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re: man hitting on my wife at our community pool - how should I handle it?
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:45 am to dcbl
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:45 am to dcbl
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one of the rules is no alcohol allowed inside
I am pretty sure that his family would have their membership revoked if I took this to the pool board
How are these two things connected in anyway? “Sorry we have to revoke your membership. Your dad was hitting on another woman” lmao
This post was edited on 7/18/21 at 9:46 am
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:45 am to dcbl
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So, my wife texted him and told him to reach out & we would set it up
Hmmmmmmm
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:46 am to dcbl
He just wanted to make your wife feel better, jeez.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:46 am to DarthRebel
quote:I generally feel obligated to protect my wife from slimy assholes. . .especially aggressive ones.
If you trust your wife, you will have nothing to worry about.
I maybe old fashioned, though.
I would probably holler loudly at him across the pool. "Hey man. . .just wanted to let you know my wife said she isn't interested. Cool?"
Then await his response.

Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:47 am to dcbl
Congratulations for your wife on the new orbiter.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:47 am to dcbl
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It is 100% “family focused” - one of the rules is no alcohol allowed inside
That sounds terrible. Why would anyone pay for that?
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I am pretty sure that his family would have their membership revoked if I took this to the pool board
You sound super insecure
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:48 am to Sus-Scrofa
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So, my wife texted him and told him to reach out & we would set it up
Hmmmmmmm
my girl is a little awkward and does not make friends or communicate easily, my wife was excited about the idea of plugging our girl in with a friend
That is another part of my issue, this man was playing on her insecurities about our child
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:48 am to dcbl
We need pics of the wife, btw.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:48 am to dcbl
quote:sounds like she gets it honestly from her father
my girl is a little awkward
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:50 am to dcbl
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That is another part of my issue, this man was playing on her insecurities about our child
Yeah... She is the insecure one

Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:51 am to dcbl
Also,I feel like if I were married I wouldn’t want my wife giving another man her number. I would’ve give him my number instead of her giving him hers.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:52 am to SuperSaint
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sounds like she gets it honestly from her father
He came here for advice..., not for u to judge him, a-hole.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:52 am to dcbl
Dude sounds like he needs his arse beat. But you've got to handle it properly so you don't come out looking like the a-hole. I like your idea of punking him out. Another way would be to publicly shame him. My neighborhood has a facebook group. Let all the other neighbors know how much of an arse the guy is.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:52 am to Flashback
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We need pics of the wife, btw.
This. We gotta see if we dealing with a couple of giant M&M’s trying to figure out how to eat one another. No fatties on the OT.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:53 am to dcbl
Why did your wife give out her contact info to a stranger?
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:53 am to dcbl
Text him that you’d be interested in one of his “deep tissue massages”.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:54 am to dcbl
What else did the text say? You said he sent her a long arse text.......need more context.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:54 am to dcbl
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my wife was excited about the idea of plugging our girl in with a friend
Keep going......... mmmm
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:54 am to tigergirl10
Because she saw an opportunity for her special needs daughter to make a friend.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:54 am to tWildcat
quote:That's. . .a bit controlling.
Also,I feel like if I were married I wouldn’t want my wife giving another man her number. I would’ve give him my number instead of her giving him hers.
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