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re: Is this a productive response to a female partner, or would it cause a fight?

Posted on 5/28/24 at 1:13 pm to
Posted by Midget Death Squad
Meme Magic
Member since Oct 2008
27958 posts
Posted on 5/28/24 at 1:13 pm to
quote:

"are you solution Oriented"


"Cassie Cao"




Oh I definitely see what he did there. No wonder she's pissed



Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
62050 posts
Posted on 5/28/24 at 1:22 pm to
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Spoiler alert…

Nobody wants the 30 seconds you have to offer with your broken dick…


Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
59079 posts
Posted on 5/28/24 at 1:25 pm to
This is totally dependent upon the situation and you know that since you are starting the thread. I am guessing since she posted it she thought it was funny and they have that kind of relationship. I am also basing this off the fact that her profile perky seems like she would funny.

So I say no fight.
Posted by Boudreaux35
BR
Member since Sep 2007
22281 posts
Posted on 5/28/24 at 1:27 pm to
Just scoop it up and roll it up in the pita bread. Add a little rice and dip in the hummus.

Dammit, woman, maybe you shouldn't order Lebanese!
Posted by ReauxlTide222
St. Petersburg
Member since Nov 2010
88310 posts
Posted on 5/28/24 at 1:37 pm to
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I would of just responded "k"


They’ve killed for less
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
116679 posts
Posted on 5/28/24 at 1:38 pm to
I’ve seen enough geldings irl. No need to actually murder anyone…
Posted by I20goon
about 7mi down a dirt road
Member since Aug 2013
18764 posts
Posted on 5/28/24 at 1:41 pm to
I'd have told her to hurry because adjusted for Biden's inflation the 5 second rule is now 7 unless you are trans and it's 70, but you have to give the meat recovered to Hunter so he can claim he sent it to Haiti for a tax break.
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
59079 posts
Posted on 5/28/24 at 1:43 pm to
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I wish more men were like this. Don’t try to solve the problem unless I ask. Generally, I know how to solve it myself. I just want you to say “that really sucks” and show a tiny bit of feeling

Amen to this. Let me be sad for a second. Say I'm sorry you are feeling sad, then you take no ownership in because you did nothing wrong. It simple. You may think its nothing but it may mean something.

Or there may be an off chance she wants a solution and then you're solving her problem!
This post was edited on 5/28/24 at 2:15 pm
Posted by RustyDaDog
BAOK
Member since Mar 2023
924 posts
Posted on 5/28/24 at 2:13 pm to
WTF? Oh need a downvote?
Posted by Dairy Sanders
Member since Apr 2022
2963 posts
Posted on 5/28/24 at 2:40 pm to
You say that sucks and move on with your day
Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
Member since Jan 2004
463673 posts
Posted on 5/28/24 at 3:05 pm to
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Let me be sad for a second.

The confusion is why you need validation for that. That's the confusing part, especially since women are typically indirect and won't say they need the validation directly.

If you present it as if it's a problem that's able to be solved, then you should expect responses along that spectrum.

It's not about the nail
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
59079 posts
Posted on 5/28/24 at 3:47 pm to
Because everyone likes validation to some degree and you know it.
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
116679 posts
Posted on 5/28/24 at 3:48 pm to
I say that I just need to vent bc it makes me feel better, and sometimes keeps me from stabbing someone

I also generally will say up front I know the solution of there is one. It’s the condescending attitude while still trying to give me the same solution I came up with on my own that then makes me want to stab him instead.
Posted by TheAlmightySmash
New Orleans
Member since Jun 2014
5489 posts
Posted on 5/28/24 at 3:52 pm to
He has 56.82 post per day.
He has 397.87 posts per week.
He has 1736.67 post per month.

This is over 7,464 days assuming he hasn't missing a single day. Some might say he has a problem.
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
59079 posts
Posted on 5/28/24 at 3:52 pm to
Oh, I skipped this part.

quote:

That's the confusing part, especially since women are typically indirect and won't say they need the validation directly.

For me, it's because I've been told mostly that how I felt was stupid. So I don't want to tell anyone why. I just want to be sad and have someone say it's OK to be sad for a second.

This isn't a hard concept.

At least for females.
Posted by OWLFAN86
Erotic Novelist
Member since Jun 2004
193992 posts
Posted on 5/28/24 at 3:54 pm to
wait,, hold up

Slo is giving relationship advice here now

its like Rummy offering hair care suggestions
Posted by Upperdecker
St. George, LA
Member since Nov 2014
32617 posts
Posted on 5/28/24 at 3:57 pm to
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I wouldn’t have done any better. I would have asked wtf is a shawarma.

No shawarma in your local Bama trailer park huh?
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
116679 posts
Posted on 5/28/24 at 3:59 pm to
Oh. I say it up front.

And in return I will listen to him bitch about the same thing over and over for HOURS and not provide him with the obvious solution which he has surely come to on his own and instead tell him, “wow, that sucks” without him having to prompt me to do so.
Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George, LA
Member since Aug 2004
80132 posts
Posted on 5/28/24 at 4:00 pm to
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I always ask my wife if she wants solutions or sympathy.

Works great. 90% of the time it's sympathy


Posted by bulletprooftiger
Member since Aug 2006
2381 posts
Posted on 5/28/24 at 4:26 pm to
This is why God invented the directional thumb text responses. I'd go with a thumb down, suggesting that I do not like that her shawarma fell apart, but also that I don't care all that much.
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