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Longest friends w/ benefits relationship you've had?

Posted on 4/6/16 at 10:21 am
Posted by BabyTac
Austin, TX
Member since Jun 2008
16636 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 10:21 am
As I get older it seems like these relationships are more common with both men and women. However, the last three 'agreements' with this usually carries a time duration of 3 months before one or the other wants more than just a regular sexual partner and tries to make it more than it is which leads to drama.

What's your experiences with having a f*** buddy?
Posted by Paddyshack
Land of the Free
Member since Sep 2015
11062 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 10:30 am to
quote:

What's your experiences with having a f*** buddy?


Obviously awesome. Although my girlfriend disapproves.
Posted by t1gerst1gerst1gers
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2015
393 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 10:33 am to
A year-ish... With a couple of week or two breaks in between when she'd go all I need to be your girlfriend on me.

Haven't gotten together in a while at no fault but my own now that I think of it... May need to give her a shout holler at hit soon.
Posted by Deep Purple Haze
LA
Member since Jun 2007
70082 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 10:34 am to
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Posted by AU_251
Your dads room
Member since Feb 2013
12113 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 10:37 am to
Just had one that has gone on for about ~ 7 months. Last week we decided to take a break cuz I'm not sure I want it anymore, and she wants it to be more serious.

But as of this second, I wouldn't hate getting up in dat again....
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
49070 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 10:49 am to
NEVER. I don't do that shady stuff.
This post was edited on 4/6/16 at 10:55 am
Posted by whoisnickdoobs
Lafayette
Member since Apr 2012
9352 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 10:52 am to
Whats the difference between this and dating? Exclusivity?
Posted by Hammertime
Will trade dowsing rod for titties
Member since Jan 2012
43031 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 10:53 am to
Year or two while in college. We didn't hang out all of the time, but sex was usually a given if we were and had nothing else. It was kinda cool because we didn't even have to talk sometimes. Longest one that happened every day was like two or three months. I fessed up to my gf at that point, and ended both relationships
Posted by saint amant steve
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2008
5695 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 10:54 am to
quote:

However, the last three 'agreements' with this usually carries a time duration of 3 months before one or the other wants more than just a regular sexual partner and tries to make it more than it is which leads to drama.


Three months seems to be the general expiration date for such arrangements. By that point, it seems the freshness and excitement of getting laid on a regular basis loses its novelty and the female, or sometimes male, ultimately seeks some greater form of intimacy.

Plus, I feel like three months is a pretty good amount of time for you to assess whether or not you want to find some new strange or attempt to turn the current sex partner into a significant other.
Posted by Jorts R Us
Member since Aug 2013
17544 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 10:55 am to
Your mom and I still talk sometimes...
Posted by Blue Velvet
Apple butter toast is nice
Member since Nov 2009
20112 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 10:55 am to
8 months
Posted by idlewatcher
Planet Arium
Member since Jan 2012
96860 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 10:55 am to
quote:

and she wants it to be more serious


Seems that's how they always end, but of course everyone knew that to start with but the booty call was too appetizing
Posted by PrivatePublic
Member since Nov 2012
17848 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 10:56 am to
No woman goes into a FwB relationship without intentions for ultimately more.
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11622 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 10:59 am to
.
This post was edited on 4/8/16 at 8:36 am
Posted by BRgetthenet
Member since Oct 2011
118251 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 11:00 am to
Dang
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11622 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 11:03 am to
.
This post was edited on 4/8/16 at 8:36 am
Posted by retired trucker
midwest
Member since Feb 2015
5093 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 11:03 am to
it was a co-worker

it was a year or so...it was good news and bad news, more bad than good

I had no intention of anything serious, and so, it was a waste of my time.

should have just done without
Posted by AU_251
Your dads room
Member since Feb 2013
12113 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 11:27 am to
Yea, and I kind of led her on in regards to me maybe eventually wanting more. Even tried to convince myself I could love her but I don't think I can
Posted by X123F45
Member since Apr 2015
29819 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 11:28 am to
6 years. We dated for maybe three months in that entire period. Never stopped sleeping together.

Met my wife and realized about four hours in I was going to marry her, slept with the FWB one more time the next day, and said goodbye forever.

ETA: we were great friends; we had amazing physical chemistry; but if a title was applied, we instantly turned into extremely jealous awful partners.

This post was edited on 4/6/16 at 11:33 am
Posted by Cheesy Beaver
Kenna brah
Member since Dec 2014
4424 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 11:29 am to
quote:

May need to give her a shout holler at hit soon.


After reading this I'm convinced the girl you're referring to in your post does not exist.
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