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re: How to get the best deal on an engagement ring

Posted on 7/30/18 at 10:57 am to
Posted by RAG1N_T1GER77
Member since Feb 2018
144 posts
Posted on 7/30/18 at 10:57 am to
If she demands a huge rock, it's not gonna end well.
Posted by MLCLyons
Member since Nov 2012
4793 posts
Posted on 7/30/18 at 11:00 am to
pawn shop or ebay will probably get you something a lot cheaper.
Posted by 995webmaster
New Orleans
Member since Dec 2007
3780 posts
Posted on 7/30/18 at 11:03 am to
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How to get the best deal on an engagement ring


Marry a poor? A woman who'll be impressed by 1/2 carat...

Seriously, about wiggle room. In the jewelry industry, markup from wholesale to retail is ~300%. And, it's the same markup from manufacturing to wholesale: 300%. I used to work for a company that both manufactured and retailed high end jewelry, so we marked up 600%

There's definitely wiggle room in the system. Whether that will do you any good, doubtful.
Posted by GeeOH
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2013
13376 posts
Posted on 7/30/18 at 11:10 am to
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And how many experts are gonna scrutinize the ring. My wife has a $20 cz ring that she wears sometimes and other women always compliment it.


That's my point. In everyday life, most everyone never sits with an expert, ever.
So even at a convention of jewelers, basically none could visually point it out as fake without grabbing her hand and holding a magnifying lens up to it.
Posted by GeeOH
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2013
13376 posts
Posted on 7/30/18 at 11:13 am to
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The good lab stones are pricey, some almost as mush as regular stones. But experts can tell a difference and the equipment needed if unable is usually at every jeweler and not expensive as made to seem in quote


About 40% cheaper and should come down more as circulation increases
Posted by Boudreaux35
BR
Member since Sep 2007
22281 posts
Posted on 7/30/18 at 11:21 am to
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How to get the best deal on an engagement ring


Most important: Learn about what you're buying. If you don't know anything about diamonds, you'll be the soccer mom walking into a car dealership repair department.
This post was edited on 7/30/18 at 11:22 am
Posted by Snipe
Member since Nov 2015
17175 posts
Posted on 7/30/18 at 11:26 am to
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you have to Jew around with them.




Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 7/30/18 at 11:29 am to
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They will call you with a price... say you know i really like the diamond but the price is out of my range. They will come down 15-20% and then you say i think im gonna pass. Then you call them back and give them your price which is another 10% lower and say if you meet it ill buy it period. I do this shite with window companies and everything... they will always come down to your price.




They'll actually just offer you something cheaper
Posted by madmaxvol
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Posted on 7/30/18 at 11:31 am to
Your question is best answered by a song:

Loving County - Charlie Robison
Posted by Hopeful Doc
Member since Sep 2010
15388 posts
Posted on 7/30/18 at 12:26 pm to
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synthetic lab made diamonds are actually better than natural. And cost about 30% of naturals cost



There's synthetic diamond and there's diamond simulants. Lab/synthetic diamonds are nearly the price of natural ones (up to 30% less according to this chart). When I was shopping, they weren't very far off regular diamond prices.
Simulated diamonds, however, are much, much cheaper. They're also difficult to tell apart, but it's possible even for a non-gemologist to see, namely because you can assume that someone isn't 22 years old and dropping what should be $15K on a ring.


The chart is from a Nexus Diamond Alternative website, so it's clearly pushing you in that direction when you read it, but the whole point is that there are lab-created diamonds and lab-created diamond-like stones. The former isn't much cheaper if at all. The latter is super cheap and very high quality.


And for whatever it's worth, I bought one from the ground because my wife "really like(s) rocks and think(s) it is cool that it came from the ground."




ETA: You can get an utterly beautiful ring that's great quality for very cheap if you get a simulated diamond, and I didn't mean that anyone should be ashamed that it's not a real diamond or anything like that. Nor do I really care if someone's walking around with a 2 Carat stone on their hand, whether it's diamond or not. I was trying to say that the only real way a normal person would know it's fake is by knowing what a stone of that sort of quality should cost and then assuming that most people couldn't afford natural diamond of that quality. And moissanite has somewhat of a unique shine to it that only it really has, I've noticed.
This post was edited on 7/30/18 at 12:30 pm
Posted by crazycubes
Member since Jan 2016
5256 posts
Posted on 7/30/18 at 12:45 pm to
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Pay cash for it and your wedding ring.
no sales tax = nice little savings
Posted by wasteland
City of peace
Member since Apr 2011
5923 posts
Posted on 7/30/18 at 1:13 pm to
I have a friend thats a jewelry wholesaler. We had one of her suppliers design and construct it. I paid about 30% of the appraised price
Posted by Chad504boy
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Member since Feb 2005
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Posted on 7/30/18 at 1:14 pm to
estate auctions.
Posted by Napoleon
Kenna
Member since Dec 2007
74883 posts
Posted on 7/30/18 at 1:15 pm to
The best ones are heirlooms. Ask a family member for a ring.
Posted by ChineseBandit66
Denver, Colorado
Member since Jul 2013
1794 posts
Posted on 7/30/18 at 1:17 pm to
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down up to 40%


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Jew


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They’re all pretty much the same.




Anyways, you need to buy loose diamonds and have'em set etc. Its way more cost effective and you can save that 40% if you know folks.
This post was edited on 7/30/18 at 1:20 pm
Posted by mmmmmbeeer
ATL
Member since Nov 2014
10189 posts
Posted on 7/30/18 at 1:59 pm to
Ebay.

Find some dude who broke off his engagement and is stuck with a ring. This is how I got my wife's wing....paid $3k for an $8k ring. He had the papers. Went and got it appraised for insurance and jeweler said I got a steal.
Posted by HaveMercy
Member since Dec 2014
3000 posts
Posted on 7/30/18 at 2:10 pm to
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three months salary" bull shite


This reminded me of when Michael Scott proposed to Holly with that big assed diamond - and says it's supossed to be worth three years salary, right. LOL

Heading to the TV board now!

Oh, and OP look at estate jewelry. This is becoming popular.
Posted by seawolf06
NH
Member since Oct 2007
8159 posts
Posted on 7/30/18 at 2:13 pm to
Go online and get a Moissanite stone. Then find a jeweler that will make a ring for you.
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
103847 posts
Posted on 7/30/18 at 3:05 pm to
Buy a used one from a friend whose marriage didn't work for couple hundred bucks.
Posted by TejasHorn
High Plains Driftin'
Member since Mar 2007
11814 posts
Posted on 7/30/18 at 3:27 pm to
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No need to spend more than $2k.


I beg to differ, but I realize it depends on the financial situation. Otherwise sane chicks will go bat shite over rings and what their friends have.

James Allen or Blue Nile are very reputable online outlets and cheaper than other retail. Would start there.
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