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re: man hitting on my wife at our community pool - how should I handle it?

Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:02 pm to
Posted by Barn_Owl
Dallas
Member since Feb 2020
234 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:02 pm to
this guy has done this numerous times. cuts to the chase. notice words like “under appreciated” ….key words to reel them in.
Posted by SECSolomonGrundy
Slaughter Swamp
Member since Jun 2012
17438 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:04 pm to
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this guy has done this numerous times.



Yeah. Is his name Jody?
Posted by STLDawg
The Lou
Member since Apr 2015
4198 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:04 pm to
With his phone number in the pic, perhaps some enterprising OTers could let him know about his mistake.
Posted by SECSolomonGrundy
Slaughter Swamp
Member since Jun 2012
17438 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:05 pm to
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STLDawg


Brilliant.

Posted by Triple Bogey
19th Green
Member since May 2017
6188 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:05 pm to
Why did he mention her being “unappreciated?” Sounds to me like she opened up a little more than what she’s letting on.
Posted by dcbl
Good guys wear white hats.
Member since Sep 2013
30997 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:05 pm to
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Yeah he's telling your wife she is unappreciated and that he gives "mind numbing" massages. He needs his arse beat.



this is pretty much where my heart is

my head is telling me to listen to my wife and see if he tries to communicate again after she ignored his text...
Posted by LSU fan 246
Member since Oct 2005
90567 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:05 pm to
already sent to mikelbr.
Posted by LEASTBAY
Member since Aug 2007
15680 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:06 pm to
Didn't read all responses but send him a pic with a bottle of massage oil and your dick.
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
148031 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:06 pm to
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Why did he mention her being “unappreciated?” Sounds to me like she opened up a little more than what she’s letting on.


Yeah there’s definitely more to the story the OP isn’t sharing
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
30206 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:06 pm to
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this is pretty much where my heart is

my head is telling me to listen to my wife and see if he tries to communicate again after she ignored his text...


A non alcoholic pool where everyone bitches about everything honestly seems like your scene.

With how big of a poon as you are coming off as, you better listen to your head or you're going to end of with a mad wife and an arse whoopin.
This post was edited on 7/18/21 at 12:07 pm
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
144651 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:08 pm to
This Thray May have just gotten gud

Posted by lnomm34
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2009
12702 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:08 pm to
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This post was edited on 1/30/25 at 9:23 pm
Posted by madamsquirrel
The big somewhere out there
Member since Jul 2009
53499 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:08 pm to
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Why did he mention her being “unappreciated?” Sounds to me like she opened up a little more than what she’s letting on.
I used to work with a guy that would hit on everyone with this type of empathy strategy completely unprovoked.
Posted by tilthatday
New Orleans
Member since Mar 2009
927 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:09 pm to
Correct response from you: none. Ignore it. Correct response from your wife: the same.
Attractive women get approached In fact, that may be the way you two met. It’s just real life and you deal with it. Now, anything overtly physical or obviously offensive is something else. A flirtatious text after meeting at a family pool? Non-event.
Time for adulting here. Don’t embarrass yourself and don’t embarrass your family. Be a grownup please.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
130276 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:09 pm to
That’s the script.

Unless your wife was venting to him first, that’s definitely the sort of opener to get your wife unhappy about her marriage and starting to wonder.


From a recovering Jody.
Posted by Triple Bogey
19th Green
Member since May 2017
6188 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:09 pm to
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I used to work with a guy that would hit on everyone with this type of empathy strategy completely unprovoked.


I mean maybe.. just seems like a weird thing to pull out of the air like that
Posted by LSU fan 246
Member since Oct 2005
90567 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:11 pm to
op needs to just post the entire text convo to lay the your wife instigated it responses to rest
Posted by madamsquirrel
The big somewhere out there
Member since Jul 2009
53499 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:11 pm to
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that’s definitely the sort of opener to get your wife unhappy about her marriage and starting to wonder.
this seemed like his move. I responded to his first mention and cut him off at the knees as did the coworkers I was close to. But obviously it worked for him at some point because he tried it on multiple people.
Posted by SouthernStyled
Member since Apr 2021
1307 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:12 pm to
What is that number? oP is apparently allergic to pixels.
Posted by SECSolomonGrundy
Slaughter Swamp
Member since Jun 2012
17438 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:12 pm to
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Why did he mention her being “unappreciated?”



Because he's Jody.
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