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re: man hitting on my wife at our community pool - how should I handle it?
Posted on 7/18/21 at 5:48 pm to GreenRockTiger
Posted on 7/18/21 at 5:48 pm to GreenRockTiger
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GreenRockTiger
You’ve really embarrassed yourself ITT
You should take a lap
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Posted on 7/18/21 at 5:49 pm to dcbl
Well, your wife should text back that she is happily married and not interested in his advances…..if that is in fact the case.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 5:50 pm to tgrbaitn08
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You’ve really embarrassed yourself ITT
You should take a lap
She can't help herself. When I think maybe it's not her, she posts shite that damn near confirms it, outside of the 17 kids shite. Her stories are more outlandish each time she creates a new identity. She's in Oweo territory now.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 5:55 pm to bcflash
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How big a ol baw are ya?
6’1” 190 lbs - I’m not pretending to be a bad arse, but I’m capable of defending myself and my family
This post was edited on 7/18/21 at 5:56 pm
Posted on 7/18/21 at 6:01 pm to Oates Mustache
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When I think maybe it's not her, she posts shite that damn near confirms it,
Like what??
Posted on 7/18/21 at 6:03 pm to dcbl
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man hitting on my wife at our community pool - how should I handle it?
Show pic of wife and we’ll get back to you.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 6:05 pm to dcbl
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6’1” 190 lbs
Those are OT measurements. IRL he goes about 5’10”, 205. He’s a fat dumpy little shite getting cucked by a real man who isn’t afraid to shoot his shot. Wife’s pussy is dripping for Pool Baw. Sorry OP
Posted on 7/18/21 at 6:21 pm to dcbl
LOL. Bruh. Handle that dude. You scared. Don't embarass him just talk to him alone in person. He might be a psycho so I wouldn't humiliate him in front of people. He might retaliate on you down the road.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 6:22 pm to dcbl
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"hey, here is my number, let's talk and get the girls together"
This whole thing makes me wonder what would have happened if the dude didn't send a creeper text right off the bat. Seems like you might have had an even worse problem on your hands if he played it cool and didn't try to whip it out 5 minutes after getting your wife's number.
My wife, and most women, would be extremely unlikely to give their number in that situation.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 6:25 pm to dcbl
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Seriousl question, what would upset you more (assuming you were hitting on married ladies at a family pool)
The husband going off and threatening you, or the threat of public humiliation and having your wife confronted?
I write ads for a living for a very long time & I absolutely trust my instincts when it comes to pushing for the emotional reaction I’m looking for...
Look, you handle things how you see fit, but saying she gets all the massages from you and that you’ll go to the pool board was pretty cringe.
I would have simply texted (actually I would have had a talk with him) that his text was completely inappropriate, our kids will not be playing together, and to never text my wife again. Wife would have blocked the number and swim lessons would be done on a different day.
And I’d have left it at that.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 6:31 pm to dcbl
Invite him over for a threesome
Posted on 7/18/21 at 6:37 pm to dcbl
Your wife is probably already fricking him and, if you try to do anything about it, he'll likely kick your arse.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 6:39 pm to WinnPtiger
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I still think this an i’ll conceived spin off of the 4th of July thread with the guy who’s girlfriend got a middle of the night text from an old friend in her autism support group or whatever
Very possible. OP has made posts itt claiming that the wife and her family are super well known & connected in the community, have deep roots, etc. Yet she feels the need to make a play date with some random Dad at the community pool where they supposedly have been going to since wifey was a child. Wifey would have many female friends with children she could set up a play date with. No need to make one with a random dad. So this whole story could be BS.
On the other hand, maybe it’s partly true. The wifey was being a bit flirty with the other Dad and had ulterior motives when green lighting the play date. Not necessarily cheating but possibly just wanted another dude in her orbit. The Dads text sounds creepy af, though perhaps wifey’s warmth and slight flirtation left a perceived opening he wanted to capitalize on.
This post was edited on 7/18/21 at 6:52 pm
Posted on 7/18/21 at 6:45 pm to dcbl
We have rules bytch! How can we give you advice unless we can see what OT rating your wife is?
Posted on 7/18/21 at 6:46 pm to SaintsTiger
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the wife and her family are super well known & connected in the family, have deep roots, etc.
Conflicts with
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Community pool
Posted on 7/18/21 at 6:46 pm to dcbl
Beat his arse
Posted on 7/18/21 at 6:53 pm to Boring
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Conflicts with
Edited my post to say connected in the community (not family). OP claims the wifey went to this pool as a child and they currently know all the people on the board. OP even has a buddy on it.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 6:55 pm to LSUZombie
I’m not worried that you think I did not handle the situation correctly
Truth is, I really wanted to confront him in person, but I also did not want to create a scene and make things uncomfortable for my wife
I understand why I am getting razzed for the pool board comments, but I still think I did the right thing
I know he is a new member, I know he was in the waiting list for 2 or 3 years, and I know that he cares enough about his daughter to get her plugged into activities (I also know that he is in no danger of getting kicked out, but he does not know that)
So, the threat of public humiliation in that manner was very likely far more affective than anything else I could have done, certainly better than losing my cool and inviting him to Sonic...
I’m blessed to have a faithful wife who brought this to me, take that however you like
Or give me the standard OT, “she’s getting schlonged” response
I’ll just have to cry myself to sleep....
Truth is, I really wanted to confront him in person, but I also did not want to create a scene and make things uncomfortable for my wife
I understand why I am getting razzed for the pool board comments, but I still think I did the right thing
I know he is a new member, I know he was in the waiting list for 2 or 3 years, and I know that he cares enough about his daughter to get her plugged into activities (I also know that he is in no danger of getting kicked out, but he does not know that)
So, the threat of public humiliation in that manner was very likely far more affective than anything else I could have done, certainly better than losing my cool and inviting him to Sonic...
I’m blessed to have a faithful wife who brought this to me, take that however you like
Or give me the standard OT, “she’s getting schlonged” response
I’ll just have to cry myself to sleep....
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