wheel.
Posted by i am dan
NC
Member since Aug 2011
31704 posts
Posted on 7/28/25 at 3:18 pm to
quote:

He chose to not hand her the ticket.... All he had to do was give her the ticket through the window slip and this whole event could have been avoided.

When she did roll down the window he then threatened to take her kids.

He knowingly threatened to take a pissed off woman's kids unprovoked because she had a slight attitude.

Do you think that's going to piss her off more or calm her down? Knowing that kids are in the car and purposely antagonizing someone is ridiculous for a speeding ticket.


He warned her previously.

His first step was he acted like an a-hole and threatened her?

Go back and watch the video and see if that happened like you say.
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