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Posted on 4/24/18 at 9:09 am to OweO
We had a huge baby shower for our first child. frick that 2nd one though.
Posted on 4/24/18 at 9:10 am to OweO
It was the norm where I worked because it meant a party. Coworkers got an hour or two break from work with cake and moms got a $50 gift card.
I find that most have full blown showers for the first, getting lots of items and large items like baby gear. Second kid might get a "sprinkle" with clothes and diapers at a lunch with friends but not a huge party. Additional kids get nothing.
The only time I've seen full blown showers for second+ kids is when there was a large age difference, like ten years, between the kids.
I find that most have full blown showers for the first, getting lots of items and large items like baby gear. Second kid might get a "sprinkle" with clothes and diapers at a lunch with friends but not a huge party. Additional kids get nothing.
The only time I've seen full blown showers for second+ kids is when there was a large age difference, like ten years, between the kids.
Posted on 4/24/18 at 9:19 am to danilo
Around our circle of friends, they do have showers for all the kids, but you aren't expected to give gifts after the first kid. After the first kid, it's more of just a party.
Posted on 4/24/18 at 9:22 am to OweO
We only got gifts for our first kid. None after that. But now at work anytime someone has a baby they ask everyone to donate for gift cards and stuff. No thanks. They didn’t give me shite for mine.
Posted on 4/24/18 at 9:33 am to OweO
Think so. They want more stuff for the subsequent kids.
Posted on 4/24/18 at 9:34 am to OweO
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If someone at work has multiple kids and people wants everyone to donate to give them a baby shower for every kid they spit out, is that the norm?
You get crap for the 1st one. That's it.
Posted on 4/24/18 at 9:37 am to OweO
At about the 4th kid, they should be given medication as gifts. Like the comedian says:
Having a fourth child is like you're drowning,
and someone hands you a baby.
Having a fourth child is like you're drowning,
and someone hands you a baby.
Posted on 4/24/18 at 9:40 am to OweO
Baby showers are typically for your first born to get all the baby necessities.
For additional children a baby sprinkle is more appropriate. It's for close friends and family to gift you with smaller things you'll need for the additional child...diapers other gendered clothing if necessary. So basically a smaller shower.
Personally, I wouldn't have a shower for a second child, but it's not unheard of. For whatever reason people love buying baby gifts.
For additional children a baby sprinkle is more appropriate. It's for close friends and family to gift you with smaller things you'll need for the additional child...diapers other gendered clothing if necessary. So basically a smaller shower.
Personally, I wouldn't have a shower for a second child, but it's not unheard of. For whatever reason people love buying baby gifts.
Posted on 4/24/18 at 9:46 am to HoustonChick86
It’s also not all about the gifts. People with close family/friends like to get together to celebrate the coming of a new child. I see no problem with it.
Posted on 4/24/18 at 9:53 am to bigberg2000
We're expecting our first and will have at least 3 showers that our friends and family in different cities are basically making us do.
My wife's friends and family eat this shite up. They would do on every weekend if they could.
My wife's friends and family eat this shite up. They would do on every weekend if they could.
Posted on 4/24/18 at 9:54 am to bigberg2000
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It’s also not all about the gifts. People with close family/friends like to get together to celebrate the coming of a new child. I see no problem with it.
No, I get it when it's a reason for friends and/or family to get together and they give the person having a baby something, maybe they all pitch in.. Whatever, but I am talking about an all out shower. The person who is pregnant talking about how she needs a new stroller, etc..
Posted on 4/24/18 at 9:55 am to TheCaterpillar
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We're expecting our first and will have at least 3 showers that our friends and family in different cities are basically making us do.
Are any the ones where the men are invited as well? If so, that sucks. Whoever started that shite needs to have bricks thrown at them.
Posted on 4/24/18 at 9:58 am to OweO
For the first child, a big Shower with everyone the couple knows seems typical.
For additional children, they sometimes hold a "Sprinkle" which is a more low-key event with only the close friends/family.
For additional children, they sometimes hold a "Sprinkle" which is a more low-key event with only the close friends/family.
Posted on 4/24/18 at 9:59 am to OweO
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Whatever, but I am talking about an all out shower. The person who is pregnant talking about how she needs a new stroller, etc..
You are talking about scenarios that only exist in your imagination.
Posted on 4/24/18 at 10:04 am to OweO
My wife went to a "baby sprinkle" for her cousin who had a second kid, different sex, and 5 years after the first.
I think it is uncouth to have a shower for a second child.
I figured the sprinkle was on par with a gender reveal. Trashy.
I think it is uncouth to have a shower for a second child.
I figured the sprinkle was on par with a gender reveal. Trashy.
Posted on 4/24/18 at 10:09 am to bigberg2000
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It’s also not all about the gifts. People with close family/friends like to get together to celebrate the coming of a new child. I see no problem with it.
It's the OT. Way too cool for all this kind of stuff.
Posted on 4/24/18 at 10:15 am to OweO
The purchasing of shite that we already own is what keeps this engine going. We'd all be better off if every baby got TWO baby showers. One could even be golden.
What are you? A socialist?
What are you? A socialist?
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