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re: Married men- give advice to single men you'd NEVER say in front of your wife
Posted on 9/5/21 at 6:25 pm to AmosMosesAndTwins
Posted on 9/5/21 at 6:25 pm to AmosMosesAndTwins
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Look, I can’t fricking stand that my wife has turned into a miserable little carbon copy of her fricking mom. She never admits fault, turns into a fricking child every argument, and the stupidest little bullshite turns into three days of misery. Always awaiting the next tragedy. Selfish, unappreciative, and unapologetic - aware of none of it.
Holy shite that sounds awful.
OP if you find a woman like the above description you should run as far away as you can as fast as you can.
I’d sooner put a bullet through my brain than live with that bullshite.
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Posted on 9/5/21 at 6:31 pm to kingbob
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If she starts using emotional blackmail and changing the subject to personal attacks against you, that means you won. Don’t get angry, don’t acknowledge them, just leave. Literally say nothing, grab the keys, leave your phone, and go to the bar or wherever. Let her stew in her wrongness without playing her game. Women want to turn a logic argument into an emotional one because that’s the arena that they know and are most comfortable in. The key is to not acknowledge the emotional baited hook. She is trying to get you to lose your cool, raise your voice, get emotional, and say or do something you’ll regret so that she can hold it against you, make you apologize for it, and get her way. She can’t argue with you or pick a fight if you’re not there. Make it clear that you not only won’t tolerate that behavior, but you won’t even acknowledge it. She’ll change tactics or she’ll learn to admit when she’s wrong.
This is great advice.
Posted on 9/5/21 at 6:37 pm to tbabino
Oh this is easy. Marry someone that enjoys the same things as you. Once the sex life slows down at least you’ll have things to do together still.
Posted on 9/5/21 at 6:38 pm to The Third Leg
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Lulz. Sounds like a woman who is trying to tell you that she needs a hard fricking to clear her head.
If you pull this off, properly, you’ll get the opportunity to do this.
Posted on 9/5/21 at 6:43 pm to tbabino
I sat down and read some of the responses out to my wife. That's because I'm not a beta who can't say things in front of his wife. She agreed with most of the posts. Find a woman you can do that with.
Posted on 9/5/21 at 6:52 pm to tbabino
Embrace your male nature. Defend it . Never apologize for it. If she dislikes maleness, tell her to find a eunuch, a Democrat or another chick.
Posted on 9/5/21 at 6:54 pm to Lsupimp
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a eunuch, a Democrat
Redundant
Posted on 9/5/21 at 6:56 pm to tbabino
Don’t ever let your wife stop blowing you. It is horseshite If a wife stops that when they are married
Posted on 9/5/21 at 6:57 pm to kingbob
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It's not that they don't want the problem solved. It's that they want their time to vent. They may want the problem solved, but what's important right now is their emotional state caused by the problem. If you interrupt their vent session with solutions, they feel like you're ignoring their emotional state, and thus don't care about them. They want you to emote with them and let them release the stress they've built up all day. Later on, you can go back and address the problem, especially if it's fixable without her having to do anything
This is it exactly. Sometimes we just want to be listened to even if it’s nonsense and solvable.
Posted on 9/5/21 at 7:27 pm to kingbob
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Women rarely admit to being wrong, and most of the times that they do, it’s a manipulative ploy to get you to agree to something they want that they don’t think you’d agree to without some buttering up.
First off, men hardly ever admit they are wrong, either. I think that most women probably believe that most men are much more stubborn than most women about admitting they are wrong.
As I said before, any man who posits, as you have, that women are mostly the same is a man who does not understand women, has had little success with women, and should be ignored regarding women.
Posted on 9/5/21 at 7:37 pm to Penrod
Men apologize when they’re not sorry to keep the peace 1000x more often than any woman in a relationship ever admits that They were wrong.
Posted on 9/5/21 at 7:38 pm to kingbob
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It took me a year and a half. She baited me, basically shamed me for a medical condition that I had a doctor’s appointment scheduled. I raised my voice. She threw something. I swatted it away. She then tried to kick me, I blocked it with my leg, and she acted like I hit her and started crying. I apologized and caved (like the dumb arse I was) and thought that was the end of it.
Then, the next time we had an argument, like a week later, she claimed I hit her. The second she said that, I literally just turned around and left.
God damn
I've only been married 4 years, but I don't think we've even raised our voices in a disagreement (I think I did once and immediately apologized), much less her flinging shite and trying to kick. That's fricked up and technically domestic abuse. Walk away from that argument before it escalates there.
My wife knows that I need time to think and formulate my thoughts when she brings a grievance, so we usually have a quick chat to air the grievance (whether I've got one or she's got one), then apologize for making the other person feel that way, then come back later or even the next day to talk about it.
This post was edited on 9/5/21 at 7:39 pm
Posted on 9/5/21 at 7:41 pm to tbabino
marriage is overrated af
Posted on 9/5/21 at 7:44 pm to tbabino
Marry a 6 that worships the ground you walk on.
Posted on 9/5/21 at 7:48 pm to kingbob
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These are the same women that complain about how the romance has gone out of their relationship and how their man never takes them out dancing anymore. Both partners need to put in the effort to satisfy the other and make sure they can be satisfied in turn
Truer words have never been spoken. I had a former coworker that said her husband stopped "pursuing" her. I asked if she "pursued" him. She said no and she didn't have to. That was his job.
Posted on 9/5/21 at 8:05 pm to tbabino
Don't get married, I would say it in front my wife too.
Posted on 9/5/21 at 8:06 pm to The Torch
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None of us ever thought we would turn down a piece of arse
Ain’t that the truth.
You’ll learn that sometimes, the sleep is worth it.
It’s a bit like food. If you’re starving for it, it’s the best thing ever.
But if you are getting fed steadily. You can pass a meal up.
It’s all about supply and demand. But what women don’t seem to get is, a man has to eat sometime. Don’t be mad if he goes out and finds a hot meal if you aren’t cooking at home.
Posted on 9/5/21 at 8:22 pm to tbabino
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Married men- give advice to single men you'd NEVER say in front of your wife
People can fake their interest in you, but their disinterest is always sincere.
If they're disinterested in you, get the frick on down the road - even if you're married. There's 8 billion people in the world, half of them are women - you'll find another one that is interested in you.
Posted on 9/5/21 at 8:33 pm to tbabino
Know where the money is and all accounts. Women be thrives. (At least my ex was).
Posted on 9/5/21 at 8:38 pm to tbabino
Married for 25+ years…
Life is short. If at first you don’t succeed, then try, try again. Then quit.
Seriously, if you don’t want to be w/ her- don’t.
I’m fortunate to still want to be w the same woman, hopefully y’all have the same.
Life is short. If at first you don’t succeed, then try, try again. Then quit.
Seriously, if you don’t want to be w/ her- don’t.
I’m fortunate to still want to be w the same woman, hopefully y’all have the same.
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