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re: If your son was a "victim" of sex by his teacher, what would you do?
Posted on 4/22/15 at 10:34 am to ksayetiger
Posted on 4/22/15 at 10:34 am to ksayetiger
It worked out OK for this guy
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Posted on 4/22/15 at 10:35 am to sharkfhin
Male Teacher- kill him
Hot Female Teacher- black mail her for sex
Meh Female Teacher- black mail for a bj
Ugly Female Teacher- Punish son
Hot Female Teacher- black mail her for sex
Meh Female Teacher- black mail for a bj
Ugly Female Teacher- Punish son
Posted on 4/22/15 at 10:35 am to sharkfhin
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Id like to believe my kids would be emotionally fulfilled to where she or he isnt seeking physical/emotional attention from a teacher in an abnormal way....at 15 it would depend on what happened(if son was a virgin, got her preg or gave him an std, was tricked,etc)but what if the male student approached the teacher about sex first or if she wanted to frick and it was just a one time frick?...how it went down would depend on what my reaction would be....do I believe the teacher should get arrested for a sex that my son allowed to happen, hell no....do I believe the teacher should fired...depends....is the teacher's students performing well in their grades....? I do believe a teacher/student should perhaps be subjected to a couple of years of counseling because normally a teacher has some emotional dysfunction and needs help not jail or lose there career....it is obvious the issue isnt the sex, sex is just the side affect of feeling wanted and secure were otherwise damaged at some point for both teacher and student....same with the kid....at age 17, I wouldnt worry who my son choose to have sex with as long as he is safe .... if it were my daughter, id feel the same...it would not be my wish for my kid to screw a teacher but mistakes happen....mist kids who step into that arena with a yeacher have issues also amd that problem comes from thwir own parents...so parents look within yourself not the teacher as to why ur son or daughter screwed the teacher ....thats a truth most parents are in total denial about....u dont give little johnny enough attention cause u work to much, party to much, are slut bags,drug heads , mental,physical,emotionally abusive towards ur kids....kids will gravitate to any positive(in heir minds)attention they can get....even if its a shag from a teacher...truth....
You have some good points. But you did not take into account a couple of things.
1. Teens nowadays(even girls) very often tend to think with their genitals.
2. Teens have little to no concept of the long term consequences of their actions. This is especially true for those in their early and mid teen years.
Posted on 4/22/15 at 10:35 am to sharkfhin
So then what happens if the teacher is fired, isn't charged, and then pursues an actual relationship with your son (At 15 still)?
Posted on 4/22/15 at 10:39 am to Oates Mustache
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So then what happens if the teacher is fired, isn't charged, and then pursues an actual relationship with your son (At 15 still)?
I know it's one year older than your example, but once your child is 16 there's nothing you can do legally. 16 is age of consent (at least where in MS and I'm pretty sure in LA.) That is unless the person is a teacher or doctor (the child's treating doctor). And a person could be charged whether or not they are still a teacher or not, all that matters is if they were a teacher at time of sexual encounter.
This post was edited on 4/22/15 at 10:40 am
Posted on 4/22/15 at 10:42 am to Oates Mustache
Um...then that is my personal choice to allow or not allow...in which I wouldnt allow...im ole school,I just beat a bitches arse if she hung around when unwanted, but this goes back to the counseling....the counselor will determine if further prosecution should be done or is this person working on what their real issues are and fixing it....under my opinion I doubt seriously a female teacher will persue a 15 yr old teen when she is getting what she needs from a counselor to explore her own issues....but again....above I said I wouldnt allow it....parents should do their job and fullfill their kids with all of the important things that kids need from their parents...in most if not all cases, your kid who is properly emotionally raised will report the issue and not get involved....
This post was edited on 4/22/15 at 10:44 am
Posted on 4/22/15 at 10:42 am to ksayetiger
what if the teachers throat hugs your son's penis like a glove and he can never find another woman who has a body part that hugs his penis as good ever again. He will have an empty lifetime of trying to find the perfect fit for his penis and will never find it.
This is the only scenario where I feel that your son would be considered a victim.
This is the only scenario where I feel that your son would be considered a victim.
Posted on 4/22/15 at 10:48 am to Oates Mustache
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That's all physical development though, and it's night and day different than the gradual changes that occur in your mental development. That's why you see so many e-high fives. People simply cannot separate their adult thinking from that of their 15 year old self. It's a natural human roadblock.
The other factors I mentioned were things that created emotional and maturity development, those are what I don't want to go into. Plus all those physical changes do heavily factor into ones mental state when a teen.
I have been partially playing the devils advocate this whole thread because of what I am about to say.
Unless there is some one in a similar field in this thread, I am the only one who consistently spends a large amount of time with teens on a group or individual level. I know them better than their parents do in many ways. Kids are far more developed than parents give them credit for, especially young men. Many parents still look at their kids as a 6 year old when they are 16. It is incredible really. People wonder why we are creating a generation partially filled of mewling kittens who are apathetic to the real world. This is why. Parents hamstring their development. I am not saying they should go screw teachers. I am saying they are more mentally developed than many parents will recognize or admit if they do. Most of the time kids know what they are doing, recognize at least some of the consequences and then make a decision. When kids are mentally and emotionally ready for a certain level of responsibility, and we do not give that to them, they do not learn and develop as is needed for a successful life. Creating an effect in which they are always a step behind and end up leaning on parents longer than they should.
Your kids can handle more than mnay of you think. Give them a chance.
Posted on 4/22/15 at 10:54 am to AllemanWC
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So if I catch someone breaking into my garage, don't turn them in, and they rob a house the next night and shoot the owner I need to worry about a lawsuit? Uhh NO
Have you seen how overly litigious our society has become?
If you know of a teacher committing statutory rape to your child and don't report them, then that teacher does the same thing to another child, then yes, I could certainly see you getting sued by that second child's parents.
I don't agree with that necessarily, but that's the world we live in.
Also, the DA could go after you for child endangerment or something for knowing about such an act and not reporting it.
Posted on 4/22/15 at 10:58 am to sharkfhin
My point though is that people are e-high fiving the kids these days for having sex with teachers, but in many cases these crazy teachers take it that extra step. Why do these e-high fivers consider one ok, but the other not ok?
This post was edited on 4/22/15 at 11:05 am
Posted on 4/22/15 at 10:58 am to Oates Mustache
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. Why do these e-high fivers consider one ok, but the other bit ok?
duh, because double standards
Posted on 4/22/15 at 11:01 am to ksayetiger
I was a teen boy recently and they're not victims . I'm in college and all I think about is railing every hot girl in my classes . I'd frick all of them if I could foggy style .
Oh and I would blackmail the teacher for a blowjob .
Oh and I would blackmail the teacher for a blowjob .
Posted on 4/22/15 at 11:01 am to Darth_Vader
I agree but many teens don't think about long term consequences when it comes to most decisions that potentially hurt them and many of our kids turn out fine once they get older....they learn what not to do and it makes them better parents,people....sexing a teacher could be no different than drinking alcohol,smoking pot, running from cops, pranks that turn out bad etc etc....sex is not the cause of an emotional disaster in the future in most of these cases....in fact the repercussion from the activity is more likely to cause future unrest and emotional scaring....
Legal age in my opinion should be 15 , heck they wanna legalize weed everywhere lol, and teacher should be subjected to two yrs probation with school system with counseling that the teacher has to pay for in the same two yr time frame....if the instance happens again, then termination should occur, some of these teachers are good teachers, I believe many of them can reform not only with the situation,they can be overall better people....jmo.....sex is to taboo here in the usa and ridiculus that a teen 14 and above is considered a victim when they had sex with an older person but yet we turn the other cheek when kids criticise another kids,use drugs,party too much, never home, parents dont give a shite, are drug dealers,criminals break every law in the book including murder,and rape etc and we dont say they are a victim in those cases ....teens KNOW exactly what there are doing....sex is hardly an emotional issue to say our precious little one was "victimized" cause they wanted to enjoy some good sex... hahaha...give me a break....
Legal age in my opinion should be 15 , heck they wanna legalize weed everywhere lol, and teacher should be subjected to two yrs probation with school system with counseling that the teacher has to pay for in the same two yr time frame....if the instance happens again, then termination should occur, some of these teachers are good teachers, I believe many of them can reform not only with the situation,they can be overall better people....jmo.....sex is to taboo here in the usa and ridiculus that a teen 14 and above is considered a victim when they had sex with an older person but yet we turn the other cheek when kids criticise another kids,use drugs,party too much, never home, parents dont give a shite, are drug dealers,criminals break every law in the book including murder,and rape etc and we dont say they are a victim in those cases ....teens KNOW exactly what there are doing....sex is hardly an emotional issue to say our precious little one was "victimized" cause they wanted to enjoy some good sex... hahaha...give me a break....
This post was edited on 4/22/15 at 11:05 am
Posted on 4/22/15 at 11:03 am to Oates Mustache
you got me there, because i had sex in hs i am now a sex offender. dont be mad because you are a pussy.
Posted on 4/22/15 at 11:04 am to BeerMoney
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What if she was an OT 8? I mean personally I'm throwing high 5's at my boy and feeling self conscious that he's a better poontang slayer than I ever was.
Hopefully he'd keep his mouth shut so his mother doesn't find out. But if he doesn't, then I know I'll have to put on a show of coming down on him.
Posted on 4/22/15 at 11:08 am to WDE24
thanks for the laugh and manning up and not fixing the mistake.
look i already said it depends on the kids. I was mature enough for that kind of stuff when i was that age and so were most of my friends but i knew plenty that weren't.
but those like the guy who called me a pedophile are going over board with victim bullshite. Look girls get emotional over these kinds of things but a lot of boys can handle it. if my kid was not one who could handle it, i would handle through the police and report them.
Either way I am prolly reporting it because the next kid might be somebody that can handle it. Plus if my could was mature it would just make him a superstar at school with the girls, so it would help him.
bottomline is though not every teenager that has sex with a teacher is a victim. girls tend to be more so though because of their emotions, but even then its not always cut and dry.
look i already said it depends on the kids. I was mature enough for that kind of stuff when i was that age and so were most of my friends but i knew plenty that weren't.
but those like the guy who called me a pedophile are going over board with victim bullshite. Look girls get emotional over these kinds of things but a lot of boys can handle it. if my kid was not one who could handle it, i would handle through the police and report them.
Either way I am prolly reporting it because the next kid might be somebody that can handle it. Plus if my could was mature it would just make him a superstar at school with the girls, so it would help him.
bottomline is though not every teenager that has sex with a teacher is a victim. girls tend to be more so though because of their emotions, but even then its not always cut and dry.
Posted on 4/22/15 at 11:10 am to ksayetiger
quote:Depends. Is the teacher male or female?
I have a four year old, so I am trying to imagine what i would do if he made the papers (read:OT) when he is 15 or so banging his teacher. I really dont know my reaction toward him, but I know I would want to kill the teacher for taking advantage of him.
Posted on 4/22/15 at 11:13 am to Darth_Vader
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1. How would you react if you were sitting there in your living room and a woman in her late 20's or even 30's knocked on your door and wanted to bring your 15 yr old son back to her place to spend the night?
There's a difference between being "good" with it and thinking it's a big f'n hairy deal.
That 15 year old boy is NOT going to be traumatized by anything other than perhaps the embarrassment of the stuff being national news.
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2. Or how would you react if a 20 or 30 something year old man showed up at your door wanting to take your 15 year old daughter back to his place for the night?
And there it is. Half the problem on this shite is the complete denial of ANY difference between boys and girls.
Posted on 4/22/15 at 11:18 am to lsu777
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Either way I am prolly reporting it because the next kid might be somebody that can handle it. Plus if my could was mature it would just make him a superstar at school with the girls, so it would help him.
something tells me your still in highschool if you think this. For starters I can't see any high school girl saying, "since he fricked ms. so in so, i want to frick him now" it would most likely be the exact opposite. And when his future g/f's find out about it, some might have a hard time giving someone that would do that a chance.
I could be wrong, but i don't see this helping the kid in any way other than being cool to other high school boys. Lots of things were cool in highschool, but as you got older and wiser, turned out they were pretty dumb most of the time, but that's the fun of being a teenager.
Posted on 4/22/15 at 11:25 am to ksayetiger
Whats her number? And was the snatch good?
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