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re: Just found out through Ancestry.com that I had a child when I was 19
Posted on 7/10/20 at 6:28 pm to financetiger
Posted on 7/10/20 at 6:28 pm to financetiger
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Sounds like she's had some struggles of her own along the years.
Well I mean she was desperate enough to have sex with you at 18, so what did you expect?
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Posted on 7/10/20 at 6:28 pm to JudgeHolden
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This is exactly the right place for you. Tell us more.
I don't understand what ur saying.
This post was edited on 7/11/20 at 10:26 am
Posted on 7/10/20 at 6:30 pm to financetiger
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I barely remembered the mom's name and she didn't even know mine. The man's wife says the child was raised by grandparents and he didn't have a relationship with his mom and says she would never tell her who his father was. I think it's because she didn't know.
Yes, trashy... I know. We were 18 and met at a bar.
Posted on 7/10/20 at 6:34 pm to financetiger
After reading all these post. I have decided it is more likey to have a child we didn't know about than dying from Covid
This post was edited on 7/10/20 at 6:35 pm
Posted on 7/10/20 at 6:37 pm to Homerun12
So all you young guys better mask up down there
Posted on 7/10/20 at 6:39 pm to financetiger
So this is what happens when we send in our DNA?
Thank the good Lord I never did this.
The 70's were pretty wild for me.
Thank the good Lord I never did this.
The 70's were pretty wild for me.
Posted on 7/10/20 at 6:40 pm to financetiger
You should have written to him and not the OT. Reach out and be honest.
Or bang his wife so this happens again in 30 years
Or bang his wife so this happens again in 30 years
Posted on 7/10/20 at 6:48 pm to financetiger
This is one reason that I won't do one of those tests. Some things are best just to never find out.
I had one night stands in my late teens and early/mid 20s with women that I don't remember much about, let alone their names.
I had one night stands in my late teens and early/mid 20s with women that I don't remember much about, let alone their names.
This post was edited on 7/10/20 at 6:51 pm
Posted on 7/10/20 at 6:53 pm to financetiger
Talk to him maybe meet and see if either of you want a relationship.
Yes it’s too late for a father/son traditional relationship but he has kids so now you can have a grandfather/grandkid relationship if that’s what you and your son want if not then give him your family medical history for future references and go yalls separate ways.
Having grandkids can be a special thing for a person you never know what you might or might not lose unless you at least try and see about a relationship
Yes it’s too late for a father/son traditional relationship but he has kids so now you can have a grandfather/grandkid relationship if that’s what you and your son want if not then give him your family medical history for future references and go yalls separate ways.
Having grandkids can be a special thing for a person you never know what you might or might not lose unless you at least try and see about a relationship
Posted on 7/10/20 at 6:56 pm to financetiger
quote:Inheritance considerations depending on the state where you and he reside.
What should I be worried about?
Posted on 7/10/20 at 6:58 pm to financetiger
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The way it showed up is that his wife did their children's DNA. I came back as the grandfather.
WTF Ancestry just communicates private information to anyone identified as a potential relation?
Posted on 7/10/20 at 6:58 pm to financetiger
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Wife knows and understands I was very young and never knew. She's not upset at all.
Take comfort in the fact this is a far from unique situation. I found out I had a half sister. Won't get into the details. But I and my siblings knew there was a possibility but never thought we'd find her. Well, Ancestry and poof, we found her and eventually met her.
I wouldn't worry about any obligations. But his wife contacting you probably means he's like to meet you. I understand that from his standpoint and good luck.
And in our case our half sister had no frickin' idea about us/the situation. She was taken aback. Just a little clue, my dad was recommended as a sperm donor in the case of a couple who could not conceive. And that was way back in the late 1940s before my dad shipped off to medical school. Now folks, come at me with the jokes!
This post was edited on 7/10/20 at 7:05 pm
Posted on 7/10/20 at 6:59 pm to GRTiger
This thread is terrifying and has confirmed most of the fears I’ve had for years
Posted on 7/10/20 at 7:01 pm to Sidicous
Years ago a young black kid reached out on Facebook to me to let me know he was my second cousin. My cousin Erica had gotten pregnant by a black guy when she was 16 and my Uncle forced her to give him up for adoption.
Turns out he found a good family and is married with a child.
Turns out he found a good family and is married with a child.
Posted on 7/10/20 at 7:03 pm to OBReb6
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This is why you don’t give random motherfrickers your DNA you idiot
thread could have stopped here.
the best part is you have to pay them to collect your DNA
Posted on 7/10/20 at 7:06 pm to financetiger
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Then his wife sent me some pics to go check out on her FB
strike 2
ancestry.com and Facebook
I’ll bet you have an amazon listening device in your house and a ring surveillance camera on your door too.
Posted on 7/10/20 at 7:06 pm to GRTiger
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WTF Ancestry just communicates private information to anyone identified as a potential relation?
Both parties have to opt in to be notified they have a potential relative.
Posted on 7/10/20 at 7:07 pm to Pisco
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My cousin Erica had gotten pregnant by a black guy when she was 16
Shocking
Posted on 7/10/20 at 7:11 pm to financetiger
Yet another reason to stay away from that shite.
Posted on 7/10/20 at 7:16 pm to tigerfan84
FNA Bama. Hah
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