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Is there any common structure to a Protestant wedding?

Posted on 4/1/23 at 6:09 pm
Posted by Jack Ruby
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Posted on 4/1/23 at 6:09 pm
Honest question, not even trying to troll.

Been to quite a protestant weddings (most of them in Baptist churches) and every one of them just seems to be put together randomly by the bride and/or wedding planner.

Go to a Catholic or Jewish wedding, and they're always the same structure due to religious/church traditions and services.

Are all Protestant weddings this way?
Posted by Strannix
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Posted on 4/1/23 at 6:11 pm to
Uh yeah, bruh
Posted by GreenRockTiger
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Posted on 4/1/23 at 6:12 pm to
quote:

Are all Protestant weddings this way?
yes, just like the Sunday/Sabbath services
Posted by Rouge
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Posted on 4/1/23 at 6:13 pm to
Ends with a kiss followed by a prohibition on dancing
Posted by keakar
Member since Jan 2017
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Posted on 4/1/23 at 6:14 pm to
quote:

Is there any common structure to a Protestant wedding?


we go there only to look at the women with vaginas, we arent there to look at the decorations
Posted by Sao
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Posted on 4/1/23 at 6:15 pm to

It's kind of hit or miss in terms of a message or tradition as you say. I'm Methodist and have been to some with communion for example. Methodists have a catholic background, though.
Posted by OWLFAN86
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Posted on 4/1/23 at 6:15 pm to
after Henry the 8th we all know its a scam
Posted by soccerfüt
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Posted on 4/1/23 at 6:16 pm to
Yeah, the couple pledge to honor and respect each other and to really really really really really hate the Pope until death do they part.
Posted by Epaminondas
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Posted on 4/1/23 at 6:18 pm to
Catholic weddings involve a full Mass, but then you can drink at the reception.

The old saying is that you want a Baptist wedding and a Catholic reception.
Posted by TheHarahanian
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Posted on 4/1/23 at 6:18 pm to

There’s no standard for the shotguns, if that’s what you mean.
Posted by fr33manator
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Posted on 4/1/23 at 6:20 pm to
quote:

The old saying is that you want a Baptist wedding and a Catholic reception.



And during the marriage, you'll find a woman appreciates a good Catlick more.
Posted by kywildcatfanone
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Posted on 4/1/23 at 6:20 pm to
They don't serve alcohol either
Posted by tigercross
Member since Feb 2008
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Posted on 4/1/23 at 6:21 pm to
There are dozens of Protestant denominations. The Anglican Church has a very well defined liturgy for the rite of marriage. Others may not. It depends.
Posted by CaptSpaulding
Member since Feb 2012
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Posted on 4/1/23 at 6:29 pm to
quote:

most of them in Baptist churches


It’s a tradition there that one has to be a dude and one has to be a woman.
Posted by LRB1967
Tennessee
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Posted on 4/1/23 at 6:29 pm to
No idea. I always claim to have explosive diarrhea to avoid weddings.
Posted by DesScorp
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Posted on 4/1/23 at 6:32 pm to
Here’s our wedding planner, papist.

Posted by wfallstiger
Wichita Falls, Texas
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Posted on 4/1/23 at 6:36 pm to
The weddings I perform are very deliberate in form, process. Presbyterian
Posted by AllDayEveryDay
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Posted on 4/1/23 at 6:56 pm to
As quickly as possible. That is the one and only structure.
Posted by JawjaTigah
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Posted on 4/1/23 at 6:57 pm to
quote:

Been to quite a protestant weddings (most of them in Baptist churches)
Technically Baptists are not exactly Protestant, in the Reformation based sense. Emerging directly from the Catholic Church, Presbyterians, Lutherans, Reformed churches are Protestant, and Anglicans, Episcopalians, Methodists, Wesleyans are subsets, emerging slightly later. Baptists emerged from a Separatist movement, that was more congregational in nature. Over the centuries there has been blending and re-organizing and re-defining, to the extent that in the U.S. the Word Protestant is a catch-all term for all non-Roman Catholic Christians, but now it is a term that has been chopped off from its root of original meaning - the protesting against certain practices of the Roman Catholic hierarchy in the 16th century, with a strong call for reforming the same.

To the original question on wedding liturgies, the closer you come to churches and denominations that emerged out of the Reformation, the more you will find a fairly consistent structure to a wedding liturgy.

Oh, the word liturgy is a word that describes the form or pattern or structure used in putting together a church service of worship, which is what a wedding service is understood to be.
This post was edited on 4/1/23 at 7:12 pm
Posted by whiskey over ice
Member since Sep 2020
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Posted on 4/1/23 at 6:57 pm to
No kneeling bullshite
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