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re: Longest friends w/ benefits relationship you've had?
Posted on 4/6/16 at 11:31 am to BabyTac
Posted on 4/6/16 at 11:31 am to BabyTac
I had one the entire 4 years of college. She was into girls more than guys and we would fool around anytime either of us were single. Sometimes I'd call and ask for a bj and she would oblige. Cool chick but extra crazy. Never even had dinner with the girl and made it known we wouldn't ever date.
I had two others in high school that were hook ups casually and it continued on and off for a decade. One was all about just hooking up, hated relationships, and was a huge whore but a good friend. The other was someone I would date but never did. She never got clingy and we just used each other once a year or so.
I considered each my friend but after getting married it's tough to continue that friendship based on orgasms.
I had two others in high school that were hook ups casually and it continued on and off for a decade. One was all about just hooking up, hated relationships, and was a huge whore but a good friend. The other was someone I would date but never did. She never got clingy and we just used each other once a year or so.
I considered each my friend but after getting married it's tough to continue that friendship based on orgasms.
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Posted on 4/6/16 at 11:32 am to BabyTac
I had one for about a year but we were pretty open about hooking up with other people. I ended up meeting my wife and I cut the sex off she went crazy. 
There was also this chic from high school that I started banging when I was freshmen. I would call her whenever I was going through a slump.
There was also this chic from high school that I started banging when I was freshmen. I would call her whenever I was going through a slump.
This post was edited on 4/6/16 at 11:33 am
Posted on 4/6/16 at 11:32 am to X123F45
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Met my wife and realized about four hours in I was going to marry her, slept with the FWB one more time the next day, and said goodbye forever.
Beautiful.
Posted on 4/6/16 at 11:34 am to BabyTac
Literally the only thing I have close to this was very intermittent and lasted almost a year total, but there were breaks in between. Thing is, she never knew she was just a "buddy". It eventually came out that she thought we would be dating by some point. I had never spoken to her sober except for the next morning.
Posted on 4/6/16 at 11:39 am to BabyTac
Most of junior and senior year of college. It wasn't an every weekend thing, as there would be breaks, etc., but it was pretty consistent over the course of a couple years. We both found it pretty easy to be casual in college, but FWB is certainly a bit more difficult long-term once you are in your mid-20's (or later).
Posted on 4/6/16 at 11:40 am to AU_251
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Beautiful
Beautiful was two weeks into the relationship when I told my wife what I did.
She asked why I did it. I explained she didn't seem like the type of girl who was going to give it up immediately and I didn't want to be tempted to mess things up before that happened.
She laughed it off, said I was quite possibly the wierdest gentleman ever, and gave me a bj.
Posted on 4/6/16 at 11:40 am to BabyTac
All my relationships are friends with benefits.
Lol at committing to women.
Lol at committing to women.
Posted on 4/6/16 at 11:42 am to rocket31
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All my relationships are friends with benefits.
Lol at committing to women.
I know you think that makes you sound like an alpha badass, but get a few years in you and you'll realize how pathetic and empty it really is.
Posted on 4/6/16 at 11:45 am to X123F45
I can only hope to have a story like this one, one day
Posted on 4/6/16 at 11:46 am to BabyTac
Funny, while I'm reading this thread a girl I've been off and on with for three years text me. So I guess three years.
Posted on 4/6/16 at 11:46 am to X123F45
Dating multiple people, passionately, is the most satisfying existence any man can possibily have.
You bought into a social norm like a mindless sheep.
That's on you.. I'm cool with my identity.
You bought into a social norm like a mindless sheep.
That's on you.. I'm cool with my identity.
Posted on 4/6/16 at 11:46 am to X123F45
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Lol at committing to women.
Sounds like virgin speak
Posted on 4/6/16 at 11:47 am to BabyTac
Just over 2 years right now
Posted on 4/6/16 at 11:47 am to rocket31
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Dating multiple people, passionately, is the most satisfying existence any man can possibily have.
Done it. It's really not.
Once you find someone you wanna be with, that's all that matters. You'll grow up one day
Posted on 4/6/16 at 11:48 am to BabyTac
Hard to maintain because she eventually falls in love.
Posted on 4/6/16 at 11:49 am to AU_251
Oh the Disney soul mate fantasy.
We all know that is not a reality..
We all know that is not a reality..
Posted on 4/6/16 at 11:52 am to AU_251
How long have you been married?
Posted on 4/6/16 at 11:52 am to X123F45
4-5 months or so. She really liked me but I made it clear from the start that I wasn't looking for a relationship. She was a cool girl but her mom was absolutely insane and I couldn't commit to that long term. She made me promise to let her know if I ended up dating someone. When I told her 3 months after we stopped sleeping together that I was in a relationship, she freaked out on me and told me she loved me.... and that she had faked every orgasm
Also, coincidentally she went to the same hair dresser as my mom and told said hair dresser that I was "the one" and that she was going to make me hers. Mom gave me the heads up on that one. In the end, most (but not all) FWB situations ended with the girl wanting something more serious. The last one I had ended up becoming my gf, and we are still together 2 years later.
In the end, and ideally, one's partner should be your best friend with benefits.
Also, coincidentally she went to the same hair dresser as my mom and told said hair dresser that I was "the one" and that she was going to make me hers. Mom gave me the heads up on that one. In the end, most (but not all) FWB situations ended with the girl wanting something more serious. The last one I had ended up becoming my gf, and we are still together 2 years later.
In the end, and ideally, one's partner should be your best friend with benefits.
Posted on 4/6/16 at 11:53 am to rocket31
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You bought into a social norm like a mindless sheep.
No one woman can slake my sexual thirst. But no ten women could either. I'll always want more.
Instead I found someone who I can share absolutely everything with, free from judgement, with love and support.
I used to be a whore, hell my house was the one the whores ran to when they were feeling empty. At one point there were four women staying in my house who effectively paid their rent in cleaning, cooking, and pussy. And if I could go back and somehow meet my wife 5 years sooner, I would.
Friendship and sex are not the same as real love. Took me a long time to realize it. I hope you get to.
Posted on 4/6/16 at 11:53 am to rocket31
Finding someone you truly love and appreciate and having them reciprocate that is not fantasy. Get over yourself
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