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re: Is a secksless marriage reason enough for divorce?

Posted on 3/8/26 at 6:34 pm to
Posted by PUB
New Orleans
Member since Sep 2017
20859 posts
Posted on 3/8/26 at 6:34 pm to
$$$$$$$$$
Posted by Turnblad85
Member since Sep 2022
5493 posts
Posted on 3/8/26 at 8:29 pm to
I wish yall would stop bumping this dumb thread every week. The guy raking me over the coals for my hip and zany way of saying "sexless" is going to reach 500 upvotes

fuk me for not knowing the cool people dont use aliases for sex anymore

Posted by White Bear
probably
Member since Jul 2014
17590 posts
Posted on 3/8/26 at 8:35 pm to
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Well a woman in that scenario is either using sex transactionally to trap a guy for her own reasons or was no longer sexually attracted to the previous partner for one of a number reasons, but I’m not sure how either scenario is the fault of the man unless he let himself go or completely lost his masculinity.
simply put how’s a 50-year old lady going to land a man without using that wizard sleeve??
Posted by NBR_Exile
Houston via Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2012
2066 posts
Posted on 3/8/26 at 8:43 pm to
No sex=no marriage. Might as well hire a business partner to help manage kids/bills etc.
Posted by Will Cover
Davidson, NC
Member since Mar 2007
40194 posts
Posted on 3/8/26 at 8:49 pm to
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Is a secksless marriage reason enough for divorce?


Each time a man or woman reaches fulfillment, oxytocin releases into the brain and body in quantities that promote bonding between the two people. The more a married couple have sexual fulfillment (each of them fulfilled), the more they bond with each other; they become closer and more attached.

The opposite, no sex, is also true. Physical closeness is one of the ways couples stay connected. When both people feel fulfilled, it naturally strengthens the bond between them and keeps the relationship feeling close instead of distant.
Posted by tide06
Member since Oct 2011
23114 posts
Posted on 3/8/26 at 9:14 pm to
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simply put how’s a 50-year old lady going to land a man without using that wizard sleeve??

I don’t think they will.

The issue is based on data women only find 10-20% of men attractive.

So the women who can’t get one of the top 10-20% men they want in some cases are just settling in their mind for someone they dont find physically attractive because they provide wealth, protection, partnership or out of fear of being alone.

Then you overlay with the data that shows half of women by 50 would be basically celibate if left to their own devices and you’ve got a big “market economics” issue where supply isn’t equal to demand so to speak.

So a bunch of women are just having sex because they feel obligated and once they get married they often decide it’s not worth the effort so they basically stop or make it an issue.

I’m a millennial but I’ve talked to too many older married guys who after drinks complain about it and women who are joking with each other about “having” to have sex with their husbands for it not to be a real issue.
This post was edited on 3/8/26 at 11:20 pm
Posted by RileyTime
Gulf Breeze, FL
Member since Oct 2008
7107 posts
Posted on 3/8/26 at 10:49 pm to
Yes.

What’s the point of a marriage if intimacy dies? Having someone to live with? Life’s too short, plenty of women out there that like to have sex just as much as you.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
19980 posts
Posted on 3/9/26 at 3:28 am to
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Women who are fricked properly like sec as much as men. Don’t feel sorry for men who don’t know how to frick or treat their wives.


Give the wife a nice finger blast beforehand
Posted by Tiger Ugly
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2008
18651 posts
Posted on 3/9/26 at 6:45 am to
I have multiple friends who are in the single digits per year. For me that would be grounds for divorce. If all I wanted was a rommate, I could find several that would nag me a lot less.
Posted by FahQGump
Auburn, Al
Member since Dec 2021
1927 posts
Posted on 3/9/26 at 6:49 am to
You guys can do as you please, but I PROMISE you dont want to be trying to find a good woman in today's world
Posted by udtiger
Over your left shoulder
Member since Nov 2006
115146 posts
Posted on 3/9/26 at 6:53 am to
It's amazing how much sex people have when they are testifying in a car accident case.
Posted by DarthRebel
Tier Five is Alive
Member since Feb 2013
25777 posts
Posted on 3/9/26 at 7:10 am to
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We probably had sex 5 times in 5 years.


That is absolutely nuts, most marriages do not survive that.

quote:

month after removing the IUD, she became a totally different person


The 6 months to year after my wife got off birth control pills, was the most magical sexual time in my life. 20 years of suppressed hormones were released, freaking amazing times.
Posted by TigerFanatic99
South Bend, Indiana
Member since Jan 2007
35873 posts
Posted on 3/9/26 at 7:12 am to
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The 6 months to year after my wife got off birth control pills, was the most magical sexual time in my life. 20 years of suppressed hormones were released, freaking amazing times


It really is wild what hormones can do. A few months ago my 40 year old wife got put on some cream she rubs on her leg once a week and she's been absolutely insatiable since then. I had never gotten a blowjob in my life and at least once or twice a week she's on her knees waiting for me when I get out of the shower now just out of desire.
This post was edited on 3/9/26 at 7:24 am
Posted by Turnblad85
Member since Sep 2022
5493 posts
Posted on 3/9/26 at 7:14 am to
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some cream she rubs on her leg



Name of cream? What is the name of the cream?
Posted by DarthRebel
Tier Five is Alive
Member since Feb 2013
25777 posts
Posted on 3/9/26 at 7:50 am to
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Name of cream? What is the name of the cream?


If I was a betting person, probably some form of Testorone. TRT can be a thing for women, much lower dose than men. Same effects to libido.

Female Viagra is coming soon as a cream, but that is rubbed on the "target" area for increased blood flow, thus arousal. Lasts only hours. You can get it now from some doctors off label, look up scream cream.

TRT is probably best option for women, which will usually be pellets and not cream.

Research needs to be put around PT -141 more for women. Probably feminists holding that back
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
150173 posts
Posted on 3/9/26 at 7:54 am to
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I wish yall would stop bumping this dumb thread every week. The guy raking me over the coals for my hip and zany way of saying "sexless" is going to reach 500 upvotes
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
79843 posts
Posted on 3/9/26 at 7:55 am to
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Women who are fricked properly like sec as much as men
Having been with several women, I can tell you this isn't true for many women. Some are wired for it and love it and some aren't. It depends a great deal on what happened in their youth and how they were raised.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
150173 posts
Posted on 3/9/26 at 8:00 am to
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my 40 year old wife got put on some cream she rubs on her leg once a week and she's been absolutely insatiable since then. I had never gotten a blowjob in my life and at least once or twice a week she's on her knees

Happy for you baw

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I had never gotten a blowjob in my life
cant imagine putting a ring on a woman’s finger that’s not eager to give me a bj at least once in her life
Posted by HuskyPanda
Philly
Member since Feb 2018
2404 posts
Posted on 3/9/26 at 8:02 am to
It depends. It could mean that there are bigger issues at play and counseling, and communication could solve it. I'm chronically online, and in doing so I discovered the subreddit dead bedroom.

Some of the stories I've read are just depressing. People suffer dead bedroom for a myriad of reasons, and as a result, affairs happened.

When my wife was going through perimenopause, I was jerking it a lot, but and getting frustrated about the lack of sex. But after communicating, I learned why it was happening and now we are better.
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
79843 posts
Posted on 3/9/26 at 8:04 am to
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. I had never gotten a blowjob in my life
Wait...what?
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