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re: I'm struggling and this is probably the worst fricking place to vent but I'm doing it anywa
Posted on 9/27/18 at 8:30 am to Hot Carl
Posted on 9/27/18 at 8:30 am to Hot Carl
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Well, unless ol boy has a time machine, I’m not sure what point the criticism serves except to make the criticizer feel morally superior.
Feel morally superior?? Not having kids out of wedlock IS morally superior.
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Posted on 9/27/18 at 8:36 am to rld280z
DNA test 100%
never trust a bitch.
never trust a bitch.
Posted on 9/27/18 at 8:46 am to GeauxTigerNation
Document everything. Don’t react to her emotionally. Bite your tongue. Keep being a good Baw but live your life. Get your own life as straight as it can be. If you have bad habits, toss em to the curb. Understand you can’t control the behavior of others. Understand she may be the worst thing that ever happens to you. Understand that life is suffering. You will suffer. Your job is to find meaning in the suffering. When the time comes establish a great relationship with the child. Play your shitty hand as gracefully as you can . You will respect yourself if you do all this and you will build the life God intended you to live.
Posted on 9/27/18 at 8:50 am to GeauxTigerNation
Does the drug related family death have anything to do with it? Since you mentioned it in the same post, I’m just wondering if that is a reason she’s done a 180. As in, were you involved in the same things as the family member?
This post was edited on 9/27/18 at 9:06 am
Posted on 9/27/18 at 8:50 am to LeroyBrown
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Mark me down with the "baby is not yours" crew
Y’all are making an unsubstantiated leap with that claim
Posted on 9/27/18 at 8:52 am to GeauxTigerNation
Bitc4es be crazy, yo.
Posted on 9/27/18 at 8:52 am to GeauxTigerNation
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Everything was great. I had it layed out and a future planned with this girl so I could give this kid the life I never dreamed if having as a kid but she's straight done with me.
As I get older the maxim "Life is what happens while you are making other plans" seems to be the way it goes. Accept this as inevitable and you are way ahead of the game.
Posted on 9/27/18 at 9:08 am to GeauxTigerNation
You need to figure out why this happened, because I dont think girls usually just wake up one day and say "frick this guy" who is gonna willingly raise her kid. If it's something you unknowingly did, you can work on fixing it and work towards a reconciliation. If it's not something you did, or if she's just not talking to you, then yea you need to take a DNA test
Posted on 9/27/18 at 9:11 am to GeauxTigerNation
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Impossible. She would have never had the time, and the time of pregnancy timing is exactly what we thought it would be.
I hate you're in this predicament, but it's very naive to think this way.
As others said, make sure you are the father. You will want that closure one way or the other.
Posted on 9/27/18 at 9:12 am to Triple Bogey
no good pryaers with you
Posted on 9/27/18 at 9:13 am to GeauxTigerNation
frick anyone making fun of you if they do. We've all had these moments in life. Keep your head up. Maybe she's just scared because of the new kid, and doing female things. We will never understand their minds man. Every GF I've ever had has confused the shite out of me at times.
End of day though. If she doesn't want you...then you'll be fine. A relationship with someone who doesn't love you is a terrible waste of your own life man. Make sure you can be there for the kid. If she tries to say no you take her to court and say it's your kid to you will be in it's life. Then find a girl worth your time.
End of day though. If she doesn't want you...then you'll be fine. A relationship with someone who doesn't love you is a terrible waste of your own life man. Make sure you can be there for the kid. If she tries to say no you take her to court and say it's your kid to you will be in it's life. Then find a girl worth your time.
Posted on 9/27/18 at 9:14 am to GeauxTigerNation
Posted on 9/27/18 at 9:19 am to Tdogg78
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Perhaps try focusing on her? Make her feel like she hasn't trapped you into something by getting pregnant?
Women are attention whores, give her some attention.....without mentioning the baby.
Terrible advice. Obviously you've tried making her happy and it didn't work. Show no interest. Move on. Try and start dating someone else. Then she'll start having second thoughts. People always want what they can't have.
Posted on 9/27/18 at 9:24 am to TheIndulger
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Y’all are making an unsubstantiated leap with that claim
If OP hasn’t done anything wrong, that would be the conclusion I leap to 11/10 times
But I don’t know if OP has done no wrong
Posted on 9/27/18 at 9:26 am to GeauxTigerNation
Time, man. See what happens. Good luck. Hopefully she’ll at least come around to realize that the kid is the most important thing, and it’ll need you regardless of how she feels.
Posted on 9/27/18 at 9:28 am to GeauxTigerNation
Be there for the kiddo
She sounds like a pos
At least you didn’t marry her
She sounds like a pos
At least you didn’t marry her
Posted on 9/27/18 at 9:35 am to Aspercel
quote:this is an excellent point
were you involved in the same things as the family member?
Posted on 9/27/18 at 9:50 am to TheIndulger
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Y’all are making an unsubstantiated leap with that claim
Relax. It's an anonymous message board. The very OP post is unsubstantiated.
Posted on 9/27/18 at 9:53 am to Jimmydatiger
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I am amazed at he naïveté of some of the responses on here. You are facing $750,000 in pretax dollars in child support, tuition, healthcare, summer camps and ballet lessons over the next two decades. You will be fighting a female friendly legal system that doesn't give a single rats arse about the rights of the father because all men are abusive assholes. She has had her lifelong dream of childbirth and motherhood fulfilled without having to put up with a husband who,will tell her to quit wasting money and bother her for sex all the time. Lawyer up, minimize, in any legal way possible, the money you will have to pay her. Insist that the lawyer go balls to the wall for as much custody time with the child as possible because you can be assured that, no matter what any touchy-feely men wussies and women on here tell you, the child's mother will use every moment you are not with the kid trying to convince him/her that you are the biggest a-hole ever born. Fact.
Deserves to be repeated.
Posted on 9/27/18 at 10:09 am to GeauxTigerNation
pregnant bishes be crazy with the hormones. They go through mood swings like cravings. If you really love her, and you want to stay in your kid's life, keep going to the appointments and letting her know you're still there for support. She'll come around. The worst thing you can do it drop everything and not help her through the tough times. Besides, that pregnant pussy is like velvet. You need to get back up in that.
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