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re: man hitting on my wife at our community pool - how should I handle it?

Posted on 7/18/21 at 1:04 pm to
Posted by Oates Mustache
Member since Oct 2011
24362 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 1:04 pm to
Well shite I reposted it.

I'm not trying to get banned, OP posted that damn pic himself.
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
75268 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 1:04 pm to
I told wife about this and she laughed. Said it sounds flirty but to have the husband go to the swimming lessons for now.

As far as the pool board response, she said OP sounds like a "Karen."
Posted by The Boat
Member since Oct 2008
172068 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 1:05 pm to
Ask her if she would have given her phone number to a married man under the premise of a swim lesson play date
Posted by MattA
Member since Nov 2019
1905 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 1:06 pm to
Lol. Went from something his wife shoulda just nixed by replying “stop”, to now this dudes number is out there’s with all this drama. Oof.
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32914 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 1:06 pm to
quote:

Hey _____, DCBL here, ____'s dad from the pool - our kids will not be playing together and my wife gets all the massages she needs from me, leave her alone and PRAY that I do not take your text to the pool board - I hope we understand each other, thanks

Holy shite.

I this is the cringiest text ever typed out.
Posted by dcbl
Good guys wear white hats.
Member since Sep 2013
30998 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 1:06 pm to
Sure, letting him know I would be in his face would have felt better, but giving him the fear that he will be exposed very likely has him far more upset and worried

20 years ago, hell, maybe even 5 or 10 years ago, I’d have confronted him at the pool and started a fight



Posted by imjustafatkid
Alabama
Member since Dec 2011
58442 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 1:07 pm to
quote:

I am also thinking about showing his text to members of the board and requesting that his membership be revoked


Definitely this one.
Posted by pbro62
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2016
14040 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 1:07 pm to
Dude there is no coming back from your pussery response and actions
Posted by LSU fan 246
Member since Oct 2005
90567 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 1:07 pm to
quote:

Hey _____, DCBL here, ____'s dad from the pool - our kids will not be playing together and my wife gets all the massages she needs from me, leave her alone and PRAY that I do not take your text to the pool board - I hope we understand each other, thanks


bruh.

i gotta know about this pool board thing. what freaking pool is so good that theres a 4 year waiting list, non alcoholic, and has a governing body
Posted by JudgeHolden
Gila River
Member since Jan 2008
18566 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 1:07 pm to
Time until this thread whacked:

3.50 minutes.
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
65961 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 1:08 pm to
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The pool board?!? I would be mad at you if you were my husband.


Plot twist, your husband is the other guy.
Posted by Dixie Normus
Earth
Member since Sep 2013
2768 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 1:08 pm to
You're taking this situation a tad too seriously. She got hit on. It's not the end of the world. If he persists, then politely intervene.
Posted by pigskinGod
Member since Sep 2020
1573 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 1:08 pm to
I think OP has to kill this guy
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
75268 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 1:08 pm to
She said she guesses she would, given OP's child's situation.
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
30427 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 1:09 pm to
quote:

Sure, letting him know I would be in his face would have felt better, but giving him the fear that he will be exposed very likely has him far more upset and worried


Tell yourself whatever you want, man, this dude is rolling on the floor laughing at the size of your vagine
Posted by pigskinGod
Member since Sep 2020
1573 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 1:09 pm to
quote:

I just handled it in what I think is the best manner

I won’t confront him in person, nor will I take this to the pool board

I just texted him THIS -

quote:
Hey _____, DCBL here, ____'s dad from the pool - our kids will not be playing together and my wife gets all the massages she needs from me, leave her alone and PRAY that I do not take your text to the pool board - I hope we understand each other, thanks


if I don’t hear anything else, this is over, if not, well, all bets are off...

I didnt think you could get more pathetic but here we are
Posted by The Boat
Member since Oct 2008
172068 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 1:09 pm to
Did dcbl say if this guy was married or not?
Posted by dcbl
Good guys wear white hats.
Member since Sep 2013
30998 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 1:10 pm to
quote:

quote:
I am also thinking about showing his text to members of the board and requesting that his membership be revoked


Definitely this one.
yeah, it’s cute that all these tough guys are calling me a pussy

I really don’t know what the best response is, I do know that causing a scene will make things worse

I’m trying to be an adult about this, and I’m 100% certain that you know what pool I’m talking about...
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
30427 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 1:10 pm to
quote:

i gotta know about this pool board thing. what freaking pool is so good that theres a 4 year waiting list, non alcoholic, and has a governing body


Ones with members up in everyone's business being pussies like the OP
Posted by imjustafatkid
Alabama
Member since Dec 2011
58442 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 1:10 pm to
quote:

i gotta know about this pool board thing. what freaking pool is so good that theres a 4 year waiting list, non alcoholic, and has a governing body


Community pools in this area are insane. My family doesn't even bother. We just get season passes to Alabama Adventure and go out there when we want to go swimming.

We were on a waiting list at a local pool at one point and totally forgot about it. Our names came up like 3 years later and I told them we were no longer interested because we had found much cooler things to do.
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