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re: Is it wrong to spank your kids in public?
Posted on 9/26/17 at 12:15 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
Posted on 9/26/17 at 12:15 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
All I remember as a kid was my dad or mom would give me or my brother "the look" first. If that didn't work my dad would walk me or my brother straight to the bathroom wherever we were at. If he was going to spank us he did it there. It was usually preceded with a little talk about what one of us did. After the spanking followed up with questions of whether we had anything to say or to confirm that we learned from it. No beatings just spankings that brought a tear or two. It worked for us and we turned out great. My brother and I have both used that along with guilt and shame (great options) to discipline our own kids. Worked pretty well with them too. Of course spankings were rare as most times we just received "the talk" with guilt and shame. If the look or the talk didn't work......well, spanking/punishment and later just punishment the older we got. My parents had a whole plan of how to handle kids. Worked well. So, yeah, spanking is OK but not out in public. Handle it privately.
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Posted on 9/26/17 at 12:15 pm to Blue Velvet
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Wrong to spank them anywhere; unless you're a crappy, lazy parent.
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Blue Velvet
Explains a lot.
Posted on 9/26/17 at 12:16 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
Do poor people do it at Walmart? Yes. Therefore definitely trashy
Posted on 9/26/17 at 12:16 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
Depends on the kid. Lessons my daughter learns seem to stick better if done in front of other people. She gets embarrassed easily, but seems to remember better next time.
Posted on 9/26/17 at 12:18 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
Nothing makes a kid respect you quite like beating and publicly humiliating them. If you exercise patience and wisdom and the Socratic method of parenting where they think you are on their side, they will grow up and be too well-adjusted and surpass all your accomplishments and make you feel insecure.
Posted on 9/26/17 at 12:21 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
You discipline your kids at home so you won't have to in public. Nothing is trashier than a parent slapping their kids around in public.
Posted on 9/26/17 at 12:28 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
whip their arse whenever and wherever its needed, if some busybody has an issue it tell them to frick off 
Posted on 9/26/17 at 12:30 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
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Is it wrong to spank your kids in public?
Yes, its much more effective to tell them they are in deep shite when they get home.
1) The fear lingers
2) You know the gloves are off indoors
My parents were the master of this. Quick pop and you're back to running around a couple minutes later. This way you are paralyzed in fear for a good 30-45 minutes.
Posted on 9/26/17 at 12:36 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
Spanking is trashy
Posted on 9/26/17 at 12:42 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
Other peoples kids or your own? I do both.
Posted on 9/26/17 at 12:55 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
First of all it's whoop not spank and hell yes
Posted on 9/26/17 at 12:55 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
It's better than letting them get away with shite but still looks trashy so that's why you discipline them consistently in private so that there's a better likelihood they'll behave in public.
Posted on 9/26/17 at 1:39 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
No but it's trashy.
Drag their little asses into a bathroom or somewhere else where your disciplining them doesn't annoy people as much (if not more) than what the kid was doing that got them punished in the first place.
Drag their little asses into a bathroom or somewhere else where your disciplining them doesn't annoy people as much (if not more) than what the kid was doing that got them punished in the first place.
Posted on 9/26/17 at 1:40 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
used not to be
Posted on 9/26/17 at 1:42 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
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Is it wrong to spank your kids in public?
I enjoy it. I like to embarrass them little frickers more than actually hurt them. A stern grab or shirt pull usually makes them turn red and feel stupid for acting like a little dipshit.
In private they'll fricking giggle and laugh until you smack the frick outta them.
Fact.
Posted on 9/26/17 at 1:55 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
If you have to do it in public I recommend the two finger pop across the wrist.
It stings the kid and makes the sound, but no one would ever cause a fuss over it
It stings the kid and makes the sound, but no one would ever cause a fuss over it
Posted on 9/26/17 at 2:24 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
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You discipline your kids at home so you won't have to in public.
this is the general idea, but if my kid was doing something in public that warranted a spanking he would get it.
My son knows this, so he behaves wherever he goes. I was pretty strict on him when he was little. He behaves himself. If your kid acts out in public you have bigger problems than one spanking is going to solve.
Posted on 9/26/17 at 2:28 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
While in Wal-Mart, I always make my kids go find a clothes hanger and I beat the shite out of them.
Posted on 9/26/17 at 2:30 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
I have a 4 year old--I try not to, but he was acting like an a-hole one day and snatched my sunglasses off my face and threw them on the ground so i tore him up bigly.
Posted on 9/26/17 at 2:39 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
If you're doing a good enough job disciplining them at home, then this isn't an issue. My kids fear the look I give them more than getting a spanking now.
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