- My Forums
- Tiger Rant
- LSU Recruiting
- SEC Rant
- Saints Talk
- Pelicans Talk
- More Sports Board
- Fantasy Sports
- Golf Board
- Soccer Board
- O-T Lounge
- Tech Board
- Home/Garden Board
- Outdoor Board
- Health/Fitness Board
- Movie/TV Board
- Book Board
- Music Board
- Political Talk
- Money Talk
- Fark Board
- Gaming Board
- Travel Board
- Food/Drink Board
- Ticket Exchange
- TD Help Board
Customize My Forums- View All Forums
- Show Left Links
- Topic Sort Options
- Trending Topics
- Recent Topics
- Active Topics
Started By
Message

How would you feel if the wife came home one day with a new car?
Posted on 3/9/20 at 9:17 am
Posted on 3/9/20 at 9:17 am
Let’s say you talked about it being somewhat time, it was a topic on the radar, but you’ve yet to go look or have any serious talk about it. She brings her current car to the dealership for maintenance one afternoon and comes home with a new car with you having no real decision or idea about it until she pulls up in the driveway?
Happened to my neighbor. They seemed to be laughing about it, but am I too old school to think I’d be pissed beyond belief in this scenario?
Happened to my neighbor. They seemed to be laughing about it, but am I too old school to think I’d be pissed beyond belief in this scenario?
This post was edited on 3/9/20 at 9:18 am
Posted on 3/9/20 at 9:18 am to BabyTac
My wife would have trouble paying for it while being a single mom.
Posted on 3/9/20 at 9:18 am to BabyTac
Sounds like his pimp hand needs a workout.
Posted on 3/9/20 at 9:18 am to BabyTac
A purchase of that significance without consulting the other spouse is more than likely an indication of communication issues inside the home between the two.
Either that, or a lack of respect for one another.
Either that, or a lack of respect for one another.
Posted on 3/9/20 at 9:19 am to BabyTac
Wouldn't happen in my house. My wife hates car dealers and negotiating, and she prefers I handle the maintenance of the vehicles.
But to go a long with the hypothetical, it would not go over well since that is a large financial decision. We don't make those without talking to each other.
But to go a long with the hypothetical, it would not go over well since that is a large financial decision. We don't make those without talking to each other.
Posted on 3/9/20 at 9:19 am to BabyTac
the nerve of allowing a grownup to make their own decisions.....
**clutches pearls!!!!!
**clutches pearls!!!!!
Posted on 3/9/20 at 9:21 am to BabyTac
quote:
She brings her current car to the dealership for maintenance one afternoon and comes home with a new car
I sold cars for a while, and this is taught on day 1! You can usually get people to get a "newer model with the same or an even lower note." It's like shooing fish in a barrel. People don;t care about the 72 months of financing
Posted on 3/9/20 at 9:21 am to BabyTac
Depends on their financial situation, I suppose
Posted on 3/9/20 at 9:21 am to LSU$$$
quote:you are single and in high school or college, arent you?
the nerve of allowing a grownup to make their own decisions.....
**clutches pearls!!!!!
This post was edited on 3/9/20 at 9:22 am
Posted on 3/9/20 at 9:22 am to BabyTac
There's a King of a Hill episode on this.
Posted on 3/9/20 at 9:23 am to BabyTac
It may just happen in my household soon. Wife has been harping on getting a new car for about a couple of months now. What she wants and what our budget will allow are not in congruence though, so I've been winning the battle so far. She keeps threatening she's going to just go buy one, but I'm pretty sure she's just bluffing. She's never bought a car herself and the whole process gives her horrible anxiety. I'd honestly be thrilled if she went out and bought one she liked within our budget.
I have found a handful of cars that check almost every box in what she wants, and she always finds one thing she doesn't like about it and nixes it. It's maddening.
I have found a handful of cars that check almost every box in what she wants, and she always finds one thing she doesn't like about it and nixes it. It's maddening.
Posted on 3/9/20 at 9:23 am to CoachChappy
quote:
"newer model with the same or an even lower note."
I don't know how people fall for this foolishness.
Posted on 3/9/20 at 9:24 am to CarRamrod
quote:
you are single and in high school or college, arent you?
nope to all of those. My wife has her own money, chooses her own vehicles and enjoys shopping for them. I am available for consultation if she chooses, but in the end, it's her decision
Posted on 3/9/20 at 9:24 am to BabyTac
quote:I would be ecstatic that she took it on herself to get it done. Hallelujah, something I don't have to do is done.......yay.
Happened to my neighbor. They seemed to be laughing about it, but am I too old school to think I’d be pissed beyond belief in this scenario?
Posted on 3/9/20 at 9:25 am to BabyTac
My wife works very hard and makes good money, but she would buy something much less expensive than I’d want for her. She’d be happy with a Camry. She drives something much nicer than that though.
Posted on 3/9/20 at 9:26 am to BabyTac
Women can make their own financial decisions without having to ask their husband. I have no problem with this at all so long as the purchase doesn't jeopardize their overall financial health.
If my wife traded in her car today and bought a $250k McClaren then we would have a talk.
If my wife traded in her car today and bought a $250k McClaren then we would have a talk.
Posted on 3/9/20 at 9:26 am to BabyTac
Wouldn't bother me. We both work and basically buy whatever we want when we want it. If she needs a new car, it wouldn't bother me at all if she went out and bought one and vice versa.
But then again, we're not poor
But then again, we're not poor
This post was edited on 3/9/20 at 9:28 am
Posted on 3/9/20 at 9:26 am to BabyTac
quote:
She brings her current car to the dealership for maintenance one afternoon and comes home with a new car with you having no real decision or idea about it until she pulls up in the driveway?
My wife surprised me with a new truck when I was overseas two years ago. Traded in my old car as well.
quote:
Happened to my neighbor. They seemed to be laughing about it, but am I too old school to think I’d be pissed beyond belief in this scenario?
Why would you be pissed? I was happy as hell.
Popular
Back to top

60










