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re: Longest friends w/ benefits relationship you've had?

Posted on 4/6/16 at 11:53 am to
Posted by SabiDojo
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Posted on 4/6/16 at 11:53 am to
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I know you think that makes you sound like an alpha badass, but get a few years in you and you'll realize how pathetic and empty it really is.


I don't see it as pathetic. Lots of guys prioritize freedom over everything else. If it matters to them above all else, more power to them. I envy that mindset, tbh.
This post was edited on 4/6/16 at 11:54 am
Posted by SlowEasyConfident
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Posted on 4/6/16 at 11:54 am to
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Met my wife and realized about four hours in I was going to marry her


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slept with the FWB one more time the next day


That's kind of fricked
Posted by SabiDojo
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Posted on 4/6/16 at 11:56 am to
Does your wife read your posts?
Posted by p0845330
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Posted on 4/6/16 at 12:05 pm to
5 or 6 years. Regardless of your agreement, and no matter how long it takes, they ultimately always demand more.
Posted by X123F45
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Posted on 4/6/16 at 12:06 pm to
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That's kind of fricked


At the time, I hadn't gone more than a day without pussy in years. After going through a three year dry spell before that.

I literally removed every female friend from my life when I met her, not because I was some irresistable sexual dynamo, but because when I drink whiskey I'm a terrible goalie for monogamy when it comes to pussy.

In retrospect, I didn't need to do it. But after everything we had been through, it was my way of saying goodbye.
Posted by X123F45
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Posted on 4/6/16 at 12:12 pm to
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I don't see it as pathetic. Lots of guys prioritize freedom over everything else. If it matters to them above all else, more power to them. I envy that mindset, tbh.


I think I took the whole freedom thing about as far as anyone reasonably should, but to each his own.

I must say I've enjoyed "our" freedom (no kids) on its worst day more than I enjoyed "mine" on my best.

The most depressing feeling is having a house full of people (and a veritable stable of women), but having to walk outside with a bottle of bourbon and a pack of cigarettes because only you realize how completely and utterly alone you really are.

Nah, you couldn't pay me to go back to that.
Posted by Hammertime
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Posted on 4/6/16 at 12:15 pm to
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No woman goes into a FwB relationship without intentions for ultimately more.

Not true. You just both have to have an understanding of what it is
Posted by AU_251
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Posted on 4/6/16 at 12:16 pm to
Must suck to be lonely. I'll pray for ya brother; everyone needs somebody
Posted by AU_251
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Posted on 4/6/16 at 12:20 pm to
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and a veritable stable of women


It really sucks having several women who are willing to jump in head first with you right now, but the one you want isn't one of them
Posted by SabiDojo
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Posted on 4/6/16 at 12:23 pm to
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Must suck to be lonely. I'll pray for ya brother; everyone needs somebody



Uh, yeah, about that. Married, two kids, dog, cat. I can't even take a shite by myself.
Posted by Blob Fish
Member since Mar 2016
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Posted on 4/6/16 at 12:24 pm to
As someone going on 7 months in a friends with benefits-type scenario, I can honestly admit that, while freedom from responsibility can be nice and I certainly love the thrill of the chase, I look forward to the day the chase is finally over.

But until that day comes, I'm going to enjoy the hell out of the single life. Happy hunting, gentlemen!

Posted by AU_251
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Posted on 4/6/16 at 12:26 pm to
Is your avatar Ted Cruz?
Posted by AU_251
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Posted on 4/6/16 at 12:27 pm to
So why do you come off as bitter and rejected?
Posted by SabiDojo
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Posted on 4/6/16 at 12:29 pm to
Quote all my posts and tell me how I come across as bitter and rejected.
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
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Posted on 4/6/16 at 12:38 pm to
I had one for a year or so.
Posted by X123F45
Member since Apr 2015
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Posted on 4/6/16 at 12:39 pm to
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Quote all my posts and tell me how I come across as bitter and rejected.




That one is pretty bitter baw.

Or at least PMSey
Posted by Tigeralum2008
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Posted on 4/6/16 at 12:39 pm to
A close female friend of mine has had a FWB for about 2 months. She's about to move to Houston next month and wants nothing to do with relationships.

I've never met the beta guy but if he doesn't stop with the "catching feelings, need relationship" talks he's gonna frick up what I see as a perfect situation for a single guy.

The girl is beautiful and career driven. We have been close friends for years. I'm actually proud of her for standing her ground with this dude and not allowing herself to get caught up in a relationship. She's been honest with him from the beginning. She won't sleep with any other guy except him, but she does NOT want to be his GF because it would complicate things when she leaves.

She's telling the dude "enjoy it while it lasts" and he is fricking it up.
Posted by TeddyPadillac
Member since Dec 2010
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Posted on 4/6/16 at 12:40 pm to
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Married, two kids, dog, cat. I can't even take a shite by myself.



Doesn't that suck. I don't even take long shits like most people, but jesus i can't even take a 3 minute shite without some little shite coming knock on the door asking me what i'm doing.
But i guess that's better than taking a shite and walking out to an empty house everyday.
Posted by SabiDojo
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Posted on 4/6/16 at 12:44 pm to
Yeah it is weird. Some days you're like fml, but the second your little one gives you a hug and kiss and says he/she loves you, it's like a shot of morphine.

Posted by Hog on the Hill
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Posted on 4/6/16 at 12:46 pm to
3 months, and I had other FWBs too, which was fine with her. Until I told her about the college freshman I was doing really kinky stuff with--THEN she told me it was over and we were just friends, no more benefits.

Didn't make any sense to me, but whatever. I think she was under the mistaken impression that she was my "primary" FWB, whatever that means. Fact is, she said she was okay with me fricking other girls but I don't think she was really okay with it. Oh well, the college freshman was a way better lay
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