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re: How to meet women after college?

Posted on 6/18/17 at 6:15 pm to
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
60658 posts
Posted on 6/18/17 at 6:15 pm to
Read the OP. He obviously doesn't know what he's doing.

Fat brown with no money don't pull at Fred's.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
98943 posts
Posted on 6/18/17 at 6:16 pm to
Maybe he can tell them he plays online. They'll be standing in line for him
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
122147 posts
Posted on 6/18/17 at 6:17 pm to
I am not what you would call "a ladies man" or anything, but how do you not know how to meet women? Network. It all comes down to networking. Go out with a few friends, yall go somewhere and at least one of your friends runs into someone he knows, he introduces you to them and then yall get to talking and find out yall know some of the same people.

You get in touch with the person yall both know and tell "guess who I had the opportunity to meet the other night?", then yall talk and say "man, we need to put something together and go out soon". Yall plan something. You meet some of his friends, one of the friends is about to get married to this chick who has a sister who is single and he is like "dude, I need to introduce you to my girl's sister", but the more people who have access to the better chance you have of making things happen.
Posted by OchoDedos
Republic of Texas
Member since Oct 2014
39906 posts
Posted on 6/18/17 at 6:18 pm to
There's a Korean Whore House in Galveston that caters to guy's just like you.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
60658 posts
Posted on 6/18/17 at 6:20 pm to
quote:

I am not what you would call "a ladies man" or anything,
there's a big surprise
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
150320 posts
Posted on 6/18/17 at 6:26 pm to
quote:

I am not what you would call "a ladies man" or anything


Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
150320 posts
Posted on 6/18/17 at 6:26 pm to
quote:

I am not what you would call "a ladies man" or anything


Posted by Tempratt
Member since Oct 2013
15195 posts
Posted on 6/18/17 at 6:30 pm to
Ferrari.
Semi ridgid object in your pants.
Posted by johnnyrocket
Ghetto once known as Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2013
9790 posts
Posted on 6/18/17 at 6:31 pm to
Man there is some women at places like WholeFoods, gym, and places chicks hangout.

Just start a conversation, don't be creepy, relax and talk about crap they like, and have fun. A good relaxing conversation in a place chicks feel comfortable is a panty dropper right there. Make them laugh.

Example
In the army I met a pretty single hot blonde a few years older than me by just doing clothes in a laundry mat off post. I had her laughing and she invited me to dinner and you know.
Posted by vengeanceofrain
depends
Member since Jun 2013
12465 posts
Posted on 6/18/17 at 6:40 pm to
quote:

am not what you would call "a ladies man" or anything, but how do you not know how to meet women? Network. It all comes down to networking. Go out with a few friends, yall go somewhere and at least one of your friends runs into someone he knows, he introduces you to them and then yall get to talking and find out yall know some of the same people. You get in touch with the person yall both know and tell "guess who I had the opportunity to meet the other night?", then yall talk and say "man, we need to put something together and go out soon". Yall plan something. You meet some of his friends, one of the friends is about to get married to this chick who has a sister who is single and he is like "dude, I need to introduce you to my girl's sister", but the more people who have access to the better chance you have of making things happen.



i hate to be that guy, and i don't want to turn into goldennugget or antyhing lol, but this is god awful advice


see, men fear rejection. all game really is, is getting over the fear of rejection from the opposite sex. your basttle, your real battle, isn't the fear of women, it's the fear of being rejected.


by networking, all you are doing is creating a buffer area where you can still approach a woman but the fear of being outright rejected is almost nil. I mean at worst she will keep you around in the Let's just be friends world and your ego can handle that becuase it's not a hard reject


the only good thing about networking is that it is a buffer from rejection


the bad thing about networking is

- when you break up, if you even get that far, you make things uncomfortable around your friends. its the same rewasosn i won't work for friends or do business with friends.

- your dating life is not in your control you are at the mercey of the winds of your friends network. like a fish swimming in the current. you want to be the shark that can go where the frick it wants to go when it wants to fricking go there.


- you can't run proper game on someone your friends know becuase she will bitch and moan to your buddiues and they will get on yoru case and call you a prick.


- the pressure from all your friends in your network to "man up" then when she leaves you all the same friends applaud her for being so strong for leaving


- everyone has difference faces. i have a business face, a gambling face, a friend face, a fiancee face, a father face. i want them to be as different as i can possibly have them. when i'm chnillin with the misses on a tuesday night at red lobster i don't want to be on a double date with the same people who were over my house saturday night while we were watchying football.



don't be a bitch. sack up and go out and talk to women.

becuase i wrork from home it's hard for me to just run into women or people in general so everyday for at least an hour i make myselkf get out the house and go somewhere and talk to peple who i don't know. meeting women really ain't hard man and that power gives you leverage in a relationship. knowing you can go to out and get a womans number at random or know that you ain't go be too far after a date, like if my girl left tomorrow i can go out and get a number tomorrow and be out on a date wedneady night no questions asked. that is a liberating thought. that's what you want. frick networking. l


random arse places i've metr women i've ended up fricking

- the library
- barnes and noble
- ful lin resturant in little rock
- swimming pool
- buying a new car
- shopoing for clothes


just go out and do shite and talk to people
This post was edited on 6/18/17 at 6:42 pm
Posted by TigerChief10
Member since Dec 2012
10858 posts
Posted on 6/18/17 at 6:40 pm to
This has to be a troll. No one with this low of self esteem would ever post this and subject themselves to this ridicule even if its anonymous. However, I'm sure there are guys actually in your position reading the thread for advice. My advice is to stop following one girl and broaden your general pool of women you are trying to trick into sleeping with you. Don't say shite like you just want a good girl to treat right no matter how much she complains to you about getting treated like shite. Even if you think you're getting closer to her, you aren't in the way you want to be. She will instantly place you in the friend zone.
Basically, be sorta a dick and project confidence even if it's fake.

It also sounds like you're too worried about losing your virginity. It's not a big deal at all and sometimes I can't even remember who I lost it to. You should just go out and frick the first chick with low self esteem that's not too much of a whale and get it out of the way. For a lot of people after you bag the first one they start rolling in quickly.
This post was edited on 6/18/17 at 6:50 pm
Posted by Jcorye1
Tom Brady = GoAT
Member since Dec 2007
76373 posts
Posted on 6/18/17 at 7:26 pm to
There are plenty of places. The best way is to find a hobby of what you like to do, join a group or two that does said hobby, and speak to the women there. It gives you a shared interest to talk about, and you can get to know if it would be a good fit or not.
Posted by Jcorye1
Tom Brady = GoAT
Member since Dec 2007
76373 posts
Posted on 6/18/17 at 7:27 pm to
quote:

This has to be a troll. No one with this low of self esteem would ever post this and subject themselves to this ridicule even if its anonymous.


It's a legit question, why does he have to have low self esteem?
Posted by PiscesTiger
Concrete, WA
Member since Feb 2004
53696 posts
Posted on 6/18/17 at 7:47 pm to
frick you Bumbling Tender motherfrickers.

Either you have it or you don't.

The dumb-arse 28-38 year olds I now who still use Bumble and Tender are narcissistic disphits who have issues that the 99 percent of people they meet everyday/interact with regularly are already turned off by.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 6/18/17 at 7:49 pm to
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Maybe he can tell them he plays online. They'll be standing in line for him


Or he can pull a GHAZI and pay $250 for a handjob
Posted by TigerChief10
Member since Dec 2012
10858 posts
Posted on 6/18/17 at 7:50 pm to
Read the way he talks about himself. He has no confidence. People that aren't confident in themselves don't subject themselves?to humiliation which is why he's so scared to talk to girls and gets rejected
Posted by TigersHuskers
Nebraska
Member since Oct 2014
15523 posts
Posted on 6/18/17 at 8:12 pm to
quote:

Or he can pull a GHAZI and pay $250 for a handjob




who the frick shells out $250 for a fricking handjob?
Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
29571 posts
Posted on 6/18/17 at 8:25 pm to
When they start noticing you making money they will flock to you.

Nailing girls in the office should be easy pickings also
Posted by KamaCausey_LSU
Member since Apr 2013
17673 posts
Posted on 6/18/17 at 8:28 pm to
Become an UBER driver and ask every girl if they want to go to your house or theirs.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
122147 posts
Posted on 6/18/17 at 8:33 pm to
quote:

see, men fear rejection. all game really is, is getting over the fear of rejection from the opposite sex. your basttle, your real battle, isn't the fear of women, it's the fear of being rejected.


The thing is, rejection is going to happen. Just look at it like baseball. When you get to the plate, more than likely there is less than a 50% chance you will not get a hit, but if you keep batting, every once in awhile you will eventually get a hit. So do you stop batting just because you have a better chance of not getting a hit than getting one?
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