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re: Im 40 and losing interest in alot of things
Posted on 12/10/24 at 8:01 pm to SmogkDeizKnutz
Posted on 12/10/24 at 8:01 pm to SmogkDeizKnutz
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Is this a normal thing?
Yes. Priorities change as you age
This post was edited on 12/10/24 at 8:01 pm
Posted on 12/10/24 at 8:03 pm to GatorPA84
I really think some mdma, cocaine, and an OT 8 would work wonders for me right about now
Posted on 12/10/24 at 8:09 pm to SmogkDeizKnutz
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Sports (used to rule weekends with game on drink/cooking)
This should have never happened. Following a bunch of grown kids throwing leather around isnt something to grab much of your time
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Cooking (see above)
As your family dwindles its less rewarding
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Dancing/Going Out
Never was much of a thing for me. Always seemed like a "keeping up with the Jones'" activity
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No motivation or get up and go.
The pandemic showed millions of people that the things they spent a lifetime chasing was wasted effort. It actually should be a win for you. Less spending, more family time
Posted on 12/10/24 at 8:16 pm to Slippy
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honky-tonking with my lady
quote:He polishes his belt buckle reg’ly, son.
Please walk us through what this entails.
Posted on 12/10/24 at 8:20 pm to SmogkDeizKnutz
It sounds like depression. Look I never knew my loss of interest was that except the last 8 yrs I never wanted to do anything. Decided to talk to someone and Holy shite 3-4 wks on the meds later and it's like I'm the energizer bunny. Now I found a good routine so about to get off.
Posted on 12/10/24 at 8:22 pm to SmogkDeizKnutz
You have been civilized. The thrill of the hunt is over.
Posted on 12/10/24 at 8:24 pm to Gee Grenouille
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Gee Grenouille
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I really think some mdma, cocaine, and an OT 8 would work wonders for me right about now
I hereby nominate you OT Surgeon General
Posted on 12/10/24 at 8:28 pm to SmogkDeizKnutz
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Im 40 and losing interest in alot of things
You've probably just reached the point in life where you've realized things you thought were important aren't or were things other people only thought were. Probably your body telling you to start growing in new directions.
Posted on 12/10/24 at 8:30 pm to LSUBanker
quote:100% this. Will suck at first if you arent interested but you will eventually start to gain some drive and motivation from it
Start hitting the gym and lifting weights.
Posted on 12/10/24 at 8:35 pm to SmogkDeizKnutz
Wait until the wife wants to have time and you think to yourself…
shite I’d just as soon have big bowl of ice cream.
shite I’d just as soon have big bowl of ice cream.
Posted on 12/10/24 at 8:36 pm to shutterspeed
Probably right as well.
The older you get, the more you see reality and less of the curtain. See sports.
But I do think he’s depressed a bit.
The older you get, the more you see reality and less of the curtain. See sports.
But I do think he’s depressed a bit.
Posted on 12/10/24 at 8:40 pm to LSUBanker
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Start hitting the gym and lifting weights.
This helps. Get a trainer if you need. Start running. Set goals. 5k, 10k, half marathon.
Posted on 12/10/24 at 8:44 pm to TexasTiger08
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But I do think he’s depressed a bit.
Sure. May even be a healthy depression. A signal that things aren't working and to take action.
Posted on 12/10/24 at 8:48 pm to SmogkDeizKnutz
Sooooo. You're growing up.
Nice
Nice
Posted on 12/10/24 at 8:52 pm to SmogkDeizKnutz
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Im 40 and losing interest in alot of things
I feel sure the alot is sad you have lost interest in them.

Posted on 12/10/24 at 8:55 pm to SmogkDeizKnutz
I’m surprised more people haven’t mentioned getting your testosterone checked. Those are most certainly symptoms of low T. That my not be it very well could be and it’s easy to check.
Posted on 12/10/24 at 8:58 pm to magildachunks
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Boredom isn't a bad thing. Just learn how to be happy in boredom.
Learning to be content is a freeing thing.
Posted on 12/10/24 at 9:01 pm to SmogkDeizKnutz
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Sports (used to rule weekends with game on drink/cooking)
I used to be an up early on Saturday during football season tailgating and going to the LSU game.. Now I'd honestly rather go play golf in the morning with my daughter go home throw something on the pit and chill at the house...
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Cooking (see above)
Still love doing this.. any chance I can cook I will..
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Dancing/Going Out
Well yeah.. that's just growing up and realizing that paying for overpriced drinks in a nasty nightclub or bar can be left to the single people...
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No motivation or get up and go.
This sounds more like depression honestly..
I know as we grow older and more mature the things that mean the most to us are family.. but becoming a total recluse isn't healthy either
I'm 44 btw..
This post was edited on 12/10/24 at 9:02 pm
Posted on 12/10/24 at 9:30 pm to SmogkDeizKnutz
Check your Testosterone levels. Maybe it's lower than you think and would affect some of what you are describing. Just a thought. Saw other things that were posted as well.
Posted on 12/10/24 at 9:30 pm to SmogkDeizKnutz
Don’t have much to add regarding this but I hope you find your path sooner than later.
But honestly, this might be a good question to pose to your wife - the one who knows you best would/could probably lend you the best advice.
But honestly, this might be a good question to pose to your wife - the one who knows you best would/could probably lend you the best advice.
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