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Posted on 11/12/14 at 3:34 pm to
Posted by Walt OReilly
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Posted on 11/12/14 at 3:34 pm to
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Walt may be my favorite poster


Thanks. I get that a lot
Posted by Darth_Vader
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Member since Dec 2011
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Posted on 11/12/14 at 3:34 pm to
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Also, Darth and Wafer must have been in a relationship at some point that didn't end well.



Been married for over 17 plus years. The relationship before that was my high school GF who swore she'd wait for me while I was away in the the Army. I got the Dear John letter just a few weeks after I got to Germany. That was 1988. Now that I think about it, it was about this time of year, right around Thanksgiving.
Posted by yankeeundercover
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Member since Jan 2010
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Posted on 11/12/14 at 3:34 pm to
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SlowFlowPro
WTF are YOU doing up in this thread..
Posted by ZacAttack
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Member since Oct 2012
6416 posts
Posted on 11/12/14 at 3:34 pm to
If you really don't want to marry her don't. She's going to go ape shite crazy on your arse, you should probably not do this in public.

My question is, you have already been with this chick for 10 years, obviously there was something there for both of you to want to be in a relationship for that long, would you have kept it going if you weren't getting married?
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
120445 posts
Posted on 11/12/14 at 3:35 pm to
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OP said they got engaged over a year ago and HE DID WANT TO MARRY HER THEN. He just changed his mind. Sucks for her, but it's what is best. Free will can be a bitch.



That's 9 years. That's well beyond my 5 years rule. Seriously, by year 2 if you're in your mid-20s, you should at least bring up the subject of marriage and kids even if you aren't even close to being ready for either.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
Member since Jan 2004
476567 posts
Posted on 11/12/14 at 3:35 pm to
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You don't regret making her waste her 20s

did he kidnap her family? hold her hostage?
Posted by Darth_Vader
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Member since Dec 2011
73588 posts
Posted on 11/12/14 at 3:36 pm to
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I do agree that people look at marriage as if it's supposed to be some Danielle Steele novel. It's hard work.


You hit the nail on the head. One of the main reasons so many people divorce though is they either don't realize this or they do and just don't want to put in the effort.

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Even if I weren't happy with my wife, I have two kids. I'm not going to leave them. No way. Not ever.


Respect
Posted by alajones
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Member since Oct 2005
35920 posts
Posted on 11/12/14 at 3:36 pm to
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Posted by Walt OReilly quote: Walt may be my favorite poster Thanks. I get that a lot


Jesus Christ, did this guy just come here for reassurance?
Posted by undrafted
DHA
Member since Oct 2009
1008 posts
Posted on 11/12/14 at 3:37 pm to
How are y'all not living together???

Also, as discussed if you think you are breaking up with her tonight you're kidding yourself this is going to be a process.
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
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Posted on 11/12/14 at 3:37 pm to
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You two stupid fricks have been paying double mortgage/rent for 8.5 years? Holy mother bitch.

You deserver each other.




Legitimate laugh
Posted by SabiDojo
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Posted on 11/12/14 at 3:37 pm to
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That's 9 years. That's well beyond my 5 years rule. Seriously, by year 2 if you're in your mid-20s, you should at least bring up the subject of marriage and kids even if you aren't even close to being ready for either.



So now you're dictating the rules of relationships? Don't you think having rigid rules for something so fluid, unpredictable, and natural is not only foolish, but problematic?
Posted by Cdawg
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Member since Sep 2003
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Posted on 11/12/14 at 3:38 pm to
I haven't read this whole thread but it has taken you 10 years to figure out you don't want to marry her? Wow.

**Just caught up. 9 years?
This post was edited on 11/12/14 at 3:41 pm
Posted by LSUvegasbombed
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Member since Sep 2013
15464 posts
Posted on 11/12/14 at 3:40 pm to
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Walt may be my favorite poster


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Thanks. I get that a lot


Must feel so badass to be cool on the webz
Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
Member since Jan 2004
476567 posts
Posted on 11/12/14 at 3:41 pm to
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WTF are YOU doing up in this thread..

i've done enough custody/divorce cases to have an opinion on other people's lives
Posted by uway
Member since Sep 2004
33109 posts
Posted on 11/12/14 at 3:43 pm to
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did he kidnap her family? hold her hostage


So little love for the fairer sex

Posted by TigerPanzer
Orlando
Member since Sep 2006
9476 posts
Posted on 11/12/14 at 3:44 pm to
OP--With all the investment in this thread, you need to get back to us after your tete-a-tete is finished. Either that or tell us what paper your obit will appear in.

Buena suerte.
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
120445 posts
Posted on 11/12/14 at 3:44 pm to
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Those that have been critical of the OP, what would you propose he do - go forth and marry her?



Well, no use in crying over spilt milk at this point, so he's finally gotten his balls together after 10 fricking years and is doing the right thing, but it's long overdue and he may could have fricked up her life forever as a whole. They should by no means get married, but the OP should have had 3 years with her tops, realized that he doesn't want to marry her, and then broken up with her and wished her the best.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
Member since Jan 2004
476567 posts
Posted on 11/12/14 at 3:44 pm to
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So little love for the fairer sex

i think women have as much say in ending a relationship as men. i don't buy the "time" excuse as something to blame him for
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Posted on 11/12/14 at 3:45 pm to
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