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re: If your son was a "victim" of sex by his teacher, what would you do?
Posted on 4/22/15 at 8:09 am to DirtyMikeandtheBoys
Posted on 4/22/15 at 8:09 am to DirtyMikeandtheBoys
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No I'm good with 15 year olds deciding to bang their older teacher on their own.
all 15 year olds?
but not 13 year olds?
why that line?
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Posted on 4/22/15 at 8:09 am to DirtyMikeandtheBoys
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I draw the line after a proper assessment of the individuals character, judgement, maturity, and intelligence.
If this was true, we would all be gay. Why?
Bitches be crazy.
Posted on 4/22/15 at 8:09 am to LucasP
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Dude, you don't even have kids
That's over the line dude! Just because I haven't seen my kid in 5 years doesn't mean I'm not a father. I'm just too busy and his mom is a count
Posted on 4/22/15 at 8:09 am to ksayetiger
I'd want that rapist punished to the full extent of the law. Why the hell is victim in quotes? An adult took advantage of a 15 year old in this situation.
Posted on 4/22/15 at 8:11 am to Jcorye1
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I'd want that rapist punished to the full extent of the law. Why the hell is victim in quotes? An adult took advantage of a 15 year old in this situation.
If you read this thread, society doesn't really care anymore. We want everyone to be pimp so let's start them off as soon as possible.
Posted on 4/22/15 at 8:11 am to kingbob
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So during sex did you tell her "Yippie Kiyay motherf&%ker!"
I wasnt over 40, bald, with a salt n pepper 5 o'clock shadow. I didnt stand a chance even if I had wanted to.
Posted on 4/22/15 at 8:13 am to sicboy
He look like a victim to you?
This post was edited on 4/22/15 at 8:14 am
Posted on 4/22/15 at 8:15 am to DirtyMikeandtheBoys
A victim of awful parenting, yep.
Posted on 4/22/15 at 8:16 am to sicboy
Insane. People constantly bitch about how magazines show girls the unrealistic woman, but threads like this show boys they need to try to bang anything that moves or they'll be considered wusses or less than the ideal man. If my child was fricked by a teacher, someone who has to be around kids all day, I'd make sure she never had a job with children again. This isn't some minor slip up like cursing in front of the kids or being seen at Walmart drunk with a bf, this is a fricking felony.
Posted on 4/22/15 at 8:16 am to Salmon
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so where do you draw the line?
because at some point, everyone draws a line
This is a good question. 150 years ago, marriage at 13 and 14 in this country was not uncommon, and 18 was an old maid. Now you are a social pariah if you get married before 23.
So what changed between now and then. Obviously working conditions, schooling, military service...etc. All of which changed the idea of the "maturation" age. I will say, the severe lack of responsibility given to most kids has definitely pushed back the maturity line in the average teen.
Posted on 4/22/15 at 8:20 am to ksayetiger
Take him to Hooters/Twin Peaks, buy him a beer, and tell him to cut it out and shut the hell up about it until his 30's.
Posted on 4/22/15 at 8:21 am to VaBamaMan
It depends on what is left of him after my wife (filipino) is done.
Posted on 4/22/15 at 8:21 am to Fat and Happy
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yeah, I'm so sure they just had no idea what was going on.
Do you not understand the difference between physical and mental development? Of course they knew what was going on, but a 15 year old does not have the mental capacity or development to understand the potential long term effects of a teacher manipulating them. People posting e-high fives are doing it from their fully developed and mature brain, not from their 15 year old selves.
People here post from the perspective of an adult, but the reality is that they don't accurately remember their 15 year old mentality, no matter how much they insist they do. Your brain undergoes massive change as you mature.
Posted on 4/22/15 at 8:22 am to ksayetiger
Ask for the teacher's phone number
Posted on 4/22/15 at 8:24 am to ksayetiger
These issues are a result of the destruction of the patriarchy. The role of the adult male is to ensure order. In the case of the female teacher, merely informing the husband or father of the teacher should result in appropriate discipline.
But mixed schooling at this age is the problem, young men should be taught by men and young women by women. Make sodomy in these situations a capital offense and society will be back on track.
But mixed schooling at this age is the problem, young men should be taught by men and young women by women. Make sodomy in these situations a capital offense and society will be back on track.
Posted on 4/22/15 at 8:26 am to VaBamaMan
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So what changed between now and then
The science of understanding childhood mental development.
Posted on 4/22/15 at 8:32 am to SoFla Tideroller
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I would definitely have a conversation with the teacher and my son about the consequences
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blackmail the teacher into banging me
Yeah, I thought this would be posted almost immediately as well. Come on people, it's not Monday.
Posted on 4/22/15 at 8:40 am to Oates Mustache
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15 year old mentality, no matter how much they insist they do.
I actually do, I am acutely aware of my mindset because it was a major transition for me. It would have definitely changed my life, but I don't think I would have been emotionally scarred. I would have known what I was doing. Kids can think, they aren't mindless sex robots. I had plenty of opportunities to lose my virginity. Including a girl friend who basically tried to rape me, which btw, didn't scar me at all. Yet refrained till I was with my wife.
I realize not all boys are me, but boys in general are much more emotionally calloused than girls. Oh and yes, I do think the sentence for crimes should be different for boys vs girls. One is more emotionally and physically vulnerable at that age. Emotionally being the biggest key reason there.
Emotion =/= Maturity for the "girls are more mature teens" crowd.
A) the attitude of many parents is the problem, they baby their kids and then they can't make good decisions when it counts. Some of those type of parents are in this thread.
B) Adults make the mistake of getting too close, of not living above reproach. Some of the incidents probably never happened, but they put themselves in a position where they should never have been.
C) In the cases in which it is true, the majority of are obviously, the adult needs to be prosecuted. Period. But for a first time offender, if the kid is over the age of 15, the adult does not need put on the sexual predator list if they are under 25. They do need to serve jail time though.
I know y'all probably won't like my opinion for the most part.
Edit: I want to clarify two things.
Regarding girls: I simply meant they are more likely to be bullied through physical intimidation or emotional arguments.
Regarding the Predator List: In case where the teen says they knew what they were doing. Because many do say they were aware of all o the different personal consequences involved with that decision
This post was edited on 4/22/15 at 8:49 am
Posted on 4/22/15 at 8:46 am to mikelbr
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ut.... let's not pretend there aren't primal differences between men and women, boys and girls after puberty. MOST 15 yr old boys WANT to frick anything. MOST 15 yr old girls want to save it for the 'right guy'.
I'm the parent of a 13 year old boy and can tell you for a fact that dynamic is shifting. The girls are just as, if not more, aggressive in perusing boys.
And from what my wife tells me after talking to her friends with teen girls, more and more teen girls now think and act just like teen boys when it comes to sex. Society has taught girls for the past 20-30 years that girls are no different than boys and can do anything boys can do. That's all well and good but one of the side effects is now we have a lot of teen girls running around with a teen boy's mentality.
Posted on 4/22/15 at 8:52 am to ksayetiger
The facts of life are that girls 15-17 have fully developed adult bodies. Probably only the last 150 years of human history have girls this age not been married and starting families.
Boys at this age are still a few years away from fully developed adult bodies but they are pretty darn close.
Boys wont be emotionally wrecked from sex with a teacher at that age. Girls who have sex that early(with a man they will never marry or be with) will be. Id argue that sex for a girl at this age has the same effect whether it be with a man 15 years older or 15 year old Jimmy who rode his bike to her house.
The main deal with teachers is the 1) Conflict of interest and 2) Parents should be able to trust the adults who interact with their kids all day to not defile their kids
Boys at this age are still a few years away from fully developed adult bodies but they are pretty darn close.
Boys wont be emotionally wrecked from sex with a teacher at that age. Girls who have sex that early(with a man they will never marry or be with) will be. Id argue that sex for a girl at this age has the same effect whether it be with a man 15 years older or 15 year old Jimmy who rode his bike to her house.
The main deal with teachers is the 1) Conflict of interest and 2) Parents should be able to trust the adults who interact with their kids all day to not defile their kids
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