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re: How to not be depressed?

Posted on 3/30/19 at 10:39 am to
Posted by Saltwatersoul04
The Island
Member since Apr 2013
1401 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 10:39 am to
Well, why did she break up with you?
Posted by Tridentds
Sugar Land
Member since Aug 2011
24150 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 10:39 am to
Getting out of that liberal cesspool in Austin would be a good start for you. Sounds like you got soft and now live in self-pity/victimization mode. Pick yourself up, watch a few Trump rallies, and quit putting up with unecessary bullshite.
Posted by Jalbow3
Trussville
Member since Oct 2008
4102 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 10:39 am to
It's better that it happened now. You didn't want to marry her and then 10 years down the road it happened. It definitely would have too, she would start thinking about never experiencing things and next thing you know, she's fricking someone else.
Posted by Collegedropout
Where Northern Mexico meets Dixie
Member since May 2017
5202 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 10:40 am to
Not entirely sure, but pretty much because she moved away for college and doesn’t see me anymore
Posted by Collegedropout
Where Northern Mexico meets Dixie
Member since May 2017
5202 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 10:41 am to
We haven’t talked about politics in weeks, I haven’t been interested in the subject lately. That’s not why.

I have a fast metabolism, couldn’t get fat if I wanted to.
Posted by Jalbow3
Trussville
Member since Oct 2008
4102 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 10:43 am to
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Not entirely sure, but pretty much because she moved away for college and doesn’t see me anymore


In the nicest way possible, I want you to know that she was already with someone else.

Go do shite. Hook up with as many girls that you possibly can.
Posted by castorinho
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Member since Nov 2010
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Posted on 3/30/19 at 10:44 am to
Posted by gumbo2176
Member since May 2018
20357 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 10:47 am to
Yeah, it always kind of stings when relationships end, but give it time and you'll see there's going to be someone else in your life and the one just gone will become a distant memory.

I've been divorced twice and to be honest, I don't give a rats arse about either of the 2 women no longer in my life, but at the time I was pretty down on life.

Don't drop out, get out of bed and start getting a life that has meaning without the ex. Believe me, it's there, you just don't see it yet.
This post was edited on 3/30/19 at 10:48 am
Posted by KLSU
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2003
11198 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 10:48 am to
Dude, there are over 143 million woman in America alone. The odds of her being the only one that can make you happy are null.

Take some time to yourself, live and enjoy life, another woman will appreciate you for it and you will be better off in the long run.

Good luck.
Posted by Chuck Barris
Member since Apr 2013
3383 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 10:49 am to
If it helps, what you're going through right now is actually a very common experience. Almost everyone over a certain age has had a relationship end and thought "What's the point of life? I'll never find anyone like her/him again!" Then, after a shorter time than we thought, we move on with our lives.

Get somebody to hang with you and give you a reason to get out of bed for the next day or two, but do not waste thousands of dollars on this by dropping your classes for a semester. You can drag your arse to class and get your work done for the next two months.

It hurts when relationships end, but it's also an inevitable part of life. We all have to learn how to deal with those feelings while taking care of our responsibilities.
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
80798 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 10:53 am to
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Girlfriend broke up with me and I feel like my life is over... I will likely never find somebody like her again.
Are you serious or trolling? There are a shite ton of girls like her out there. She's not special or unique. You have got to be shitting us.
quote:

Probably going to drop my classes for the semester and try to prepare myself for next semester.
They let you do that in 7th grade these days?
This post was edited on 3/30/19 at 10:56 am
Posted by Brazos
Member since Oct 2013
20557 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 10:53 am to
Right now you probably think she’s the finest, funniest, best piece of tail you will ever get but you are so wrong. Someone else will come along and you will forget her quick.
Posted by LSURussian
Member since Feb 2005
135363 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 10:53 am to
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but pretty much because she moved away for college and doesn’t see me anymore
Translation: She found someone else.
Posted by jcaz
Laffy
Member since Aug 2014
19447 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 10:54 am to
Don’t worry. Walt will be by soon to remind you why your life is still pretty great.
Posted by Collegedropout
Where Northern Mexico meets Dixie
Member since May 2017
5202 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 10:55 am to
I don't know how old you are but most girls that are my age have literally been fricking a different guy a month since 8th grade. There are not that many girls like her, in America at least.

Posted by Hot Carl
Prayers up for 3
Member since Dec 2005
62909 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 10:55 am to
Watch Swingers
Posted by Tempratt
Member since Oct 2013
15302 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 10:55 am to
quote:

Girlfriend broke up with me and I feel like my life is over


I know it's hard but someday you'll look back and wonder why you ever cared.

I had a similar situation in high school.
We busted each other's cherries. It crushed me to think about her body against some other dude's. She was special to me.
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
80798 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 10:56 am to
bullshite. Quit hanging around trash.

BTW, this is one of the most pitiful threads I've ever read on here.
Posted by MightyYat
StB Garden District
Member since Jan 2009
25029 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 10:57 am to
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I can hardly even leave my bed


Over a girl?

Man, college kids today are pussies. If a girl broke up with you when I was at LSU you just headed to Tigerland and handled your business.
Posted by MettShow69
The Woodlands, TX
Member since Nov 2015
482 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 10:57 am to
Went through the same kind of thing about a year ago. It sucks, baw. It takes a little while to come to realization that it IS NOT the end of the world. The first few months really suck, but it starts to taper off quickly once you get over the big hump. Frick that bish.

Get out of the house, go work out, go hang out with friends. Go do stuff that you weren’t usually able to do when you were dating her. By dwelling on the break up, you’re only setting yourself back and giving her the power. Work on yourself and work to the point where you are happy with yourself. That’s when someone new will come into your life out of the blue. It’s hard to accept that now, but it’s true. This situation takes time.

At the end of the day, this is life. This will ultimately make you a better person and teach you lessons about tough life issues and how to persevere. Hang in there.

I am a million times more happy about my life now and tend to laugh at how upset I was in the past when I would get caught up in the moment. And oh yeah, that reminds me - don’t get caught up in the moment.

ETA: and wake the frick up and go to class. Don’t be a giant pussy.
This post was edited on 3/30/19 at 11:15 am
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